Seriously, what exactly is a power bottom anyway?

  • mykale

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    Oct 04, 2013 7:24 PM GMT
    Power bottom, does this exist? What does this mean exactly? is it a way of saying I like taking it but I'm not girly? No one would ever guess I'm in two boys, gaydar does not work on me, yet I am pretty much only a bottom. So does that make me a power bottom. I don't think so because I love to be dominated. I'm just so confused on this. I don't want to be too obsessed with labels Though. I'm just trying to figure out how to better describe myself. any of your advice would be great, from anyone!!
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    Oct 04, 2013 7:27 PM GMT
    Does it mean someone who can bottom all day and want more and more cock? Or a bottom who likes it rough and has amazing stamina? I have no idea. I think it means someone who has dominance over the TOP while being a BOTTOM.
  • mykale

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    Oct 04, 2013 7:32 PM GMT
    Yeah I think you're right actually. to me the feeling of I don't have a choice in this matter, I'm just going to be taking it. That seems best, I mean why would you want to be dominating the person who is supposed to be dominating you? that's the part that really confuses me? Ask this because someone has called me a power bottom, but I think I have to disagree.
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    Oct 04, 2013 7:42 PM GMT
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    Well for one thing he doesn't "just lay there," but takes an active part in the festivities. He is as likely to be the instigator as the top. Maybe more so.
    This is all Gay 101.
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    Oct 04, 2013 7:44 PM GMT
    According to the Urban dictionary, a 'Power Bottom' is:

    'An experienced bottom who loves cock so much, he wants to get pounded as roughly & aggressively as possible. The harder the better. He can take it like a champ with no pain. A power bottom doesn't just passively lay there, he pushes back on every thrust from the top. Sometimes he'll do all the work and ride the top like a mechanical bull until they both explode with ecstasy.'

    another definition:

    'Gay Male Term. Dominant Bottom. While a bottom is usually submissive to his partner, a power bottom enjoys maintaining control over the top and/or the penetration, the normally dominant role in gay male sex. Power bottoms supposedly have skilled tongues. (They give the best blow jobs fellatio and rim jobs analingus.'

    ie. The protypical power bottom is 'madsexy', see him for further guidanceicon_lol.gif
  • mykale

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    Oct 04, 2013 7:53 PM GMT
    Globetrotter25 saidAccording to the Urban dictionary, a 'Power Bottom' is:

    'An experienced bottom who loves cock so much, he wants to get pounded as roughly & aggressively as possible. The harder the better. He can take it like a champ with no pain. A power bottom doesn't just passively lay there, he pushes back on every thrust from the top. Sometimes he'll do all the work and ride the top like a mechanical bull until they both explode with ecstasy.'

    another definition:

    'Gay Male Term. Dominant Bottom. While a bottom is usually submissive to his partner, a power bottom enjoys maintaining control over the top and/or the penetration, the normally dominant role in gay male sex. Power bottoms supposedly have skilled tongues. (They give the best blow jobs fellatio and rim jobs analingus.'

    ie. The protypical power bottom is 'madsexy', see him for further guidanceicon_lol.gif
    Oh!! Okay yeah I guess I am!! That pretty much fits my Description.
  • mykale

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    Oct 04, 2013 7:55 PM GMT
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    Well for one thing he doesn't "just lay there," but takes an active part in the festivities. He is as likely to be the instigator as the top. Maybe more so.
    This is all Gay 101.
    Yeah I know, I need an education about this. Looking for mentor anyway.lol
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    Oct 04, 2013 8:09 PM GMT
    Don't feel bad. For several years I didn't know what barebacking meant.

    And when I found out I was shocked to discover that unprotected anal sex was so commonplace that it had a name for it.
  • AMoonHawk

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    Oct 04, 2013 8:12 PM GMT
    It means you like getting slammed hard and the bigger the better, it also has the implication of being a majorly HUGE slut. It means you will jump on the hugest biggest dick and take it all the way in, pull all the way out and then slam it all the way back in again and again and again......

    Are you still a power bottom?
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    Oct 04, 2013 9:24 PM GMT
    AMoonHawk saidit also has the implication of being a majorly HUGE slut.

    I wouldn't agree with that at all.

