I waited a LOONNGGGGGG time to give up my "pearl of great price" (as virginity was referred to in old fashioned novels". More than a few wanted to be my first; I didn't want THEM.
The man I chose to deflower me is still the best overall man I have ever had anal sex with. He was patient, skillful slow and sensitive to my first time needs.
As I plan on "bumping uglies" with him again this weekend, perhaps I will me mention this thread at the appropriate time.