Does anyone know a NYC Cop or Firefighter?

  • tomjack

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    Sep 27, 2013 9:06 PM GMT
    Ok so I am moving to L.A. and I have been in NYC for just about seven years and I have never been on a date with a cop or a firefighter... hahaha

    -here it comes-
    ... If anyones knows a cop or a firefighter that would be interested in just grabbing a beer.. please send them my way... Growing up in California they were always idolize and whatnot on t.v. It is kinda a childhood thing. It would be a shame to live in this environment and have not a story to tell all me peeps back west. hahahahhha

    I know I am about to get ridiculed for such a request cause gay men are always out for a laugh at someone else's expense and dying for an opportunity to say something smart... but I just had to ask...

    I am leaving next month.... So, anybody know any one?

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  • rnch

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    Sep 27, 2013 9:19 PM GMT
    Beware of "The First Responder Syndrome".



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    Sep 28, 2013 1:30 AM GMT
    Dating a cop isn't all its cracked up to be. When their phone rings they have to answer it and if they are on call they have to drop everything and leave. When they go out to eat at restaurants they will try and position themselves to face the exits of the building, every time. Its no big deal but its hard to go somewhere with them and just grab a table and eat when nothing they like is available. Stories they have to tell concerning work will never be current it will always be something that happened way back. They cant tell you something current about work because it might be part of some investigation that is still going on. Also they might be carrying a gun. I'm not sure exactly how the law is written about it but they can carry a gun anywhere. Knowing they have a gun on them is kind of a mixed emotion, you know if things get kinda crazy, they have a gun. But at the same time if things get kinda crazy there is a gun nearby. Also they profile everyone, which means anyone who walks by or in a room they look at them and make a snap judgement, also if they think someone is shady their attention will be on them for the most part. Oh and don't expect any kind of special favors like getting out of a ticket or getting information on someone, they 99.9% of the time will not even bother to entertain the idea.
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    Sep 28, 2013 1:41 AM GMT
    My bat crazy ex. he's a fucking wack job. His excuses were.

    I'm Italian
    I'm Italian
    Oh and then there was .... I'm fucking Italianicon_rolleyes.gif