Artistic Guys are...... HOT!

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    Nov 25, 2008 9:55 AM GMT
    I started thinking about this the other day. I tend to fall for guys who are artistic--or fall harder for them if I find out they are artistic.

    In my book, by artistic I mean someone who practices:

    -Studio art (painting, drawing, sculpture, etc.)
    -Dance (theater, choreographing, ballet, etc.)
    -Acting (performing arts, theater, musical theater, etc.)
    -Music (instrumental, vocal, etc.)
    -possibly another or two subjects I'm forgetting now.

    But, I'll look at someone's profile and think to myself, "Damn, he's hot." Then I’ll scroll down more and find out that he is artistic/creative... and I fall in "Internet love." The same can be said for anyone... not just the stereotypical "hot guys." Even if he isn't "the hottest guy here," I tend to fall for him and/or think of him as a cool guy… if I read that they are into the arts. Same happens in real life. Most of my crushes have been guys who are creative.
    Anyone else feel the same?
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    Nov 25, 2008 10:04 AM GMT
    I'm hot and artistic. But will you fall in love with me? WILL YOU!?!!?!?!?!??
  • GQjock

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    Nov 25, 2008 10:52 AM GMT
    Hot guys are Hot.....

    As said by the gay male Gertrude Stein icon_cool.gif

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    Nov 25, 2008 2:23 PM GMT
    All talented & accomplished people impress & attract me. I get particularly emotional in the presence of a gifted musician performing, often crying more at their miraculous ability than at the music itself.

    BUT, I wouldn't have a serious artist as a lover, just a friend if possible. I've found them very high maintenance, and not on the same wavelength as me. Most of my friends, and my partner, have artistic abilities to some degree, but art isn't their life.

    My best matches are made on the intellectual level. It's their minds that attract me, really more than their bodies, so that my sense of the word HOT has a different meaning than most commonly used.

    It's good you know what attracts you. That's as important as whether that interest is artistic, intellectual, emotional or physical.
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    Nov 25, 2008 3:10 PM GMT
    oh I thought you said "autistic" ... icon_rolleyes.gif ... icon_lol.gif
  • MusicMan87

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    Nov 25, 2008 3:18 PM GMT
    I guess playing the violin would fall into this category.... haha why hasn't anyone fallin in love w/ me yet? icon_razz.gif
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    Nov 25, 2008 3:39 PM GMT
    song chart memes

    song chart memes
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    Nov 25, 2008 3:41 PM GMT
    I don't know if I am hot...but I do consider myself very creative. . . .I like this topic - hope everyone who is artistic finds that special someone. . . .always wanted to date a musician / dj producer - that would be very HOT! icon_razz.gif
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    Nov 25, 2008 3:42 PM GMT
    creativity can be an incredible turn-on!
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    Nov 25, 2008 3:49 PM GMT
    Caslon - LMAO - I love the People you meet on the web graphic!

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    Nov 25, 2008 3:55 PM GMT
    OHhiker saidCaslon - LMAO - I love the People you meet on the web graphic!



    What's funny about that venn diagram is that the three never really merge to a singe area!
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    Nov 25, 2008 3:59 PM GMT
    SAHEM62896 said
    OHhiker saidCaslon - LMAO - I love the People you meet on the web graphic!



    What's funny about that venn diagram is that the three never really merge to a singe area!

    Precisely ... icon_lol.gif
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    Nov 25, 2008 4:05 PM GMT
    Decades ago I read this book : The Mind's Best Work by D. N. Perkins

    It is about the psychology of creative thinking...the mental processes that creative people use...

    It turns out they dont use any different mental processes than ordinary people. But at the end he list 16 differences that creative people do do.

    I only remember one right off....a creative people will think of a "solution." but then set it aside and think up another and by this process eventually come up with a more/most creative solution.

    The book is out of print now but I see there is a copy for sale on bookfinder.com
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    Nov 25, 2008 4:06 PM GMT
    I think you just listed the vast majority of people that I wont date.

    -Studio art (painting, drawing, sculpture, etc.)
    -Dance (theater, choreographing, ballet, etc.)
    -Acting (performing arts, theater, musical theater, etc.)
    -Music (instrumental, vocal, etc.)
    -possibly another or two subjects I'm forgetting now.

    add models and we are pretty much done.

    I perfer

    Bankers
    Lawyers
    Doctors

    I wonder what this says about me.
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    Nov 25, 2008 4:10 PM GMT



    creative writing.
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    Nov 25, 2008 4:14 PM GMT
    chungo44 saidI think you just listed the vast majority of people that I wont date.

    -Studio art (painting, drawing, sculpture, etc.)
    -Dance (theater, choreographing, ballet, etc.)
    -Acting (performing arts, theater, musical theater, etc.)
    -Music (instrumental, vocal, etc.)
    -possibly another or two subjects I'm forgetting now.

    add models and we are pretty much done.

    I perfer

    Bankers
    Lawyers
    Doctors

    I wonder what this says about me.




    as an artist i'll try to be creative in my response: you're stifling and expect people to bend to your expectations. since artists won't do that, you can't be bothered. accurate at all? icon_confused.gif
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    Nov 25, 2008 4:34 PM GMT

    'as an artist i'll try to be creative in my response: you're stifling and expect people to bend to your expectations. since artists won't do that, you can't be bothered. accurate at all?'

    What?!? Some one needs a dose of slow tortuous sexual stimulation just to the near precipice of climax and then held there for an excruciating passage of time before the roller coaster plunge into spasming release. Or just a darn good spankin'. When are we getting our paddle back?

    heheh

    Dancer, dear lad, some guys just prefer the cool analytical turn-on to the artistic one.
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    Nov 25, 2008 4:42 PM GMT
    meninlove said Dancer, dear lad, some guys just prefer the cool analytical turn-on to the artistic one.


    ....HMMMMM....I am a Quality Assurance Analyst - I wonder what that says about me. Since I consider myself an Artist/painter first...LOL
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    Nov 25, 2008 5:00 PM GMT
    chungo44 saidBankers
    Lawyers
    Doctors

    I wonder what this says about me.


    You like greedy guys that screw you? icon_lol.gif
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    Nov 25, 2008 5:10 PM GMT
    i wish more people felt like you.....
    i can't seem to have any luck
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    Nov 25, 2008 5:12 PM GMT
    its not such a huge thing for me- i'm a design major so i'm surrounded by creative people ever day, day in and day out, and it gets old lol. and i tend to go for ppl who are unlike me but balance me out- opposites attract kinda thing, but with common ground in values and compatibility issues. i know what you mean though- that a guy have a more sensitive side
  • looktothesky

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    Nov 25, 2008 5:12 PM GMT
    I would have to agree about this, when I learn someone is artistic especially musically inclined, singing or instruments, it gets me really excited.

    I am a very artistic person myself, I love to draw, sing, and produce music and knowing someone else has that same artistic passion really makes me feel all warm inside. icon_redface.gif
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    Nov 25, 2008 5:13 PM GMT
    nvd211 saidi wish more people felt like you.....
    i can't seem to have any luck


    you're rather appealing from my point of view
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    Nov 25, 2008 5:19 PM GMT
    FirefighterBlu3 said
    chungo44 saidBankers
    Lawyers
    Doctors

    I wonder what this says about me.


    You like greedy guys that screw you? icon_lol.gif


    Ah but I am going to be a lawyer myself


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    Nov 25, 2008 5:22 PM GMT
    Every time I look in the mirror man.

    .. every stinkin time..