Red_Vespa saidNope, I've never had a woman tell me that. I am much praised by our lesbian friends for being their all-around fix-it guy, though, which always amuses all of us for breaking the stereotypes of the handywoman lesbian and the helpless gay. For that reason my partner sometimes calls me his lesbian. LOL!!!
Heh. From an actual text message conversation last week:
ME: Woohoo!!! Just got sticky junk to fix sink. No more leaks...can wash dishes again. :-(
BOYFRIEND: Awww, that's cute LOL. My boyfriend's turning into a lesbian!
To answer the OP, though, some of my female friends say it is my contractual obligation as their male friend who happens to be gay to compliment them on their clothing, hair, and recent weight loss from time to time, since they don't hear that from straight men often enough. They say this as a joke, of course...I think women who seek out gay men for the novelty of having a gay man in their lives period are emotionally unattractive.