Chatting two guys who turn out to be roommates

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    Sep 15, 2013 10:51 PM GMT
    I'd been talking to this super cute guy on Jackd for some time; he always seems only half-interested but willing to talk a lot... I wasn't interested in just chatting and the conversation died out. Recently another dude messaged me whom I wasn't as interested in, whom I ignored. Went clubbing a couple days ago, and saw both of them.

    My friends say I'm not aggressive enough as a top at picking up guys, apparently my type of guys don't like to take initiative and preferred to be manhandled lol), hence their plan for the night was to have me practice on the second guy. I ended up chatting with both guys, and they turn out to be roommates. The second guy responded better to my advances so I ended up dancing with him most of the night , with the cuter first guy nearby with his friends (first guy is a better dancer but was either uninterested, didn't want to cockblock his friend, or preferred to dance solo).

    The next morning I got messages on jackd from both of them. Now the cuter guy seems more interested than before, and we arranged a date for tonight. I was polite to the second guy, but haven't turned down his advances yet. I can just see this getting awkward very soon... advice?
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    Sep 15, 2013 11:19 PM GMT
    It might be awkward, but oh well, LOL. You won't have to deal with any of it. Situations like that, the two guys will tend to be passive aggressive towards each other and leave you out of it.
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    Sep 15, 2013 11:53 PM GMT
    You should fuck them both at the same time just to be fair and not disrupt their "roommate" relationship.
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    Sep 16, 2013 1:41 AM GMT
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    Sep 16, 2013 3:13 AM GMT
    GAMRican saidYou should fuck them both at the same time just to be fair and not disrupt their "roommate" relationship.


    yup. thats where i'd go with this
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    Sep 16, 2013 3:20 AM GMT
    ha ha ha they could be playing you. however, i say you are not dating either so keep it going. they obviously know about you talking to both so keep it going. hell you are not dating either one of them so have fun buddy. however, if it gets serious than you should let them know
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    Sep 16, 2013 3:36 AM GMT
    IRFire66 said
    GAMRican saidYou should fuck them both at the same time just to be fair and not disrupt their "roommate" relationship.


    yup. thats where i'd go with this


    And, to clairfy, OP should fuck them both IN THE SAME ROOM at the same time AND get them to fuck each other to make it a harmonious three-way.
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    Sep 16, 2013 4:33 AM GMT
    yup. i would seriously be trying to get a 3way going with this situation lol
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    Sep 17, 2013 8:17 PM GMT
    Lol Why would I lower the hotness quotient by bringing in a third whom I rejected? More isn't better!

    Anyway I told the third guy we can be friends, and once we were on friendly texting terms, i told him im into his roommate. He told me that the roommate is interested/ been talking about me, and told me to go for it. Best case scenario haha, case closed.
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    Sep 24, 2013 9:47 PM GMT
    Sounds like a three some waiting to happen icon_wink.gif