The Trap

  • PolitiMAC

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    Sep 17, 2013 3:56 AM GMT
    Hey everyone.

    Well, you know what it is. We've all been there before, and I'm there again.

    Liking a straight guy.

    I've never been good with making and keeping friends, so I've been a loner for most of my short life. But at my school (that I JUST finished icon_surprised.gif), there's a guy who has been a good friend to me for some time now. Sure, he has his little flaws and weirdnesses, as we all do (liking Yu Gi Oh and the hundreds of anime can be a little eye-roll worthy sometimes though).

    I never thought I was into him this way until very recently. And I think it has something to do with the green eyed monster.

    He invited me to his birthday dinner recently, which I was stoked to be invited to from the beginning. It was going great, but he has a better friend than I. He has known this other guy since Primary school, and he only really knows me two years thus far.

    So as I saw how my friend enjoyed the company of this other guy, I must admit that I got a series of envious twangs. Then I find out that my 'rival' goes to my friend's house EVERY Saturday for fun and dinner.

    Now, of course, I can hardly blame anyone else. They've known each other for a long time and that's perfectly fine. I think at times that I'm just being a selfish bitch for being jealous about their relationship. Do I really like my friend? Am I just jealous? I know that I really like his company and seeing a stronger friendship between him and another just awakened a stronger feeling of his company.

    Who knows how long I've felt this way about him subconsciously?

    Well, this post has become more of a thought bubble without a specific question, but feel free to give accounts of being attracted to someone you know you can't have and how you dealt with it.

    Thanks for reading icon_smile.gif
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    Sep 17, 2013 4:16 AM GMT
    Sweetie, Welcome to RealJock.

    Do a search on threads with "straight" "crush" "In love with straight" and see just how many times this topic has been beaten to a bloody death.


    In a nutshell, "Get over him". You're young, cute, and sweet. I'm sure you'll find plenty of hot, hunky, hung GAY man who will gladly help you to experience the man to man intimacy which you crave. Be sure to start playing with your ass and keeping it clean to prepare yourself for the first, hot, bone rattling screw.

    P.S. Start getting to the gym and make sure you work on "glutes". Men love a hot tight, young ass.
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    Sep 17, 2013 11:26 AM GMT
    Wrong territory bro, move on. I guess what you feel is a little bit left out on the Saturday dinner issue, well you can't change the fact that they've been friend for much longer, but who says that the longer the friendship is, the closer they are compared to you and him? Refresh your mind before you go too deep inside.
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    Sep 17, 2013 11:45 AM GMT
    Been there, done that, didnt end well, I wouldn't recommend or endorse it. I lost a friend and he lost his girlfriend in the process.
    Move on, there are plenty guys up the same alley as you. Agreed, who you end up crushing on isnt really always a choice, but how quickly you move on is entirely upto you.
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    Sep 17, 2013 12:04 PM GMT
    You will always play 2nd fiddle to the longer term friend. If you can resign yourself to that, then continue with the relationship. Just don't get your hopes up. Good luck.