Violent Sex

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    Sep 25, 2013 2:39 PM GMT
    I am in a quandary. I am a bigger man. 240 pounds all muscle. Though I have to say I am a sweet looking guy. Children and animals love me.

    Gay men on the other hand frequently ask me to dominate them. (no problem) But, They also ask if I will beat them up, split them in two, rough them up , and or fuck them into oblivion. I don't understand this need or desire.

    Problem is I cannot and do not feel comfortable doing it. I love rough sex But, only with people I can also be intimate and or romantic with. I am adventurous. Do men confuse rough with passion?

    I have met a guy I really like But, I am afraid I cant fill the hole that is really the one that needs to be filled.

    Help!

    Am also thinking about becoming normal sized to meet a normal guy.
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    Sep 25, 2013 2:44 PM GMT
    No, I would never beat someone up to gain satisfaction or gratification. Violence feels wrong because I can usually feel empathy. How much muscle would you lose if you want to be "normal"?
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    Sep 25, 2013 4:20 PM GMT
    failscarf saidThe reason you don't understand this is because you are straight or possibly bisexual. Some gays love for that straight quarterback back in HS to rough him up and make him his sexual f*****. Because I have a vagina, I actually don't get this concept but this seems to be very common for gay men with small penises.
    If you are straight then guys will ask you to do this like all the time like I said before. If you are bi, then you have no choice in the matter, sorry to say.


    Well, you just explained (in the bold) much of the tenor in your posts. Good grief, woman, you posing as a man has been a silly endeavor.
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    Sep 25, 2013 4:36 PM GMT
    Sex should always be fun and enjoyable , never violent !
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    Sep 25, 2013 5:07 PM GMT
    But if you lose muscle, wont you have wasted all that time bulking up? Thoughts?
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    Sep 25, 2013 7:12 PM GMT
    I'm still trying to get past the fact that Failscarf admitted to having a va-jay-jay.. icon_confused.gif
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    Sep 25, 2013 7:16 PM GMT
    meninlove said
    failscarf saidThe reason you don't understand this is because you are straight or possibly bisexual. Some gays love for that straight quarterback back in HS to rough him up and make him his sexual f*****. Because I have a vagina, I actually don't get this concept but this seems to be very common for gay men with small penises.
    If you are straight then guys will ask you to do this like all the time like I said before. If you are bi, then you have no choice in the matter, sorry to say.


    Well, you just explained (in the bold) much of the tenor in your posts. Good grief, woman, you posing as a man has been a silly endeavor.


    Oh shit

    I thought I was the only one that thought this...
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    Sep 25, 2013 8:06 PM GMT
    failscarf saidThe reason you don't understand this is because you are straight or possibly bisexual. Some gays love for that straight quarterback back in HS to rough him up and make him his sexual f*****. Because I have a vagina, I actually don't get this concept but this seems to be very common for gay men with small penises.
    If you are straight then guys will ask you to do this like all the time like I said before. If you are bi, then you have no choice in the matter, sorry to say.


    Possibly one of the dumbest posts I've ever read on here. Not because you have a vagina, but because you've made some HUGE jumps of illogical assumptions.

    Ever watch "Looking for Mr. Goodbar"? SM is hardly just a Gay issue. Like that character Diane Keaton played, those with serious SM proclivities, gay or straight, have psychological issues. Guns, knives, black eyes and other bruises don't count as sex or making love. Light SM is kind of fun, possibly, with the right person you trust. But real violence is not fun or healthy in any way. It's self loathing to the nth degree...........RUN AWAY!
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    Sep 26, 2013 2:08 AM GMT
    Wow! Not even 24 hours have gone by and this guy is gone?

    I call "Troll"!
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    Sep 26, 2013 2:55 AM GMT
    The fetish thread I've yet to see: "I'm a 260 lb competitive bodybuilder and all I want is a nice, sane average guy who won't objectify me, but I can't find a gay man who fits that bill."
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    Sep 26, 2013 11:18 PM GMT
    meninlove said
    failscarf saidThe reason you don't understand this is because you are straight or possibly bisexual. Some gays love for that straight quarterback back in HS to rough him up and make him his sexual f*****. Because I have a vagina, I actually don't get this concept but this seems to be very common for gay men with small penises.
    If you are straight then guys will ask you to do this like all the time like I said before. If you are bi, then you have no choice in the matter, sorry to say.


    Well, you just explained (in the bold) much of the tenor in your posts. Good grief, woman, you posing as a man has been a silly endeavor.

    Now it makes sense why she only has a pic with a face scarf. Fish!
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    Sep 27, 2013 12:45 AM GMT
    Simple - say no to violence. icon_biggrin.gif
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    Sep 27, 2013 4:44 AM GMT
    failscarf saidThe reason you don't understand this is because you are straight or possibly bisexual. Some gays love for that straight quarterback back in HS to rough him up and make him his sexual f*****. Because I have a vagina, I actually don't get this concept but this seems to be very common for gay men with small penises.
    If you are straight then guys will ask you to do this like all the time like I said before. If you are bi, then you have no choice in the matter, sorry to say.


    Wut? A vagina? Omg baby, we no wanna see a vagina here... A VAGINA, A VAGINA, HELP