failed grndr hook-up

  • recalledz

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    Sep 28, 2013 6:54 PM GMT
    Hi guys! so i hooked up with this guy i met through gndr inviting him to my house for sex. He was hot as hell and i was very into him yet i wouldn't get hard no matter what i did.It was so embarrasing and i was supposed to top for him but instead he penetrated me since i never got hard and then he just left.

    I guess the fact that i just met him bugged me but i always fantasized about hooking up and casual sex, really frustrating cause now i fear doing it even if i want to cause i might have to go through that again...
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    Sep 28, 2013 7:40 PM GMT
    Life is the art of drawing without an eraser.
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    Sep 28, 2013 10:34 PM GMT
    This is why online hookups suck. He was every thing you wanted but the reason you couldn't get it up was performance pressure. If he were average looking you wouldn't feel nearly as much pressure.
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    Sep 28, 2013 11:19 PM GMT
    that happened to me with a girl once. she wasn't very hot though. it's an awful feeling and i havent had the balls to try with a girl since icon_sad.gif
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    Sep 28, 2013 11:19 PM GMT
    friendormate saidThis is why online hookups suck. He was every thing you wanted but the reason you couldn't get it up was performance pressure. If he were average looking you wouldn't feel nearly as much pressure.


    I agree, sounds like performance pressure. Don't let it really bother with you, this happens to everyone at some point.
  • recalledz

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    Sep 29, 2013 6:13 PM GMT
    rlly? haha nice to know that! thnx for ur replies! icon_smile.gif
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    Sep 30, 2013 12:01 PM GMT
    Grindr is designed for anti-social losers, do you really want to invite one of these into your home?
  • recalledz

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    Sep 30, 2013 6:06 PM GMT
    smartmoney saidGrindr is designed for anti-social losers, do you really want to invite one of these into your home?


    Maybe but to people like myself whom are very shy it is a great app. Besides, i have met pretty decent poeple in their and have made nice freinds.
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    Oct 01, 2013 5:45 AM GMT
    I don't take Grindr seriously! A lot of time, guys just messaged me saying (Sup, you're cute, wanna hook up?) Like okay, I'm going to sleep with you when I don't even know you! You didn't get hard to fuck him probably because you didn't find him attractive in person! Lol, harsh but true, I don't get a boner from dudes that I'm not attracted to! This is a lesson for you to learn about hooking up in the future. Be safe though! icon_smile.gif
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    Oct 01, 2013 8:00 AM GMT
    Performance pressure is a bitch. Even with my ex it would happen because he wasn't really "into" it and I always felt like I was torturing him. Feeling do matter to some people (unless you're overly ran by hormones in which case...)

    If you grow extremely comfortable with someone who's into you too it's so much easier to have and maintain the erection.
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    Oct 01, 2013 11:38 PM GMT
    Jaggal saidI never had that happen to me...fuck..if anything, I get hard randomly on the bus etc.


    +1
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    Oct 19, 2013 4:50 PM GMT
    Arabs can be good looking


    *itches*
  • itsonme43

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    Oct 20, 2013 1:20 AM GMT
    smartmoney saidGrindr is designed for anti-social losers, do you really want to invite one of these into your home?


    lol this pachah.png
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    Oct 20, 2013 1:26 AM GMT
    smartmoney saidGrindr is designed for anti-social losers, do you really want to invite one of these into your home?


    Exactly, I've had so many friends have stuff stolen by "hot grindr guys"
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    Oct 20, 2013 1:34 AM GMT
    recalledz said
    smartmoney saidGrindr is designed for anti-social losers, do you really want to invite one of these into your home?


    Maybe but to people like myself whom are very shy it is a great app. Besides, i have met pretty decent poeple in their and have made nice freinds.


    well then man up and go meet people IRL, it used to be that shy boys like me HAD to back in the dark ages before such things were invented. It is a shit to be shy, but with practice and commitment you will grow out of it. icon_smile.gif