Is it bad to make out on the first date?

  • Rich_Chambo

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    Sep 30, 2013 9:12 PM GMT
    I went out on my first date with a guy last night who I met online. We had a really good evening and got on really well. He walked me back to my car and and we had our first kiss but we got a bit carried away as we ended up making out while leaning on my car... It's something I normally wouldn't do on my first date as I would just give a little kiss. But there was a lot of sexual chemistry and he is certainly a good kisser! Nothing felt wrong about it at all. My only problem now is will he think I'm only after one thing? Because I'm not. Is it ok to make out on a first date?
  • Webster666

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    Sep 30, 2013 9:15 PM GMT
    Looks as if your date went perfectly.
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    Sep 30, 2013 9:16 PM GMT
    First dates should include swallowing, or don't expect a second.
  • killercliche

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    Sep 30, 2013 9:16 PM GMT
    Rich_Chambo saidI went out on my first date with a guy last night who I met online. We had a really good evening and got on really well. He walked me back to my car and and we had our first kiss but we got a bit carried away as we ended up making out while leaning on my car... It's something I normally wouldn't do on my first date as I would just give a little kiss. But there was a lot of sexual chemistry and he is certainly a good kisser! Nothing felt wrong about it at all. My only problem now is will he think I'm only after one thing? Because I'm not. Is it ok to make out on a first date?


    you sound like a real slut.

    #slutshaming
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    Sep 30, 2013 9:17 PM GMT
    Yes, it's ok to make out on the first date. Ask him out on a second date!
  • Rich_Chambo

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    Sep 30, 2013 9:20 PM GMT
    Second date already planned for Wednesday. Going to a theme park for more "fun" icon_razz.gif

    Just hoping he hasn't got the wrong impression of me. I'm not usually that horny on a first date.....
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    Sep 30, 2013 9:59 PM GMT
    He has seen your dirty pillows. Whore. icon_evil.gif
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    Sep 30, 2013 10:00 PM GMT
    if you are feeling him, then sure why not, just go with the flow and your own comfort level.
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    Sep 30, 2013 10:02 PM GMT
    Rich_Chambo saidI went out on my first date with a guy last night who I met online. We had a really good evening and got on really well. He walked me back to my car and and we had our first kiss but we got a bit carried away as we ended up making out while leaning on my car... It's something I normally wouldn't do on my first date as I would just give a little kiss. But there was a lot of sexual chemistry and he is certainly a good kisser! Nothing felt wrong about it at all. My only problem now is will he think I'm only after one thing? Because I'm not. Is it ok to make out on a first date?


    Pretend to show some restraint.
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    Sep 30, 2013 10:03 PM GMT
    i dont see any problem with that, now ask him out again
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    Sep 30, 2013 10:19 PM GMT
    Not at all and since he wants to go out again, it doesn't look like you gave him the wrong impression.
  • AMoonHawk

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    Sep 30, 2013 10:23 PM GMT
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    Sep 30, 2013 11:14 PM GMT
    If you had only given a small kiss, he could have assumed you weren't interested.
  • killercliche

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    Oct 01, 2013 1:47 AM GMT
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  • Rich_Chambo

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    Oct 01, 2013 7:25 AM GMT
    socalx10 saidif you are feeling him, then sure why not, just go with the flow and your own comfort level.


    I sure did feel him.... I felt very comfortable with him. I got a bit carried away. But if the first date ended that way, then I'm looking forward to the next few dates! I can only imagine how they will go.... He certainly got my motor running icon_biggrin.gif
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    Oct 01, 2013 7:28 AM GMT
    If a date ends with just a hug or worse still a handshake, I work on the basis there won't be a second.
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    Oct 01, 2013 9:00 AM GMT
    Rich_Chambo said
    socalx10 saidif you are feeling him, then sure why not, just go with the flow and your own comfort level.


    I sure did feel him.... I felt very comfortable with him. I got a bit carried away. But if the first date ended that way, then I'm looking forward to the next few dates! I can only imagine how they will go.... He certainly got my motor running icon_biggrin.gif


    good for you buddy, go for it and have fun! icon_smile.gif
  • rnch

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    Oct 01, 2013 6:28 PM GMT
    Only if you have time warped back to 1924.
  • MikeW

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    Oct 01, 2013 6:39 PM GMT
    rnch saidOnly if you have time warped back to 1924.

    LOL, seriously!
  • Import

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    Oct 01, 2013 7:01 PM GMT
    OP, u sound like a common whore! a man of loose virtue.
    Shameful whore will burn in hell!!
  • KepaArg

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    Oct 01, 2013 8:04 PM GMT
    Not for me personally. Boyfriend and I went a little further than making out on our first date, lol. Been together 15 months later icon_cool.gif
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    Oct 01, 2013 8:13 PM GMT
    Keep your future dates in public places and he'll know you're not a slut.