Confused by gay terms

  • bigtits

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    Oct 05, 2013 6:53 PM GMT
    I know what tops and bottoms are ,but what are oral tops and oral bottoms?
  • jo2hotbod

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    Oct 05, 2013 6:57 PM GMT
    Put two and two together
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    Oct 05, 2013 8:30 PM GMT
    jo2hotbod saidPut two and two together

    He may think that the top is the guy riding the dick and bouncing up and down.
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    Oct 05, 2013 10:40 PM GMT
    Lumpyoatmeal said
    jo2hotbod saidPut two and two together

    He may think that the top is the guy riding the dick and bouncing up and down.


    No, he states he knows what a top and bottom are, just not an oral top or oral bottom
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    Oct 05, 2013 11:05 PM GMT
    jo2hotbod said
    Lumpyoatmeal said
    jo2hotbod saidPut two and two together

    He may think that the top is the guy riding the dick and bouncing up and down.


    No, he states he knows what a top and bottom are, just not an oral top or oral bottom

    That's my point; what he "knows" may not be correct. He may think he knows but if he really knew then an oral top/bottom should, as you point out, be self evident.
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    Oct 06, 2013 7:29 AM GMT
    Jaggal saidoral top likes to mouth fuck...
    That's not entirely correct.
    http://www.urbandictionary.com/define.php?term=oral+top
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    Oct 06, 2013 7:35 AM GMT
    Very simple they're a top or a bottom who likes to perform oral sex.. some tops won't bottom but will go down on a guy.. some bottoms wont suck dik ect ect
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    Oct 06, 2013 7:38 AM GMT
    jo2hotbod saidPut two and two together
    This assumes he knows what oral is. All we know is that he knows what tops and bottoms are and that he doesn't know what oral tops and oral bottoms are.
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    Oct 06, 2013 7:40 AM GMT
    numero1 saidVery simple they're a top or a bottom who likes to perform oral sex.. some tops won't bottom but will go down on a guy.. some bottoms wont suck dik ect ect
    ect as in electroconvulsive therapy? In the context of sex play, I thought the correct term was estim (which refers to electrical stimulation).
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    Oct 06, 2013 7:43 AM GMT
    It's not hard to figure out..fuck most guys are verse anyway
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    Oct 06, 2013 7:46 AM GMT
    I try to stay way from gay terms, I think that leads to stereotyping people according to body size
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    Oct 06, 2013 8:15 AM GMT
    CopperDevil saidI try to stay way from gay terms, I think that leads to stereotyping people according to body size
    ...so says the adorably cute nubian spinner!
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    Oct 06, 2013 8:16 AM GMT
    CopperDevil saidI try to stay way from gay terms, I think that leads to stereotyping people according to body size


    Twink tops are the cutest though! They're like hairless cats.
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    Oct 06, 2013 8:20 AM GMT
    TrevorMark said
    CopperDevil saidI try to stay way from gay terms, I think that leads to stereotyping people according to body size


    Twink tops are the cutest though! They're like hairless cats.

    Twinks can be tops?
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    Oct 06, 2013 8:21 AM GMT
    numero1 said
    TrevorMark said
    CopperDevil saidI try to stay way from gay terms, I think that leads to stereotyping people according to body size


    Twink tops are the cutest though! They're like hairless cats.

    Twinks can be tops?


    hell yea they can icon_lol.gif
  • MikemikeMike

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    Oct 06, 2013 8:21 AM GMT
    hey sock account use google or urban dictionary.icon_neutral.gif
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    Oct 06, 2013 8:24 AM GMT
    numero1 said
    TrevorMark said
    CopperDevil saidI try to stay way from gay terms, I think that leads to stereotyping people according to body size


    Twink tops are the cutest though! They're like hairless cats.

    Twinks can be tops?

    Uh, do you think all "bears" are tops?
    I'll give you a hint... (They're not)
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    Oct 06, 2013 8:28 AM GMT
    [quote][cite]TrevorMark said[/cite]
    numero1 said
    TrevorMark said
    CopperDevil saidI try to stay way from gay terms, I think that leads to stereotyping people according to body size


    Twink tops are the cutest though! They're like hairless cats.

    Twinks can be tops?

    Uh, do you think all "bears" are tops?
    I'll give you a hint... (They're not)[/quote
    Never been with a bear..not my thing lol
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    Oct 06, 2013 8:32 AM GMT
    numero1 said[quote][cite]TrevorMark said[/cite]
    numero1 said
    TrevorMark said
    CopperDevil saidI try to stay way from gay terms, I think that leads to stereotyping people according to body size


    Twink tops are the cutest though! They're like hairless cats.

    Twinks can be tops?

    Uh, do you think all "bears" are tops?
    I'll give you a hint... (They're not)[/quote
    Never been with a bear..not my thing lol

    As if that matters. Are all the 6'0"+ guys you meet going to be tops?
    No.
    Are all the 5'11"- guys going to be bottoms? No.
  • Fritter

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    Oct 06, 2013 12:06 PM GMT
    numero1 said
    TrevorMark said
    CopperDevil saidI try to stay way from gay terms, I think that leads to stereotyping people according to body size


    Twink tops are the cutest though! They're like hairless cats.

    Twinks can be tops?


    Seems unfair, but some of those scrawny twinks have a piece of meat that's half their size between their legs. Just because you're 240lbs of muscle doesn't mean you have something just as big down there, on the same thought, just because you are 120lbs, doesn't mean that you just might be hung to you knees!
  • jo2hotbod

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    Oct 06, 2013 2:16 PM GMT
    Jaggal said
    SixSixAtl said
    Jaggal saidoral top likes to mouth fuck...
    That's not entirely correct.
    http://www.urbandictionary.com/define.php?term=oral+top


    That's what I meant, I thought it was painfully obvious.


    Yes, Google it is the oracle of the modern ages. It tells all. Google, Google, Google
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    Oct 06, 2013 2:23 PM GMT
    Jaggal said
    SixSixAtl said
    Jaggal saidoral top likes to mouth fuck...
    That's not entirely correct.
    http://www.urbandictionary.com/define.php?term=oral+top


    That's what I meant, I thought it was painfully obvious.
    I'm still not clear what you meant and therefore also not clear on what exactly was painfully obvious, so I'll expand on my previous comment.

    The term "mouth fuck" - along with its synonyms: "skull fuck" and "face fuck" - all refer to the fairly specific act of one partner sliding his cock in and out of the mouth of the other partner - usually while holding the other partner's head - effectively simulating a fucking motion. While face fucking is indeed something an oral top might enjoy, an oral top may also enjoy sitting back, kneeling or standing in a relaxed, more passive manner while his partner sucks his cock *OR* he might also enjoy sucking his partner's cock.

    Hope that helps!
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    Oct 06, 2013 3:38 PM GMT
    Tough crowd. Damn.
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    Oct 06, 2013 3:59 PM GMT

    I don't ever remember being gay this complicated. o.O
  • dc415

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    Oct 06, 2013 4:23 PM GMT
    i thought an oral top was a top who liked to talk a lot icon_lol.gif