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    Sep 14, 2013 1:40 PM GMT
    Hey guys, so... Im talking with someone right now, and we've been doin stuff in bed. He is rather... largely endowed in my opinion. im not a size queen by any means, but I do enjoy letting him think im obsessed with his big dick because I get super turned on when the other gets really turned on. We tried sex but... I couldnt take it for very long. It felt like I had to pee after a while, and it didnt feel as good as someone who had a bit of a smaller dick. I want it to feel good so bad! but im afraid of it hurting all the time.... is it something I just need to get use to? Granted Ive only had full on sex with one other guy.... Any tips would be great!!

    P.S. I already know I need to get relaxed.... im pretty relaxed during sex...i mean its sex.
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    Sep 14, 2013 1:46 PM GMT
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    Sep 14, 2013 1:47 PM GMT
    Turin said5616301991_175384948_head_scratch_final_
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    Oh god... is this a weird question? someone tell me, ill delete it
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    Sep 14, 2013 1:50 PM GMT
    how about u top him instead?

  • PR_GMR

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    Sep 14, 2013 1:51 PM GMT
    No. Not a weird question. Suggestions for you:

    --Use plenty of lube and tell him to take it slow at first.
    --Buy a toy about his size and 'practice' in between sessions.
    --Poppers. They're a relaxant.
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    Sep 14, 2013 1:52 PM GMT
    k10malau said
    Turin said5616301991_175384948_head_scratch_final_
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    Oh god... is this a weird question? someone tell me, ill delete it


    I am confused what you wrote.
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    Sep 14, 2013 1:54 PM GMT
    Cooper87 saidhow about u top him instead?




    Well... 1.) hes a total top... which is fine to me... whatever... cause im really open in bed. and 2.) I like the fact that hes dominant... i wouldnt wanna top him

    Thanks PR for that! the poppers i might pass on, but the dildo idea is really good!
  • rnch

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    Sep 14, 2013 2:55 PM GMT
    k10malau said... the poppers i might pass on, but the dildo idea is really good!



    Today's poppers are not as noxious or as strong as the ones of years past. They are an excellent temporary tool for "loosening up" and enhancing anal sex, for both you and your top man. I Strongly Suggest you give both (poppers and a dildo) a try.


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    Sep 14, 2013 4:37 PM GMT
    that song wind it up gave good advice..

    You've got to let the beat get under your sin.. you've got to open up and let it all in ... LOL
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    Sep 14, 2013 6:37 PM GMT
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  • Gayslut

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    Sep 16, 2013 2:03 PM GMT
    Use Poppers my dear. It'll put u in sexual heaven.
    Also, assume the bottom on top position. Gives u more control on how deep u wanna take him in.

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  • Apparition

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    Sep 16, 2013 6:02 PM GMT
    bring the other guy back for the opening act..lol.

    SOMETIMES a cock is just too big. Perhaps if we had pictures we could tell you better...lol.
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    Sep 27, 2013 4:06 AM GMT
    k10malau saidHey guys, so... Im talking with someone right now, and we've been doin stuff in bed. He is rather... largely endowed in my opinion. im not a size queen by any means, but I do enjoy letting him think im obsessed with his big dick because I get super turned on when the other gets really turned on. We tried sex but... I couldnt take it for very long. It felt like I had to pee after a while, and it didnt feel as good as someone who had a bit of a smaller dick. I want it to feel good so bad! but im afraid of it hurting all the time.... is it something I just need to get use to? Granted Ive only had full on sex with one other guy.... Any tips would be great!!

    P.S. I already know I need to get relaxed.... im pretty relaxed during sex...i mean its sex.
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    As a well endowed top I think is my job to get inside you painlessly learning how your body responds to me learning what feels good to you. I assure I will make you feel good. All you have to do is let me control you.
  • Jock89XL

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    Dec 10, 2013 12:30 PM GMT
    More lube, relax and poppers.

    caugh when he is entering and JO while fucks you.

    It's great!
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    Dec 14, 2013 2:29 PM GMT
    k10malau saidHey guys, so... Im talking with someone right now, and we've been doin stuff in bed. He is rather... largely endowed in my opinion. im not a size queen by any means, but I do enjoy letting him think im obsessed with his big dick because I get super turned on when the other gets really turned on. We tried sex but... I couldnt take it for very long. It felt like I had to pee after a while, and it didnt feel as good as someone who had a bit of a smaller dick. I want it to feel good so bad! but im afraid of it hurting all the time.... is it something I just need to get use to? Granted Ive only had full on sex with one other guy.... Any tips would be great!!

    P.S. I already know I need to get relaxed.... im pretty relaxed during sex...i mean its sex.


    It sounds like your prostate and surrounding nerves may have been overstimulated (hence the sensation of having to empty your bladder). Try a different position at first, or go a lot slower. Prostate stimulation via anal sex can be very pleasurable but there is such a thing as too much of a good thing. Being in an aroused state prior to anal sex may be beneficial, with an erection, your body may interpret the sensation of a penis inside you in a different manner.

    Just my thoughts...