Boring

  • RangerJoshD

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    Sep 15, 2013 6:41 AM GMT
    It's weird how when I first talk to a guy we just chat up a storm. We're constantly texting each other for a few days and then suddenly out of nowhere the texts just stop. So maybe ill say hey what's up?, on a new day or whatever but still nothing. It's like they got bored of talking to me. I don't think of myself as a boring person at all. But I feel as if I am because this happens every single time. So I don't know if I'm boring or if its something else....
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    Sep 15, 2013 6:43 AM GMT
    Because texting is boring. Why don't you actually hangout with him? Go get a drink/lunch or something.
  • RangerJoshD

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    Sep 15, 2013 7:01 AM GMT
    ReluctantPromises said
    RangerJoshD saidIt's weird how when I first talk to a guy we just chat up a storm. We're constantly texting each other for a few days and then suddenly out of nowhere the texts just stop. So maybe ill say hey what's up?, on a new day or whatever but still nothing. It's like they got bored of talking to me. I don't think of myself as a boring person at all. But I feel as if I am because this happens every single time. So I don't know if I'm boring or if its something else....


    Maybe he just loses interest. Maybe he was looking for something else. Maybe he's busy. Maybe he's an asshole. Maybe it's Maybelline.


    He even told me to add him on snapchat and we were talking on there and then he just stopped...so I guess your right
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    Sep 15, 2013 7:21 AM GMT
    ReluctantPromises saidMaybe he just loses interest. Maybe he was looking for something else. Maybe he's busy. Maybe he's an asshole. Maybe it's Maybelline.
    Definitely the Maybelline.
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    Sep 15, 2013 8:32 AM GMT
    Met quite few of guys like yours too, either they say they are working or didn't switch on their data. I guess they got bored by texting, but I always make an effort to know them through texting before calling them. Just to get familiar with them, and they lost interest so so so easily. All they want is just a quick hookup without the 'getting to know you' part anyway.
  • RangerJoshD

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    Sep 15, 2013 8:40 PM GMT
    That is exactly what I'm thinking.
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    Sep 15, 2013 8:42 PM GMT
    If your technique of meeting new men is text related, you bore me too much to answer any more of your boring post.
  • Just_Tim

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    Sep 15, 2013 9:55 PM GMT
    Next time, if you get the chance, go out and spend some real time together! Why not? A relationship with nothing but texting is rough. I can definitely see a lot of people getting bored with it, if that's ALL there is. Or maybe that guy was just a flake!
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    Sep 15, 2013 10:07 PM GMT
    Agree with what was previously said...Texting is informal. You are not going to get to know someone that way. Face to face is much better, have lunch, go on a picnic, go out to dinner; go for a walk. And if distance is a problem...have a good ole fashion Ear to Ear...
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    Sep 15, 2013 10:23 PM GMT
    I agree with the meeting in person thing. It only takes a few minutes for me to decide if I want to meet a guy in person.