Yes - twice. One that was Instant, the other was over the Christmas holidays.
First time with my ex. We were both in Uni - and he we were both into each other from the moment we met in my engineering lab (he was a friend of a friend). There was flirting while my friend, was totally clueless. When I told her later, she was like, "no he can't be gay, you can't assume everyone good looking is!". At the time, I had to admit, I had nothing to go on other than the spark.
Within a week we had randomly grabbed some lunch and were listening to David Usher in my car when suddenly he kissed me. At this point I had no idea, so we were both really flustered, heart racing.
Over two years that died though... I moved for work, miscommunication caused some rifts. In the end we both wanted out.
Second time was with Dan, my bf. We were only chatting online and we randomly decided to go shopping for Christmas since we both hadn't do any. We ended up walking for 3 hours buying nothing and just talking. It was only supposed to be shopping, so I asked him if he'd want to grab a bite to eat. He didn't go home that night
. I later found out he didn't want to stay because he liked me a lot and was afraid I was in it only for sex. The offer for brunch the next day instantly changed his mind.
At Christmas, we were both at our family's home (about an hour away). At around 8 PM both our families were just sitting around watching TV and talking, so I said I could come over and pick him up and we can hang out. I really wanted to see him. And this was the first Christmas we spent together, the one that won him over (as he tells me). Sitting in Niagara Falls in my car watching stars talking. At this point I knew this guy was special. I felt happiness and contentment I hadn't felt since the first time in the car with my ex...Yeah my car plays a huge role in my love life it seems.
A few days later, I went to Montreal with a bunch of guys for a new years bash. Everyone was single, and we had clubs to hit every night to New Years. Every night while friends met random guys for fun, I was on my phone texting Dan. At midnight, while all my friends made out with someone, I send Dan a kiss from my phone. A week later, we decided to try long distance.
Last year he moved in. Every morning I wake with a smile on my face as I pull him close to cuddle while he still asleep.