PR_GMR saidPeople using the term 'clean'..people 'insisting their date partner gets tested before dating.' It's sad to see gay men judging and rejecting one another over status. The best men I've met in the past years have been poz. Go figure.
It's your body. It's your life. Fucking without condoms? It's your decision.
First off, it is very laughable when people indirectly talk about other people. I am the one talking about testing with your partner and asking people if they are clean, so why didn't you quote me?
It is a very personal matter whether to pursue relations with a poz guy. Poz people need to be understanding of that. Yes, some HIV- people are rude and disrespctful, even unsympathetic, but when it comes to being sexually active with someone who they know to be poz, it is reasonable for them to err on the side of caution.
You said it yourself.. "It's your body. It's your life." So why is there such a stigma to not wanting to have sexual relations with guys who have STDs or HIV? Conditions that are not curable?
I am so over the gay guys who try to act all politically correct as if there are standardized rules to being gay.