Is there something wrong with me?

  • warrior1234

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    Sep 24, 2013 3:58 PM GMT
    Is there something wrong with me for liking guys who are way out of my league?
    For example, I'm mainly attracted to muscular guys. I always wanted to have a muscled boyfriend who could wrestle me and I could worship his muscles and the rest.
    A lot of people say you should join a gym and start building muscle but I'm ok with me being slim, I don't want to be too big. I like the idea of having someone stronger than me who could play wrestle with me.
    However, I seem to never notice hot guys dating guys who are, well, like me.
    Is there something wrong with me for liking guys way out of my league? this seems to always be the case
    Or is it that I'm only sexually frustrated at the moment and haven't grown up yet to know what I should really like?
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    Sep 24, 2013 4:22 PM GMT
    Nah nothing is wrong with you. Be who you are. Others want to be muscular and lean because they want to get bigger. Some huge guys can be camp though. But there are plenty of lean and slim guys out there who are not into bodybuilding, just keeping fit. We all have fantasies.
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    Sep 24, 2013 8:03 PM GMT
    You don't have to have big muscles to be attractive to muscular guys; slim guys with hard well defined muscles are very hot.

    So you could go to the gym and do high reps rather than increasing the amount of weight you're working with. And do cardio work; running, swimming, bicycling.

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    Sep 24, 2013 8:07 PM GMT
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    Sep 24, 2013 8:32 PM GMT
    Lumpyoatmeal saidtumblr_mfi9eoN9vM1rs4fkvo2_500.jpg


    omg.. why is my picture up here..
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    Sep 24, 2013 8:37 PM GMT
    Mesmer saidomg.. why is my picture up here..

    So then that begs the question, do you date muscular guys or have any problems getting dates with them? Or, to put it another way, do muscular guys find you attractive?

    And let me know if you'd like me to delete it.
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    Sep 24, 2013 8:43 PM GMT
    Lumpyoatmeal said
    Mesmer saidomg.. why is my picture up here..

    So then that begs the question, do you date muscular guys or have any problems getting dates with them? Or, to put it another way, do muscular guys find you attractive?

    And let me know if you'd like me to delete it.


    Do I date muscular guys? well my current boyfriend is muscular (military) do I have problems getting dates with them, I don't know. Do muscular guys find me attractive- I don't know. Everyone is different, and have different taste.

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    Sep 25, 2013 8:53 AM GMT
    There are muscular guys out there that would be into you. It's just a matter of finding them.
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    Sep 25, 2013 2:47 PM GMT
    failscarf saidYES there is something wrong with you.
    We have something in the gay community thats called "hierachy and standards".
    Those higher on the ladder of the hierarchy can and have to have higher standards. Those on the lower side can't and have to have lower standards.
    Because you are slim you have to have lower standards, sorry. And if you don't agree with this then there are plenty of women with tight, juicy vaginas you can fuck that like slim men.

    I find that bisexuals have a hard time coping with their status on the sexual hierarchy, but I as a gay CANNOT lower myself to be with one, or else a hot gay or straight guy won't want me. icon_cry.gif


    I dont understand this. Are you saying the OP should bulk up?
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    Sep 25, 2013 4:36 PM GMT
    failscarf saidYES there is something wrong with you.
    We have something in the gay community thats called "hierachy and standards".
    Those higher on the ladder of the hierarchy can and have to have higher standards. Those on the lower side can't and have to have lower standards.
    Because you are slim you have to have lower standards, sorry. And if you don't agree with this then there are plenty of women with tight, juicy vaginas you can fuck that like slim men.

