am i really that ugly?

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    Sep 27, 2013 8:28 PM GMT
    am i ugly?
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    Sep 27, 2013 8:29 PM GMT
    No you are not ugly. You are good looking.
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    Sep 27, 2013 8:30 PM GMT
    No not at all. But I think you may be a troll.
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    Sep 27, 2013 8:32 PM GMT
    You are not ugly but it's clear you have self esteem issues.

    Rules of the internet:
    Do not fish for compliments
    Never post pictures of yourself and ask for criticism, people on the internet are generally much ruder than they are IRL

    Plus what are words on a random forum board going to do for you?
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    Sep 27, 2013 8:32 PM GMT
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  • ai82

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    Sep 27, 2013 8:32 PM GMT
    No, you're cute. But in that second pic u look a little stalkerish. Stick to the non-intense look.
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    Sep 27, 2013 8:34 PM GMT
    Nope, you're cute.
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    Sep 27, 2013 8:35 PM GMT
    If you can post pics on here, why not on your profile??

    Huh?
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    Sep 27, 2013 8:36 PM GMT
    KardioKing saidYou are not ugly but it's clear you have self esteem issues.

    Rules of the internet:
    Do not fish for compliments
    Never post pictures of yourself and ask for criticism, people on the internet are generally much ruder than they are IRL

    Plus what are words on a random forum board going to do for you?



    LOVE to KK.

    OP you are not ugly. A little nerdy looking, but that´s not at ALL a bad thing (KK is also a nerd)
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    Sep 27, 2013 8:38 PM GMT
    failscarf saidIdk about this thread.


    I am suspicious, failscarf... Aren't you?
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    Sep 27, 2013 8:42 PM GMT
    just wanted feedback. this guy who i think might be gay (feminin mannerisms, slight lisp in voice. He does like sports though which i think might throw me off, approched me introduced himself, and didnt want to leave when we were done talking he waited and stayed when i kept the conversation going. i've seen him checking me out before (my butt i think). I have seen him smile at me once or twice, and it seems like he is shy. i can tell from his tone of voice. then BOOM he came and talked to me
    what should i do about it
    i had to end the conversation cuz i was busy. he said "nice meeting you!"
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    Sep 27, 2013 8:42 PM GMT


    YOU'RE FINE. YOU'RE CUTE!

    HOWEVER: " I often catch people smirking at me, or girls jerking their head away when i make eye contact. This gives me even worse social anxiety than i already have. i think that when strangers smile at me, they are being condescending like as if to say "lol look at this frickin guy!" maybe i am just being paranoid. I have no concept of what i look like, or how i am viewed by others."

    Have you considered that they have social anxieties? Think about this and think again about how others avoid eye contact or appear to smirk. There's also low self esteem issues that others have, hence the smirks to make themselves feel better.


    Now you have a good concept of what you look like to others; see our all caps post at the top. Re-read what others have said about you here. You're cute. No amount of others avoiding eye contact or smirking can change that, you know. icon_wink.gif
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    Sep 27, 2013 8:51 PM GMT
    no what you need is to gain some self confidence
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    Sep 27, 2013 8:51 PM GMT
    thanks. now what about this guy i am talking about? (i think i might be ugly and maybe hes straight or whatever)
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    Sep 27, 2013 8:57 PM GMT
    batfleck saidthanks. now what about this guy i am talking about? (i think i might be ugly and maybe hes straight or whatever)


    Expect nothing and make a new friend. If there's something more it will happen.
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    Sep 27, 2013 9:14 PM GMT
    KardioKing saidYou are not ugly but it's clear you have self esteem issues.

    Rules of the internet:
    Do not fish for compliments
    Never post pictures of yourself and ask for criticism, people on the internet are generally much ruder than they are IRL

    Plus what are words on a random forum board going to do for you?


    Truth!
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    Sep 27, 2013 9:21 PM GMT
    European_Knight said
    KardioKing saidYou are not ugly but it's clear you have self esteem issues.

    Rules of the internet:
    Do not fish for compliments
    Never post pictures of yourself and ask for criticism, people on the internet are generally much ruder than they are IRL

    Plus what are words on a random forum board going to do for you?


    Truth!


    + 1, Don't try to fish for compliments yeah! OP, I think you're average/above average but I never met you in real life so yeah I'm not going to bitch or diss out mean stuff!


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    Sep 27, 2013 9:23 PM GMT
    i do believe i am ugly. my brain is telling me that these pics dont even really look like me
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    Sep 27, 2013 9:28 PM GMT
    GonzoTheGreat said
    KardioKing saidYou are not ugly but it's clear you have self esteem issues.

    Rules of the internet:
    Do not fish for compliments
    Never post pictures of yourself and ask for criticism, people on the internet are generally much ruder than they are IRL

    Plus what are words on a random forum board going to do for you?



    LOVE to KK.

    OP you are not ugly. A little nerdy looking, but that´s not at ALL a bad thing (KK is also a nerd)


    Hi. icon_wink.gif Why the username change. Are you not lost anymore?
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    Sep 27, 2013 9:35 PM GMT
    batfleck saidi do believe i am ugly. my brain is telling me that these pics dont even really look like me


    ...and of course, your brain is infallible? icon_wink.gif

    Unless you're wearing a mask in those pics, or photoshopped them, that REALLY IS YOU.
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    Sep 27, 2013 9:37 PM GMT
    batfleck saidi do believe i am ugly. my brain is telling me that these pics dont even really look like me


    You just need to get some self-confidence thats all! Lol, in the past whenever I feel like I want attention/hot guys, I just went to the clubs in SF, get drunk and get half naked start dancing and all the guys will stare/come my way! Lol Ahhh I missed my 20s! No for real, no gay men like a low self-esteem dude! Cheer up buddy!icon_smile.gif
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    Sep 27, 2013 9:48 PM GMT
    one time me and this girl were talking about glitter, and this random guy overheard us and said "i think he looks good in glitter!" and i was working in a restaurant and had to bring soup to the line cooks, and one guy said "hot boy with hot soup!" i have also picked up men in bars a few times and they have given me head. i also met a guy on a gay dating site in person, and we ended up making out for an hour! afterwards he texted me and said it felt really "right". also. people have also called me ugly, once a gay guy said i was not attractive, and fat ugly men have called me ugly. I can't comprehend any of it!
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    Sep 27, 2013 9:59 PM GMT
    mate, ur actually very cute, but I don't think the clothes are helping. Wearing such baggy clothes makes you look skinnier even though you might think its hiding you. Wear some fitted clothes and you'll look sooooo cute!
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    Sep 27, 2013 10:09 PM GMT
    mediumsizedfail saidthe only person that feels that way about you is YOU. in other words, you need to stop shitting on yourself. love yourself, breh.


    Very well put,Sir.

    No, you are not ugly, and there is no point sitting in your bedroom worrying over your looks. You can change yourself and there are ways of bringing in confidence.
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    Sep 27, 2013 10:30 PM GMT
    thnx guys i am feeling a bit better