RainBow_Dragon2000 saidWhy is that all the guys I meet are always horny when all I want to do is cuddle?
Because cuddling is a form of foreplay, like other intimacies. And if these other guys are your age then their hormones will spike from such contact. Cuddling MAKES them horny. It means they're normal gay males - most straight men are the same way with women.
So your options are as some have suggested in posts above. Accept that cuddling will lead to more, unless he's very tired, or the circumstances don't permit it.
And hope you can cuddle afterwards, although some men have a strange aversion to intimacy immediately after they orgasm. That's another thing women notice about some straight men, like a switch gets suddenly thrown.
One moment the guy's a raging sex fiend, the next he can't distance himself fast enough. Likely some kind of body chemistry thing a percentage of men experience.
So if you encounter guys like that it may have less to do with you than with them. But nevertheless you have a right to look for a man who completely satisfies you; it may just take some time & patience.