    I find that bisexuals have a hard time coping with their status on the sexual hierarchy, but I as a gay CANNOT lower myself to be with one, or else a hot gay or straight guy won't want me. icon_cry.gif


    You do know I'm not bi, right?
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    Sep 25, 2013 4:58 PM GMT
    failscarf saidYES there is something wrong with you.
    We have something in the gay community thats called "hierachy and standards".
    Those higher on the ladder of the hierarchy can and have to have higher standards. Those on the lower side can't and have to have lower standards.
    Because you are slim you have to have lower standards, sorry. And if you don't agree with this then there are plenty of women with tight, juicy vaginas you can fuck that like slim men.

    I find that bisexuals have a hard time coping with their status on the sexual hierarchy, but I as a gay CANNOT lower myself to be with one, or else a hot gay or straight guy won't want me. icon_cry.gif



    I fall on the 7-8 category!!!! Almost there!!!icon_biggrin.gif
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    Sep 25, 2013 5:02 PM GMT
    We are all different. So celebrate difference. Nothing is wrong with anyone here. We have different likes and dislikes.
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    Sep 25, 2013 5:07 PM GMT
    failscarf said
    warrior1234 said
    failscarf saidYES there is something wrong with you.
    We have something in the gay community thats called "hierachy and standards".
    Those higher on the ladder of the hierarchy can and have to have higher standards. Those on the lower side can't and have to have lower standards.
    Because you are slim you have to have lower standards, sorry. And if you don't agree with this then there are plenty of women with tight, juicy vaginas you can fuck that like slim men.

    I find that bisexuals have a hard time coping with their status on the sexual hierarchy, but I as a gay CANNOT lower myself to be with one, or else a hot gay or straight guy won't want me. icon_cry.gif


    You do know I'm not bi, right?


    No.....but you are a squawking femmie twink like JB and you are probably ageist so that means you can date someone in your league and lower, sorry.
    XOXO


    wow. a talking scarf knows it all.
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    Sep 25, 2013 5:10 PM GMT
    Usain Bolt's physique is lean. I like his lean physique. He isnt that big.
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    Sep 25, 2013 5:27 PM GMT
    failscarf said
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    failscarf saidYES there is something wrong with you.
    We have something in the gay community thats called "hierachy and standards".
    Those higher on the ladder of the hierarchy can and have to have higher standards. Those on the lower side can't and have to have lower standards.
    Because you are slim you have to have lower standards, sorry. And if you don't agree with this then there are plenty of women with tight, juicy vaginas you can fuck that like slim men.

    I find that bisexuals have a hard time coping with their status on the sexual hierarchy, but I as a gay CANNOT lower myself to be with one, or else a hot gay or straight guy won't want me. icon_cry.gif



    I fall on the 7-8 category!!!! Almost there!!!icon_biggrin.gif


    More like a 51/2 to a six.
    Bish you could never......




    I wonder where you think i fall .... hmm
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    Sep 25, 2013 5:27 PM GMT
    warrior1234 saidIs there something wrong with me for liking guys who are way out of my league?
    For example, I'm mainly attracted to muscular guys. I always wanted to have a muscled boyfriend who could wrestle me and I could worship his muscles and the rest.
    A lot of people say you should join a gym and start building muscle but I'm ok with me being slim, I don't want to be too big. I like the idea of having someone stronger than me who could play wrestle with me.
    However, I seem to never notice hot guys dating guys who are, well, like me.
    Is there something wrong with me for liking guys way out of my league? this seems to always be the case
    Or is it that I'm only sexually frustrated at the moment and haven't grown up yet to know what I should really like?


    This isn't high school.
    Spend some time thinking about how you view people, and your own self esteem and how that affects your dating choices.

