Cock teaser

  • Trauts

    Posts: 1012

    Sep 20, 2013 1:55 AM GMT
    Is it misleading to dance with someone that you're not interested in when you're in the club?

    So, my friends and I were clubbing last weekend and a guy approached me on the dance floor. I wasn't attracted to him or anything, but just wanted to dance and have fun. After dancing with him for a while, I got bored and wanted to leave the dance floor.

    He then called me a cock teaser for misleading him and letting him think that I was attracted to him. I was kinda shocked from this and I started to think whether it was okay to dance with people just for the fun of it, instead of having any sort of ulterior motive or anything.

    What do you guys think? Was I a "cock teaser"?

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    Sep 20, 2013 3:26 PM GMT
    You were not a cock tease. You were having fun and did not judge this guy by whether you wanted to have sex with him. He is one of those guys who ignores anyone he doesn't want to have sex with. Don't become like him.
  • AMoonHawk

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    Sep 20, 2013 3:35 PM GMT
    You're not a cock tease because it was not you that went after him ... but, if there is no possible interest for you, it is really best not to even give guys the perception that he might have a chance with you ... just kindly as possible say no thanks so that they can move on and look for someone else
  • Hothouse

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    Sep 20, 2013 3:50 PM GMT
    No, you're not a cock tease.
    You were having fun and being nice by dancing with him when he asked you.
    He then had to ruin it by being a dick.
    Accepting an invitation to dance does not mean you're going to be doing anything else - he was just way out of line.

    This used to happened to me, when I was much younger. I was always nice to anyone who approached me at a bar. Way too many times it turned ugly when the guy would start suggesting we hook up and I wasn't interested. He'd get mad like it was my fault. Didn't take me long to learn that 9 times out of 10 guys would turn out to be assholes. And, I wasn't leading them on, just talking and not flirting.
    Some guys are just jerks. Add alcohol and it ramps up the jerk factor.
  • Trauts

    Posts: 1012

    Sep 20, 2013 4:13 PM GMT
    AMoonHawk saidYou're not a cock tease because it was not you that went after him ... but, if there is no possible interest for you, it is really best not to even give guys the perception that he might have a chance with you ... just kindly as possible say no thanks so that they can move on and look for someone else


    The thing is... I don't really like saying no to people. Haha, so I just dance with people that wanna dance with me but I don't see it as something that's gonna lead to a hook up or anything.