My roommate is allergic to cats...who wants Dutch?

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    Sep 26, 2013 12:21 AM GMT
    Really sexy guy wants to move in possibly, cat needs to go.
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    Sep 26, 2013 12:29 AM GMT
    How low can you go?
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    Sep 26, 2013 12:33 AM GMT
    Tasty maple bacon warms chilly days, sometimes.
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    Sep 26, 2013 1:25 AM GMT
    wow you must be a real loser to give up a pet so you can jack off to thoughts of a roommate
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    Sep 26, 2013 1:41 AM GMT
    somersault saidwow you must be a real loser to give up a pet so you can jack off to thoughts of a roommate


    I dont ussually agree with this guy but what he says is true. Youre a shitty human being for abandoning your pet, hope the cat gets a new home and you never EVER get a pet again. Also, I hope your roommate kicks you out too.
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    Sep 26, 2013 1:42 AM GMT
    This is why some people don't need pets. You're really gonna ditch the cat for some dude that possibly wants to move in? Even if it was a sure thing, it's not nice to ditch a pet like that.
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    Sep 26, 2013 2:52 AM GMT
    It would be funny if u did all that only to have ur new roommate bail on u and then ur left with no boy toy, no cat, no nothing. Just your ugly face.
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    Sep 26, 2013 5:25 AM GMT
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    Shocked at how easy it is for you to give up your pussy!
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    Sep 26, 2013 5:34 AM GMT
    is it a house cat or an alley cat ... you could just accidentally leave the door open and see if he leaves ... maybe he'll find a new home on his own .... when I was a kid, there were tons of alley cats everywhere ... If you live in a warm place with plenty of mice, they are pretty good survivors

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    I'm not a cat person, but I'm sure there is an animal rescue organization that can help you with that
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    Sep 26, 2013 8:58 AM GMT
    Wonderful how understanding all off you previous posters are when you don't know if I could be paranoid from the ideas of other peoples perpectives about the trauma from their childhood and the fucked up situations they know others have been through like post traumatic stress syndrome so they're not even able to trust advice from licensed professionals with so called "experience" especially in a world where the news just shows so many fabulous images of equality a day. I'm sure my cat's instincts will feel so much better in a household designated by your kindhearted souls.
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    Sep 26, 2013 12:12 PM GMT
    Did you get PTSD from your cat or the prospective roommate?

    We just have more compassion for the cat than your desire to get a "hot" roommate.
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    Sep 26, 2013 12:28 PM GMT
    LitAwake saidWonderful how understanding all off you previous posters are when you don't know if I could be paranoid from the ideas of other peoples perpectives about the trauma from their childhood and the fucked up situations they know others have been through like post traumatic stress syndrome so they're not even able to trust advice from licensed professionals with so called "experience" especially in a world where the news just shows so many fabulous images of equality a day. I'm sure my cat's instincts will feel so much better in a household designated by your kindhearted souls.



    say what?
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    Sep 26, 2013 2:19 PM GMT
    LitAwake saidWonderful how understanding all off you previous posters are when you don't know if I could be paranoid from the ideas of other peoples perpectives about the trauma from their childhood and the fucked up situations they know others have been through like post traumatic stress syndrome so they're not even able to trust advice from licensed professionals with so called "experience" especially in a world where the news just shows so many fabulous images of equality a day. I'm sure my cat's instincts will feel so much better in a household designated by your kindhearted souls.


    You're an idiot.
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    Sep 26, 2013 2:21 PM GMT
    LitAwake saidWonderful how understanding all off you previous posters are when you don't know if I could be paranoid from the ideas of other peoples perpectives about the trauma from their childhood and the fucked up situations they know others have been through like post traumatic stress syndrome so they're not even able to trust advice from licensed professionals with so called "experience" especially in a world where the news just shows so many fabulous images of equality a day. I'm sure my cat's instincts will feel so much better in a household designated by your kindhearted souls.


    Wait, what?
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    Sep 26, 2013 2:44 PM GMT
    A legitimate real-life problem, but poorly presented here. And maybe not thought through.

    Is this guy merely an eye-candy roommate, or a BF & potential LTR? If merely a roommate, find another who isn't allergic. The cat was there first, and has its own rights, even if it can't exert them himself.

    But what happens when this is an LTR? Does a cat stand in the way of that? A real ethical dilemma, in my view, even if we're just speaking hypothetically.

    My approach would be to ask the guy to move in first, and see if he can tolerate the cat. I had a mild allergy to my first partner's cat, but I simply dealt with it. I was mostly fine unless I put my nose against something the cat spent time on, like a sofa or bed pillow. And asked my partner to keep the cat off our bed, which it mostly did anyway. Will this "roommate" be sharing the OP's bed?

    The last thing I would have done was give my partner an ultimatum, for a cat he loved a lot. And I got to enjoy the cat myself.

    A BF who won't consider such a compromise, to try first before deciding, may not be such good BF material after all. Yet what if he's seriously allergic, can't even be in the same room with the animal? But you really love the guy? What then? A difficult choice, where putting the animal into a good home you select, rather than a shelter, could be a reasonable response.
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    Sep 26, 2013 3:41 PM GMT
    LitAwake saidReally sexy guy wants to move in possibly, cat needs to go.


    Hmmm..really sexy guy moves in, hates your attention and leaves. Then you have no roommate and no cat.

    Now what kind of awful roommate would want you to get rid of your PET?

    How much love has your cat given you?
    How much love are you fantasizing this roomie will give you?
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    Sep 26, 2013 4:08 PM GMT
    TheGuyNextDoor saidIf I lived close enough, I'd take Dutch off your hands so I could show the poor thing what it really felt like to be loved and not treated like an orphan.
    Then I'd come back and kick your cold hearted ass...

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    This is the bloody perfect answer !!
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    Sep 26, 2013 10:48 PM GMT
    We're both bottoms, why not recipricate the admiration hes shown to me if theres not enough love in the world for us to be satisfied with eachother and show some hospitality. Excuse me for knowing when to prohibit competitiveness in a relationship instead of breaking the guys heart. Maybe next time I will make special effort to hand out a raffle for the position to every person in the universe, since I'm not even allowed to view protein, semen or animal, as part of my nutritional intake.
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    Sep 26, 2013 10:53 PM GMT
    LitAwake saidWe're both bottoms, why not recipricate the admiration hes shown to me if theres not enough love in the world for us to be satisfied with eachother and show some hospitality. Excuse me for knowing when to prohibit competitiveness in a relationship instead of breaking the guys heart. Maybe next time I will make special effort to hand out a raffle for the position to every person in the universe, since I'm not even allowed to view protein, semen or animal, as part of my nutritional intake.


    What does all this nonsense have to do with the fact you're abandoning your pet for a crush? Shut the fuck up already.
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    Sep 26, 2013 10:59 PM GMT
    LitAwake saidReally sexy guy wants to move in possibly, cat needs to go.
    Keep the cat. Give me the guy.
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    Sep 26, 2013 11:08 PM GMT
    OK. Tony (TGND) needs a cute kitten hug to calm him down.

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    Sep 26, 2013 11:13 PM GMT
    LitAwake saidI'm not even allowed to view protein, semen or animal, as part of my nutritional intake.


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    Sep 27, 2013 6:00 PM GMT