the internet isn't a free pass to be a dick

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    Sep 19, 2013 7:14 AM GMT
    So someone said this about me in a previous thread:

    "He hasn't changed. He's still a self centered little queen. He attacks attacks his probably superior competition as ugly and old and whines that because his latest skank gave him VD he can't go out and fuck. He's worthless."

    Why do people think they can hurt people like this?

    This isn't ok...a lot of the regulars on these threads are the worst.

    I thought threads here were a place where we could reach out for support or advice, guys post real personal problems here. It maybe silly to you, but if i'm opening up from a vulnerable place and you can't help or be supportive please keep your opinion to yourself, whats the point of attacking someone you don't even know?

    I find bitchy behavior like that so disgusting. A awful personality is the biggest turn off.

    I'm not completely innocent i noticed i can get vicious after a bad day, but i usually catch myself and apologize and make peace. If i called someone ugly or old i apologize i don't think it was intentional.

    And i don't count a cold sore as a VD...icon_rolleyes.gif douche!

    i know it's just words to strangers but lets aim to be good people...at least when we can help it icon_cool.gif


    p.s I'm no angel but no one that knows me in real life could say im "self centered little queen" lol i'm actually kinda sweet icon_wink.gif
  • PR_GMR

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    Sep 19, 2013 2:47 PM GMT
    You're gonna have to grow a thicker skin around here. We do have some nasty queens on this site. But, here--and in life in general--it benefits to have a thick skin.
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    Sep 19, 2013 3:23 PM GMT
    PR_GMR saidYou're gonna have to grow a thicker skin around here. We do have some nasty queens on this site. But, here--and in life in general--it benefits to have a thick skin.


    Exactly! I don't let any negativity on these boards bother me because I will never meet (in real life) the majority of the members on here. They can say what they want.
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    Sep 19, 2013 3:35 PM GMT
    I've always been a beacon of light around here. I don't know why some people are so mean!icon_biggrin.gif
  • AMoonHawk

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    Sep 19, 2013 3:45 PM GMT
    Consider it your tuff luv gay boot camp.
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    Sep 19, 2013 3:59 PM GMT
    Aristoshark said
    jmusmc85 saidI've always been a beacon of light around here. I don't know why some people are so mean!icon_biggrin.gif

    lololololololololol


    not feelin the new pic, b.
  • PR_GMR

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    Sep 19, 2013 4:40 PM GMT
    jmusmc85 saidI've always been a beacon of light around here. I don't know why some people are so mean!icon_biggrin.gif


    You're a beacon.. of mischievousness. icon_razz.gif
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    Sep 19, 2013 4:44 PM GMT
    revival.jpg

    Upon leaving the house I always head immediately to the nearest religious revival tent where I can sit and listen all day to people talking shit.

    Online, however, the only place required to grow a thick skin is but a small bit of callous on the tip of the finger that clicks ignore.

    You decide whether or not to engage. So at the risk of sounding preachy: step out of that tent, child, and into the light. Put your blinders on.

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    Sleepy horses heave away
    Put your back to the golden hay
    Don't ever look behind at the work you've done
    For you work has just begun
    There'll be the evening in the end
    But till that time arrives
    You can rest your eyes
    And begin again.


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    Sep 19, 2013 6:05 PM GMT
    Welcome to RJ. Being an asshole is actively encouraged.
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    Sep 19, 2013 6:12 PM GMT
    Why do you care so much? Grow a thicker skin as someone said
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    Sep 19, 2013 8:12 PM GMT
    http://www.emedicinehealth.com/corns_and_calluses/article_em.htm
    A callus (tyloma) is an area of skin that thickens after exposure to repetitive forces in order to protect the skin. A callus may not be painful. When it becomes painful, treatment is required. However, people who suffer from diabetes, poor blood circulation, or loss of sensation (neuropathy) should seek professional treatment even if there is no associated pain.

    Treatment Overview

    Calluses or cornsusually do not need treatment unless they cause pain. If they do cause pain, the treatment goal is to remove the pressure or friction that is causing the callus or corn, to give it time to heal. Initial treatment generally involves things you can do at home. These include carefully choosing your footwear, using a pumice stone, and using over-the-counter (nonprescription) salicylic acid products.
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    Sep 19, 2013 8:20 PM GMT
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    Sorry guy... but the internet is where the harshest of critics come out. You're going to have to grow much thicker skin to deal with some people.
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    Sep 19, 2013 9:33 PM GMT
    failscarf said
    PR_GMR said
    jmusmc85 saidI've always been a beacon of light around here. I don't know why some people are so mean!icon_biggrin.gif


    You're a beacon.. of mischievousness. icon_razz.gif


    Yet you try to come for me.
    Figures.....

    I come for the scarf in the winter.
    Because I gets cold.
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    Sep 20, 2013 1:29 AM GMT
    theantijock saidhttp://www.emedicinehealth.com/corns_and_calluses/article_em.htm
    A callus (tyloma) is an area of skin that thickens after exposure to repetitive forces in order to protect the skin. A callus may not be painful. When it becomes painful, treatment is required. However, people who suffer from diabetes, poor blood circulation, or loss of sensation (neuropathy) should seek professional treatment even if there is no associated pain.

    Treatment Overview

    Calluses or cornsusually do not need treatment unless they cause pain. If they do cause pain, the treatment goal is to remove the pressure or friction that is causing the callus or corn, to give it time to heal. Initial treatment generally involves things you can do at home. These include carefully choosing your footwear, using a pumice stone, and using over-the-counter (nonprescription) salicylic acid products.


    A thick skin can lead to a hardened heart.
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    Sep 20, 2013 1:41 AM GMT
    I've seen guys on here try to excuse their behavior by saying "This is the internet."

    Pro Tip: If the only thing you contribute is bitchiness, then you aren't relevant.
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    Sep 20, 2013 5:19 AM GMT
    GooberGeek saidA thick skin can lead to a hardened heart.


    ...or amputation.

    This is why I advocate butthurt pride. You might have noticed that ya hardly even hear the term butthurt anymore. Now it's just referred to as the "B" word. We commandeered it, just like when we took the rainbow. It's ours now, only properly used in full by overly sensitive gay men. To everyone else, it's B pride.
  • AMoonHawk

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    Sep 20, 2013 5:35 AM GMT
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    Sep 20, 2013 5:38 AM GMT
    Most people here like my bitchiness....why? icon_confused.gif


    I even tried to be "nicer" and people don't want me to.

    I've even volunteered to ban myself and errbody says don't do it...

    WHY?????
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    Sep 20, 2013 6:32 AM GMT
    There's always going to be mean bitch queens out there, just get a thicker skin and bitch/fight back at them! If necessary, go to war with words with them and unleash your meaner diva inside as the last resort!!! icon_eek.gificon_rolleyes.gificon_razz.gif (i kid the last part)



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    Sep 20, 2013 6:42 AM GMT
    jmusmc85 saidMost people here like my bitchiness....why? icon_confused.gif


    I even tried to be "nicer" and people don't want me to.

    I've even volunteered to ban myself and errbody says don't do it...

    WHY?????


    It's because everyone or most on RJ like to see you play the villain role, boo! icon_neutral.gificon_eek.gif
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    Sep 20, 2013 6:43 AM GMT
    Some of us are just as mean in person as we are on the internet
  • AMoonHawk

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    Sep 20, 2013 6:46 AM GMT
    Think of it as training for the real world ... Here you can learn the quick witted humor you need to survive in the real world and known when to take down a bully and when to run and gather ammunition for another day