Too hot to allow your photo comment

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    Sep 28, 2013 4:41 AM GMT
    I've noticed a new trend on here lately. It's not happened a lot but it's definitely happened more than once. I'll post a nice, flattering comment about a member's progress and not only do they not have the courtesy to say "thank you", but they don't even approve the comment! Do they just think they're so far above you that they can't even allow your comment to disrupt their self importance? Or is there a more innocent reason I'm overlooking?
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    Sep 28, 2013 4:48 AM GMT
    Does he have other photo comments? If yes, then he probably only allows comments from guys he's attracted to. Lame, right? icon_rolleyes.gif
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    Sep 28, 2013 4:51 AM GMT
    mediumsizedfail saidname names. put em on blast.


    It's tempting, but that would put me on their level. One of these guys hasn't accepted ANYONE'S comments, so although I don't take it personal, it's pretty rude not to at least thank someone for giving you a sincere compliment. I don't think it's necessary to thank someone for hotlisting you, but a photo comment is a lot more personal.
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    Sep 28, 2013 4:53 AM GMT
    My guess is they have no self esteem so they think they're not worthy.
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    Sep 28, 2013 4:57 AM GMT
    Maybe they aren't seeking validation from strangers. Get over it I am sure it's nothing personal.
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    Sep 28, 2013 5:00 AM GMT
    bryans saidMaybe they aren't seeking validation from strangers. Get over it I am sure it's nothing personal.



    Thanks for explaining that to me. I'm sure your shirtless self pics are not seeking validation at all. icon_rolleyes.gif Maybe you can shed some light as to why it's so difficult to muster a simple "thanks."
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    Sep 28, 2013 5:01 AM GMT
    LOL. I think we found out who this thread is about.
  • killercliche

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    Sep 28, 2013 5:01 AM GMT
    Maybe they are bad with the interface and don't know how? Maybe they are inactive.

    It seems strange that they wouldn't allow such graffiti on their walls icon_neutral.gif
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    Sep 28, 2013 5:05 AM GMT
    I'm guess they really are feeling themselves and saying thank you is beneath them. It has nothing to do with validation, for me I just think it's nice for someone to take time to leave me a comment and I always say thanks, just because it's polite.
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    Sep 28, 2013 5:14 AM GMT
    blkapollo saidI'm guess they really are feeling themselves and saying thank you is beneath them. It has nothing to do with validation, for me I just think it's nice for someone to take time to leave me a comment and I always say thank, just because it's polite.



    Apparently you were raised correctly. The only photo comments I've ever rejected were overtly sexual ones on a non-sexual photo. And some of those I didn't bother to thank them for because they were in such bad taste. But I don't post crude comments (unless it's on Guynextdoor's x pics or something like that.) icon_redface.gif
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    Sep 28, 2013 5:38 AM GMT
    That's one thing I can say I hate about gay men...They are so narcissistic it's not even funny!!
  • jo2hotbod

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    Sep 28, 2013 7:25 AM GMT
    I wish the major worry of my life revolved around wondering why someone didn't post a photo comment left by me.

    1. They aren't obligated to,
    2. They may only post comments by friends and not strangers,
    3. They may approve in groups of comments,
    4. They may not have liked it,
    5. They may be inactive,
    6. They may not post comments or may have stopped posting comments
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    Sep 28, 2013 1:34 PM GMT
    jo2hotbod saidI wish the major worry of my life revolved around wondering why someone didn't post a photo comment left by me.


    It's no more "the major worry" of my life than it is for you to post your bitchy queen comment. Why did you feel it necessary to post your comment? Is that "the major worry" of your life? icon_rolleyes.gif
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    Sep 28, 2013 1:43 PM GMT
    I haven't left any photo comments yet because I want to say something witty and fun instead of something stupid like "sup baybeee" or "lukin fiiiiiine".

    Also I haven't thanked the guy who gave me photo comments so, thank you Sudeep, that was really nice of you.
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    Sep 28, 2013 1:53 PM GMT
    Scruffypup saidOr is there a more innocent reason I'm overlooking?

    If someone hasn't accepted any comments maybe they don't know how the approval process works. They see the notice and think it's purely informational, don't understand they've gotta initiate the approval step.
  • TannerMasseur

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    Sep 28, 2013 2:04 PM GMT
    They only accept comments from those they like. Check the comments they did accept & look at the guys whose comments they accepted & see if they have a common preference.....
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    Sep 28, 2013 2:10 PM GMT
    Sometimes...well...most of the times(TBH, Always) it's better not to expect anything, by anything I mean neither good nor bad from anyone. By anyone I mean everyone.
    I learned this somewhat "the hard way".
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    Sep 28, 2013 2:53 PM GMT
    Lately, I've noticed that photo comments I've left to guys that I thought I was friendly with have been deleted.

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  • great_scott

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    Sep 28, 2013 2:55 PM GMT
    jo2hotbod saidI wish the major worry of my life revolved around wondering why someone didn't post a photo comment left by me.


    If you think about it, the type of grown man that would actually get this upset over an unaccepted photo comment probably does have quite a few issues. Serious issues.
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    Sep 28, 2013 3:02 PM GMT


    David3000 saidMy guess is they have no self esteem so they think they're not worthy.


    One is always worthy of a comment such as *sniff*...icon_wink.gif
  • jo2hotbod

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    Sep 28, 2013 3:06 PM GMT
    Scruffypup said
    jo2hotbod saidI wish the major worry of my life revolved around wondering why someone didn't post a photo comment left by me.


    It's no more "the major worry" of my life than it is for you to post your bitchy queen comment. Why did you feel it necessary to post your comment? Is that "the major worry" of your life? icon_rolleyes.gif


    Actually I respond to those who leave comments or hot list me, I just don't get so bent out of shape that I'm close to a nervous break down if I post and don't get a response.

    Although you too did condition your terms of response...

    "The only photo comments I've ever rejected were overtly sexual ones on a non-sexual photo. And some of those I didn't bother to thank them for because they were in such bad taste. But I don't post crude comments (unless it's on Guynextdoor's x pics or something like that.)"

    So Mr. Hypocrite it's ok for you to set terms and conditions of response for yourself but not others.

    Who canonized you the holy saint of photo response etiquette? Queen douche.
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    Sep 28, 2013 3:35 PM GMT
    ∆ Someone is spending a LOT of time on this subject. Must be "the major worry" of his life. icon_lol.gif
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    Sep 28, 2013 3:50 PM GMT
    "Battle?" God you're an idiot Southbitch.
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    Sep 28, 2013 8:59 PM GMT
    ART_DECO saidIf someone hasn't accepted any comments maybe they don't know how the approval process works. They see the notice and think it's purely informational, don't understand they've gotta initiate the approval step.

    That was me in the first few weeks or so. I think someone complimented my hat or smile and I didn't realize I needed to do something.
  • AMoonHawk

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    Sep 28, 2013 9:20 PM GMT
    I usually forget about the comments I leave, so don't really ever realize they did not accept it or reply. Don't take personal, it's their pic and their choice.