Finding that boy-next-door type - any tips?

  • saintreatham

    Posts: 1

    Sep 16, 2013 8:44 AM GMT

    I'm a young professional living in London, not into the gay clubs and online dating hasn't worked out for me that well over the years.

    Problem is, I really like the type of guy who (like myself) is comfortable with his sexuality but not overt with it.

    Anyone got any ideas of where to meet people? I'm quite friendly once I get over initial shyness; my off-the-wall theory is to talk to EVERYONE (male, female, young, old, on the tube, in shops, at the pub) and build up the social muscles, in the hope that one day, conversation leads me somewhere...

    Anyone got any experience or advice to share?

    Being catholic, ultimate aim is LTR, to give that bit of context!

  • Apparition

    Posts: 4060

    Sep 16, 2013 6:30 PM GMT
    join a group
    any online board (put up a really really long posting about what you are looking for...hookups wont read more than a sentence...the ltr will read it all and respond)
    do a team sport

    any grocery store at 8am

    ask grandma to find you somebody's nice son, old ladies live for that shit.

    make a cardboard sign on and sit on the highway, get on the 6oclock news you will land one in days

    newest one I just found. If you want a manly man...hang out at the dump/recycling centre. If you want a bear with a truck in the construction/handyman business, just look for rainbow stickers and stalk one.

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    Sep 16, 2013 6:48 PM GMT
    Move to a neighborhood with plenty of hot, smart, sexy, boy-next-door types. Location, location, location.