How would you feel if your boyfriend was a Gogo dancer at a gay club ?

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    Sep 15, 2013 7:07 PM GMT
    This guy i know of said he makes about $700-$900 a night and a new gay bar has opened and i'm a dancer and they asked me to be a gogo dancer because one of the workers has already seem me dance..An all you have to do is dance around in skimpy clothes. Alot of people have moral hangups about things like this but i'm a bit more relaxed and open minded, but if your boyfriend was a Gogo dancer at a gay bar with guys flirting with him constantly how would you feel ? Would you be ok with it ? Would you ever date one ?
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    Sep 15, 2013 7:32 PM GMT
    I would be up there dancing with him.
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    Sep 15, 2013 7:35 PM GMT
    I havent decided yet weather or not I'm going to do it, but it seems like it could be fun
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    Sep 15, 2013 7:37 PM GMT
    CopperDevil saidI havent decided yet weather or not I'm going to do it, but it seems like it could be fun

    I say go for it. It seems like a great time.
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    Sep 15, 2013 7:47 PM GMT
    I'm old fashioned. I wouldn't want my boyfriend showing off his goods for random strangers. And having them paw him. And then being seen in public with him and having people recognize him. Nah.

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    Sep 15, 2013 7:51 PM GMT
    I probably wouldn't like it at all. I'd rather be dating a person who's more wholesome and has more class than that. But that's just me. If that makes me closed-minded so be it.
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    Sep 15, 2013 7:58 PM GMT
    Dawnbreaker saidI'd rather be dating a person who's more wholesome and has more class than that.

    I think there's inherent sexism in how we feel about this. It's more acceptable for women to show off their bodies and be a sex object but much less acceptable for a man to do that.
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    Sep 15, 2013 8:02 PM GMT
    It's a job.
    So, what ?
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    Sep 15, 2013 8:33 PM GMT
    Hmm... he'd be working while I'm sleeping. Not sure how that would work out.

    Other than that, it might be fun to walk in at closing time and walk out with the dude that everyone else has been drooling over all night.
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    Sep 15, 2013 8:58 PM GMT
    How would you feel if your boyfriend was a Gogo dancer at a gay club ?



    My bi guy used to love to tease the gays. We'd hit the clubs and I had fun watching him on the dance floor. I knew he was coming home with me so we didn't have jealousy issues some obsess with.

    So of course it depends on who you eventually hook up with. But also, even as you are simply considering this, then whether or not you follow through, that's the type of guy you probably ought to be with anyway, someone who doesn't engage so much in jealousies or judge other by so-called morals. As if there's something morally wrong with expressing human sexuality in the form of gogo. God forbid.

    It's like guys who want to be monogamous but then get all pissed off because their boyfriend, they think, is "cheating on them" with puter porn or with another person in cyberspace.

    Beware the thought police but also be aware of your own thoughts and find someone who matches those. You can't run your life by what they think. It's tough enough to be happy with our own thoughts never mind trying to think for two.
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    Sep 15, 2013 9:08 PM GMT
    I'd be very proud.

    If you think you'd enjoy being a Gogo-dancer go for it.

    But if you didn't want your boyfriend to be a Gogodancer, tread carefully.
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    Sep 15, 2013 9:13 PM GMT
    Lumpyoatmeal said
    Dawnbreaker saidI'd rather be dating a person who's more wholesome and has more class than that.

    I think there's inherent sexism in how we feel about this. It's more acceptable for women to show off their bodies and be a sex object but much less acceptable for a man to do that.

    No, female sex objects receive my scorn too. Just look at my comments on Miley Cyrus.
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    Sep 15, 2013 9:34 PM GMT
    I guess it depends on how much trust you have in each other (as others have said). Back in the day, I knew a few go-go dancers...some were skanky, and a few could handle themselves (with the pawing and such). I mean, you can tell by their personalities, who's going to bed anyone, or who treats it like a job.


    As per your questioning, I had dated (and am best friends)with an ex-go go dancer, so no I didn't mind...as the trust was there.


    P.S. If you do take this job, see if the bar has a no picture policy, just for your piece of mind
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    Sep 15, 2013 10:07 PM GMT
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  • Sep 15, 2013 10:14 PM GMT
    Proud as hell. It's only a job.
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    Sep 15, 2013 10:35 PM GMT
    You all have given me alot to think about, not just decision wise but also the all around moral compass of how people view them.
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    Sep 15, 2013 10:40 PM GMT
    Wouldn't bother me; it's not immoral.
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    Sep 15, 2013 10:48 PM GMT
    I think that you should do it! You're gonna make good money and have a good time doing it. Go-go dancing is something that i've wanted to do for a while, but that isn't an option in my area so I can't. :^[

    Personally, I don't think I'd mind if my BF was a go-go boy.
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    Sep 15, 2013 10:48 PM GMT
    it's just dancing.
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    Sep 16, 2013 7:13 PM GMT
    I'd only be worried about his safety. If he's safe, then why the hell not? There are worse things than being boyfriends with a gogo dancer!
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    Sep 16, 2013 7:15 PM GMT
    I'd save a lot of money on tips! icon_biggrin.gif
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    Sep 16, 2013 7:19 PM GMT
    Alexxx5 saidI'd save a lot of money on tips! icon_biggrin.gif
    Hahaha +1

    It really depends on the whole trust thing.
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    Sep 16, 2013 7:28 PM GMT
    I wish my boyfriend was a gogo dancer!

    Tell me when you start. I want to come blow a paycheck on you! icon_twisted.gif
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    Sep 16, 2013 7:31 PM GMT
    Would not bother Me in the least.

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    Sep 16, 2013 7:33 PM GMT
    i do not think most people would care. i would only ask if he has future plans. i am sure he can't plan on doing that for the rest of his life.