    I think it's more like what the others said, an aggressive bottom who knows what he likes and makes it known. He may or may not be a size queen.

    There's nothing wrong with being upfront with what turns you on.
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    Oct 04, 2013 9:26 PM GMT
    Its right next to the reset bottom
  • AMoonHawk

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    Oct 04, 2013 9:35 PM GMT
    Lumpyoatmeal said
    AMoonHawk saidit also has the implication of being a majorly HUGE slut.

    I wouldn't agree with that at all.

    I think it's more like what the others said, an aggressive bottom who knows what he likes and makes it known. He may or may not be a size queen.

    There's nothing wrong with being upfront with what turns you on.

    What you describe is not a power bottom ... it just a regular bottom.
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    Oct 04, 2013 9:37 PM GMT
    charlitos saidIts right next to the reset bottom


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  • AMoonHawk

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    Oct 04, 2013 9:40 PM GMT
    [url]http://www.urbandictionary.com/define.php?term=power%20bottom[/url]

    Number 3 and Number 6 .... or maybe bottoms can use terms like 'A number 1 power bottom'

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    3. power bottom
    An experienced bottom who loves cock so much, he wants to get pounded as roughly & aggressively as possible. The harder the better. He can take it like a champ with no pain. A power bottom doesn't just passively lay there, he pushes back on every thrust from the top. Sometimes he'll do all the work and ride the top like a mechanical bull until they both explode with ecstasy.

    6. powerbottom
    gay slang.
    Bottom who has sex with many partners in succession, or who has exceptional bottom abilities.
    A gay man who frequents bath houses and/or sex clubs and is anal receptive and/or performs oral sex on many men in succession would be considered a powerbottom. Also, one who can handle particularly large cocks, aggressive action, or is particularly talented at such acts.
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    Oct 04, 2013 9:44 PM GMT
    its silly labels. I wouldn't worry about it. Although...call me!! icon_wink.gif
  • mykale

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    Oct 05, 2013 12:34 AM GMT
    hairyandym saidits silly labels. I wouldn't worry about it. Although...call me!! icon_wink.gif
    yeah you're right it is a silly label, is this actually good quality to have though, I don't know about all the multiple partner action. I don't do gay scene clubbing ect.
  • mykale

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    Oct 05, 2013 12:42 AM GMT
    AMoonHawk saidIt means you like getting slammed hard and the bigger the better, it also has the implication of being a majorly HUGE slut. It means you will jump on the hugest biggest dick and take it all the way in, pull all the way out and then slam it all the way back in again and again and again......

    Are you still a power bottom?

    No I am NOT a major slut, all I want is to be one person's slut though. have you ever found something that was so right, and then it was taken away from you? wait who hasn't!! Thats just what I'm going through right now, I want my boy back!! :'-(
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    Oct 05, 2013 12:42 AM GMT
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    Oct 05, 2013 1:50 AM GMT
    A power bottom can spot the only (true) top in the club and not only drag him home, but have a ring on his finger two months later.
    Ever wonder why the Mis-match's--some hunky guy with an fugly twink?
  • TroyAthlete

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    Oct 05, 2013 1:57 AM GMT
    As a top, I can promise you'll know the difference when you encounter it.
  • mykale

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    Oct 05, 2013 2:04 AM GMT
    dustin_K_tx saidA power bottom can spot the only (true) top in the club and not only drag him home, but have a ring on his finger two months later.
    Ever wonder why the Mis-match's--some hunky guy with an fugly twink?
    Judging by what you're saying this is actually a good thing, My goal is indeed to have one person at some point. So whoever gets me will be lucky because I'm not fugly lol
  • BryUSC88

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    Oct 05, 2013 2:08 AM GMT
    Hmmm...I don't think I ever knew what a "power bottom" was either. But now that I do...I think I want one! icon_smile.gif
  • jo2hotbod

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    Oct 05, 2013 2:10 AM GMT
    If you don't know you never had one
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    Oct 05, 2013 2:10 AM GMT
    Total turn off.
  • mykale

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    Oct 05, 2013 4:12 AM GMT
    BryUSC88 saidHmmm...I don't think I ever knew what a "power bottom" was either. But now that I do...I think I want one! icon_smile.gif

    This is the response I like icon_smile.gif