    The concept of a universal scale of hotness is ridiculous and outlandish.
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    Sep 25, 2013 5:38 PM GMT
    youmotherfixers saidsomething that i noticed that seems to be rarely mentioned on this site and needs to be addressed. it seems like a lot of guys have been brainwashed to think that muscle dysmorphia is normal. there's a difference between having muscles and reaching your genetic limit where your body says "okay, this is it" and trying to push your body, pumping it with all sorts of toxic shit, fucking up your heart valves and insides, trying to look like the guy who's roided up or a genetic demon. despite what these people who have been brainwashed out there try to tell you, it's NOT normal to be all muscular and shit. believe it or not, it's NOT. the human body was not made to be ballooning with muscles like that. same thing goes with having 4% of body fat. some of these shits are literally not healthy. find out when your body starts turning on you.

    there's so much bullshit out there being pushed and not enough truth and people are getting bamboozled. the whole muscle, fitness trend where they try to say that looking like some genetic freak, muscular guy or having 1 percent body fat is basically the male version of these female models with the abnormal figures due to genetics or surgery or thinning themselves to death or whatever. it's a business.


    I agree.
    However we werent evolved to sit around at desks doing IT. To compensate we do exercise. Obesity is everywhere and if we aim for being fit and lean I think that is good enough.
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    Sep 25, 2013 8:33 PM GMT
    warrior1234 saidIs there something wrong with me for liking guys who are way out of my league?

    Absolutely not. If it wasn't perfectly normal, straight guys wouldn't jack off to Playboy. But there'd be something wrong with the average straight guy if all he pursued were airbrushed Playmates of the Year. High physical standards should generally be relegated to the realm of fantasy.
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    Sep 25, 2013 8:49 PM GMT
    youmotherfixers said
    JasFriedman said
    youmotherfixers saidsomething that i noticed that seems to be rarely mentioned on this site and needs to be addressed. it seems like a lot of guys have been brainwashed to think that muscle dysmorphia is normal. there's a difference between having muscles and reaching your genetic limit where your body says "okay, this is it" and trying to push your body, pumping it with all sorts of toxic shit, fucking up your heart valves and insides, trying to look like the guy who's roided up or a genetic demon. despite what these people who have been brainwashed out there try to tell you, it's NOT normal to be all muscular and shit. believe it or not, it's NOT. the human body was not made to be ballooning with muscles like that. same thing goes with having 4% of body fat. some of these shits are literally not healthy. find out when your body starts turning on you.

    there's so much bullshit out there being pushed and not enough truth and people are getting bamboozled. the whole muscle, fitness trend where they try to say that looking like some genetic freak, muscular guy or having 1 percent body fat is basically the male version of these female models with the abnormal figures due to genetics or surgery or thinning themselves to death or whatever. it's a business.


    I agree.
    However we werent evolved to sit around at desks doing IT. To compensate we do exercise. Obesity is everywhere and if we aim for being fit and lean I think that is good enough.


    but looking fit and lean doesn't mean that you're healthy.

    that's another thing too. folks assume that because they hit the weights, do cardio, and etc where they have muscles, a six pack and blah blah showing where they have people telling them "good job", that automatically means that they're exempt from doctor visits or check ups. that they're good to go where their hearts are in good working order.

    you know how many dudes on that "gym guy" shit looking like some of these guys on this site have dropped dead from heart attacks? sad enough, some of these guys are very young too. just dropping dead from a heart attack at 20. the point of fitness is to basically make your health better, not to kill yourself exercising. folks is hustling backwards.

    and folks make the assumption that obesity automatically means "unhealthy" too. there's plenty of overweight people that are more healthy than skinny and these folks that go to the gym. folks need to stop be so preoccupied on looks all the time because looks don't mean shit. i think it's hilarious to see how some of these 20 year olds or guy looking all dieseled out doing who knows what to look like jeff seid and josef rakich ending up in the hospital with all sorts of weird ailments obviously from using and abusing all kinds of shit. then they actually misguide other people too, telling them to follow these workout routines claiming that it'll get them results when these guys are on steroids and all kinds of drugs.

    man... some of these guys in here are on steroids. it doesn't take a genius to figure that shit out.


    Rugby players are huge, they do exercise and they look big and even overweight. But obesity is another matter entirely. But yeah lean doesnt necessarily mean healthy and large men could be healthy.