First, you tell him that you don't want to have sex but just cuddle. Then you proceed to tell him that you want to do a 3 way. Basically, you're telling him that you're interested in having sex with other guys. So are you surprised that you two ended up fighting? And why are you waiting for an apology? It should be you who needs to apologize to him!
I could not be bothered to read the initial post, which meant reading any of the replies seem silly, so I will answer what I am guessing is your question, which has something to do with sex. Lots of animals communicate, but only humans use words.