Questions: how do u deal with ex girlfriends????

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    Sep 30, 2013 2:34 PM GMT
    I had this girlfriend, before i came out to my family. Mind u i leave in a fairly homophobic country, where being gay is legal but not socially acceptable yet, especially in small towns. the thing is i still like her in a way, and i can see she is very much into me.

    Do my liking her back a sign, that may just maybe im bisexual or is it history that we share??? This is fucking confusing. I dont see myself going back to her, before i exploire this new path im on.
  • Bunjamon

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    Sep 30, 2013 2:41 PM GMT
    If you are sexually attracted to her, then you maybe bisexual. If you just feel a connection with her, then you've probably still got a connection with her that will either take a long time to go away or may never go away. You can like her like a sister and be very close to her (and I dare say even in love with her), but that doesn't mean that you're bisexual.

    Good luck!
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    Sep 30, 2013 2:51 PM GMT
    the worse part of this whole thing, she just took a 180 tried to kiss me, when i was walking her to a taxi. Lucky for me, i ducked and she landed on my chick. If our lips touched, it would have been a different story. But anyway ill wait and see how this one unfolds. Was not expecting this. *Sigh* it like coming out all over again
  • great_scott

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    Sep 30, 2013 10:26 PM GMT
    SKM2 saidMind u i leave in a fairly homophobic country, where being gay is legal but not socially acceptable yet, especially in small towns.


    It's really not much different in the US, buddy.

    If you still like her, go for it. If you're not with a guy now and you think she likes you back, I don't see the problem. Seems like you're purposely limiting yourself.
  • AMoonHawk

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    Sep 30, 2013 10:34 PM GMT
    Have sex with her and get her pregnant so she will have something to remember you by and a gift that just keeps on taking .... I mean giving icon_lol.gif
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    Sep 30, 2013 11:01 PM GMT
    Great scott

    I get what u are saying, but if its happen that i end up dating a girl, i dnt think she be that girl not yet anyway. Lovely girl, our history not so much.