Hook Up Etiquette?

  • TheAlchemixt

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    Sep 19, 2013 10:27 PM GMT
    I'm new to this whole hooking up thing (really I am). I'm normally the let me get the know the guy more before doing anything with him kind of guy, but I really just started exploring. I have a few questions.

    What is a nice way to politely ask someone to leave after you've had sex? Say, "Thanks man, I'll see you later?"

    Do you guys say thank you or something afterwards? I did it to this one guy and it was just awkward.

    Is it better to just meet at someone else's house?

    Is it better to set the mood like candlelight, wine, beer, or something. I normally just have a candlelight and listen to music on my own but will that be odd?

    What else unwritten hook up rules are there that you follow? Thanks
  • AMoonHawk

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    Sep 19, 2013 10:32 PM GMT
    Just say "I love you" ... they'll leave and you'll never hear from them or see them again.
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    Sep 19, 2013 10:33 PM GMT
    I would say don't hookup at your house.

    Go to the other guys house that way you can just start getting dressed after you're done, say "That was fun, hit me up sometime" and leave. It'll seem kinda awkward leaving right after, but that's what a hookup is.

    If you do it at your house then after you're done say "I gotta get some sleep man, I work early". The guy should get the hint and take off.

    Music is cool, offering a drink is cool, but the candle-light is a little too much (in my opinion).

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    Sep 19, 2013 10:40 PM GMT
    I don't think there is any etiquette, however I let it be known before sex if we're planning to spend the whole night together and if not either us can leave whenever we feel like it, never had a case where a dude overstayed his welcome.
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    Sep 19, 2013 10:40 PM GMT
    TheAlchemixt saidWhat is a nice way to politely ask someone to leave after you've had sex? Say, "Thanks man, I'll see you later?"


    That and don't forget to offer coupons. Or a lottery ticket would be a classy touch.

    Well, thanx for the sex. Hey, wait, come back, you forgot your coupons.
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    Sep 19, 2013 10:53 PM GMT
    When he is almost out the front door after, pull him back, pull out his dick and make him cum just one last time as a last minute quickie sendoff, trust me, it works, sends them away with that as the last memory of the night on their mind icon_wink.gif
  • Timbales

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    Sep 20, 2013 12:27 AM GMT
    Once you've cum, hi-5 him and say "Don't let the door hit you on the ass on the way out!"
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    Sep 20, 2013 12:30 AM GMT
    TheAlchemixt saidI'm new to this whole hooking up thing (really I am). I'm normally the let me get the know the guy more before doing anything with him kind of guy, but I really just started exploring. I have a few questions.

    What is a nice way to politely ask someone to leave after you've had sex? Say, "Thanks man, I'll see you later?"

    Just say something like, "That was great. I'd ask you to stay over, but I've got to get to my office early tomorrow morning. Here, let me help you find your clothes."

    Do you guys say thank you or something afterwards? I did it to this one guy and it was just awkward.

    Just say, "Thanks for coming over. You were pretty amazing."

    Is it better to just meet at someone else's house?

    Not better, but different. It is easier for you to pick the time to depart. Just thank him for hosting & let him know you had better get going - since you have an early day tomorrow.

    Is it better to set the mood like candlelight, wine, beer, or something. I normally just have a candlelight and listen to music on my own but will that be odd?

    Before I went out to hook up, I always had music cued up; lights low; fresh bedding & towels; some candles ready; some strawberries or pineapple & some Amaretto, B & B, or some other after dinner drink for a guest.

    What else unwritten hook up rules are there that you follow? Thanks

    If you want to see the guy again (rare) you could have your phone number & name already printed or written out on a card to give him. Otherwise, you've got everything you need here above. You're ready to host and make your guest comfortable. Don't forget to have good lube & condoms nearby. Be safe & have fun.