Have you ever met somebody that made your heart race... and he felt the same way about you?

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    Sep 21, 2013 5:03 PM GMT
    Yeah, I have met guys that made me feel all giddy, but they never felt the same... Except one. icon_biggrin.gif
  • AMoonHawk

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    Sep 21, 2013 5:30 PM GMT
    I think my 1st bf was like that ... maybe it has something to do with puppy love
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    Sep 21, 2013 5:40 PM GMT
    Yes, several times. The most recent guy broke my heart almost two weeks ago icon_sad.gif
  • starboard5

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    Sep 21, 2013 8:36 PM GMT
    Never the twain has met.
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    Sep 21, 2013 8:41 PM GMT
    Yes, I don't think it was reciprocated and I will never know. I will never allow myself to feel that way ever again.
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    Sep 21, 2013 8:42 PM GMT
    I read the first half of the question thinking yes. Then I read the second half and ended on a no icon_sad.gif
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    Sep 21, 2013 8:53 PM GMT
    Yes and Yes! And then there was his wife.....icon_neutral.gif
  • Lincsbear

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    Sep 21, 2013 9:00 PM GMT
    Not so far....

    It tends to be one or the other. My first love at university made my heart more than race, but he was cooler about things.

    I recently met a guy with the reverse situation!
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    Sep 21, 2013 9:00 PM GMT
    Crushes... real love dont have to include that phase
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    Sep 21, 2013 9:08 PM GMT
    I must join the crowd in saying that yes - I have met some who make my heart race. Makes me want climb the walls since I can't think straight....but unfortunately, the feeling has thus far never been returned.

    That being said, I don't believe that one can really love someone without some rejection prior. Gives a person perspective.
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    Sep 21, 2013 9:38 PM GMT
    I've had quite a few that made my heart race, and especially the one I have now. Just seeing him - watching his smile when I say something, or watching his eyes rise up to meet mine - and watching his smile turn into a wide grin when he sees me. I've got it good, and I know it.
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    Sep 21, 2013 9:48 PM GMT
    Aristoshark said
    Jockbod48 saidI've had quite a few that made my heart race, and especially the one I have now. Just seeing him - watching his smile when I say something, or watching his eyes rise up to meet mine - and watching his smile turn into a wide grin when he sees me. I've got it good, and I know it.

    In other words, you got it good and that ain't bad. icon_smile.gificon_smile.gificon_smile.gificon_smile.gif


    .....and I jus' can't help luvin' dat man of mine!
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    Sep 22, 2013 2:51 AM GMT
    There's been a couple of guys I've felt that way about. The first definitely didn't reciprocate, seeing as he was straight. The second was a bit odd, because I barely knew him but I definitely had a big crush. Whether he felt the same I don't know, although I doubt it. It's irrelevant seeing as he was (and presumable still is) in a relationship and, even though it's an open relationship, I don't have any interest in getting involved with that.
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    Sep 22, 2013 2:57 AM GMT
    All an illusion for me.
  • tuffguyndc

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    Sep 22, 2013 3:01 AM GMT
    nope but i have met someone that felt that way about me but i did not feel that way about him. it would be nice to finally meet a guy whom i feel that way about and they that way about me
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    Sep 22, 2013 11:06 AM GMT
    1st question. All the time
    2nd question. Never (have no clue actually)
  • Destinharbor

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    Sep 22, 2013 4:31 PM GMT
    Absolutely. My current partner for one. But there have been others that didn't stick but started out grand. I think some of the guys here saying no to the question either forget or are too guarded. Ya gotta take a chance...
  • Evilteck

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    Sep 22, 2013 4:32 PM GMT
    Nope, never even tho I would love to!o
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    Sep 22, 2013 5:04 PM GMT
    Yes - twice. One that was Instant, the other was over the Christmas holidays.

    First time with my ex. We were both in Uni - and he we were both into each other from the moment we met in my engineering lab (he was a friend of a friend). There was flirting while my friend, was totally clueless. When I told her later, she was like, "no he can't be gay, you can't assume everyone good looking is!". At the time, I had to admit, I had nothing to go on other than the spark.
    Within a week we had randomly grabbed some lunch and were listening to David Usher in my car when suddenly he kissed me. At this point I had no idea, so we were both really flustered, heart racing.
    Over two years that died though... I moved for work, miscommunication caused some rifts. In the end we both wanted out.

    Second time was with Dan, my bf. We were only chatting online and we randomly decided to go shopping for Christmas since we both hadn't do any. We ended up walking for 3 hours buying nothing and just talking. It was only supposed to be shopping, so I asked him if he'd want to grab a bite to eat. He didn't go home that night icon_smile.gif. I later found out he didn't want to stay because he liked me a lot and was afraid I was in it only for sex. The offer for brunch the next day instantly changed his mind.
    At Christmas, we were both at our family's home (about an hour away). At around 8 PM both our families were just sitting around watching TV and talking, so I said I could come over and pick him up and we can hang out. I really wanted to see him. And this was the first Christmas we spent together, the one that won him over (as he tells me). Sitting in Niagara Falls in my car watching stars talking. At this point I knew this guy was special. I felt happiness and contentment I hadn't felt since the first time in the car with my ex...Yeah my car plays a huge role in my love life it seems.
    A few days later, I went to Montreal with a bunch of guys for a new years bash. Everyone was single, and we had clubs to hit every night to New Years. Every night while friends met random guys for fun, I was on my phone texting Dan. At midnight, while all my friends made out with someone, I send Dan a kiss from my phone. A week later, we decided to try long distance.
    Last year he moved in. Every morning I wake with a smile on my face as I pull him close to cuddle while he still asleep.
  • swall1963

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    Sep 22, 2013 5:09 PM GMT
    I have had several, but only one truly felt the same way.

    I was at lunch with some of my coworkers (there were 8 of us at a round table) and this extremely cute busboy came over to pour water for all of us. When he got to my glass it was like I was blushing and sweating inside, at least I hoped it was only on the inside. I worked for an extremely conservative, family-owned business.

    All during lunch he kept coming back to our table and he must have refilled my glass 10 or 12 times.

    A couple of days later, I went back to that restaurant in the evening for dinner. I hadn't stopped thinking about him. I hoped I would see him, but figured he might only work days. Well, he was working and he was my busboy again.

    After a couple of times, we finally talked after he was off-duty. It was a blizzard out. He left and came back in saying his car wouldn't start. We ended up taking a cab back to my place. We were in a very great relationship for 4 years.
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    Sep 22, 2013 11:47 PM GMT
    Yes to the first part, no to the second part. icon_neutral.gif
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    Sep 22, 2013 11:52 PM GMT
    Nope, still waiting on that. I hope I can handle it, because I am very sensitive.
  • isuflyboy

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    Sep 22, 2013 11:54 PM GMT
    Once e he turned into a major douche and kept dragging me back to him... He cheated on his boyfriend twice with me before I knew he had a bf... So I thought it was real at first but not so much
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    Apr 28, 2016 12:28 AM GMT
    Yes, & it was surprisingly similar to some film, & tv portrayals. It lasted eight years until last September.
  • mcbrion

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    May 01, 2016 4:37 AM GMT
    Yes. Twice in my lifetime.