Meeting guys online...where to go these days?

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    Sep 30, 2013 5:52 AM GMT
    I haven't done too well online. Seems like I'm limited to Grindr and Scruff (secondarily, if being woofed at by people 1000s of miles away from you non stop isn't annoying yet). Adam4adam is getting nasty in my city...the ones that I am into are fake profiles or just not interested. No one uses Jack'd even tho it's better than both Grindr and Scruff--but the guys on there don't seem interested in me either. Craigslist is full of spam, bots, flakes, and overly paranoid-won't-even-send-pics types. Do people still use Manhunt? I never used it because you have to pay for it.

    OKcupid didn't work. Realjock didn't work. BigMuscle I can't even get views on because I don't juice like everyone else on there. Can't get laid or find decent dates unless it's like a holiday weekend and people are in town from out of town.
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    Sep 30, 2013 6:45 AM GMT
    How about meeting guys in person? Don't you have any gay or gay friendly social clubs at your school?

    Meeting guys online sucks. Guys are too far away, or they are too nit picky and will dismiss you for arbitrary/trifle reasons.

    Jackd is full of spammers now. I had to uninstall it because I kept getting 3 - 4 spam messages a day. icon_neutral.gif
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    Sep 30, 2013 10:08 AM GMT
    xrichx saidHow about meeting guys in person? Don't you have any gay or gay friendly social clubs at your school?

    Meeting guys online sucks. Guys are too far away, or they are too nit picky and will dismiss you for arbitrary/trifle reasons.
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    What Rich said.

    There are so many great guys that have the same issues you do..the common denominator seems to be the internet.
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    Sep 30, 2013 10:14 AM GMT
    Jack'd has been better lately. I almost deleted from spam as well but they seem to have fixed the problems
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    Oct 02, 2013 2:08 AM GMT
    Well I'm 27 and done with grad school so joining clubs that are school related makes me a pedo creeper to a 20 year old in such a club--heck they think 23 is old then. I know this because I look at Grindr and get "no one over 24" etc.

    I try to be social in person but next to going up to some random guy who is looking at me (for whatever reason, who knows) it's tough without the "gay context" available with online. So yea, guess I need to grow some balls, huh.
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    Oct 02, 2013 2:48 AM GMT
    Whatever your interests are, search for meetups and activities that involve them, you can meet some good guys like that and have a good time.