Jas Friedman on trial

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    Oct 06, 2013 3:25 PM GMT
    I am willing to put myself on trial. Others have said I am annoying. So 24 hours from now, replies are greatly appreciated and I want to know your thoughts. If the majority want me gone, I will exit RJ. Am I judgemental? Do I contribute to this board much? If I have upset the balance of this forum, I will gladly leave.

    Thanks very much.
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    Oct 06, 2013 3:27 PM GMT
    I don't even know you so i can't judge. My guess would be no though
  • PR_GMR

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    Oct 06, 2013 3:28 PM GMT
    Good fucking lord.. You have to start an attention-whoring thread just because I called you out on another thread.

    Oversensitive fool.
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    Oct 06, 2013 3:35 PM GMT


    lol, well if you want my attention you have it.

    No, don't leave. Instead, consider trying to get better at navigating conversations on topics and not getting all riled up when in a conflict here, and conflicts are common on RJ so this is worthwhile to learn. icon_wink.gif







  • jo2hotbod

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    Oct 06, 2013 3:37 PM GMT




    People need to get over themselves. Those who have been banished or willing to self banish, there is nothing anyone has done on any thread that is deserving of being tossed.

    Guys post dumb shit and they get responses to their dumb ass posts and get all riled up and drama queened out about it. If you say dumb shit you deserve to get called out and if you can't take it don't post.




  • MikeW

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    Oct 06, 2013 3:47 PM GMT
    meninlove said

    lol, well if you want my attention you have it.

    No, don't leave. Instead, consider trying to get better at navigating conversations on topics and not getting all riled up when in a conflict here, and conflicts are common on RJ so this is worthwhile to learn. icon_wink.gif

    Listen to MIL, they are often the voice of wisdom on this forum.

    I find you a *tad* annoying at times but, believe me, you can't hold a candle to some who are TRULY annoying (and have been here way longer than I have).

    One of the beauties (IMO) of RJ is that we do NOT always 'get along'. How boring would that be? Perhaps you just need to grow a pair and stop being offended when someone challenges you. Maybe you have something to learn from them, maybe not, but this is, after all, Real Jock, not Real Wuss.

    ETA: One thing I *do* find annoying (and obviously this isn't just you) is people who are too lazy to use SOME kind of image as their avatar. I hate the "Private photos only" lock thing. It is SO fucking ugly. If you don't want to use a face pic, put up a photo of your dog or something stupid like a butterfly, ANYTHING but that PPO block. Ugg. icon_rolleyes.gif
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    Oct 06, 2013 3:51 PM GMT
    you should leave
  • PR_GMR

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    Oct 06, 2013 3:54 PM GMT
    meninlove said

    lol, well if you want my attention you have it.

    No, don't leave. Instead, consider trying to get better at navigating conversations on topics and not getting all riled up when in a conflict here, and conflicts are common on RJ so this is worthwhile to learn. icon_wink.gif


    This.. and this:

    jo2hotbod said

    People need to get over themselves. Those who have been banished or willing to self banish, there is nothing anyone has done on any thread that is deserving of being tossed.

    Guys post dumb shit and they get responses to their dumb ass posts and get all riled up and drama queened out about it. If you say dumb shit you deserve to get called out and if you can't take it don't post.


    There are just way too many drama queens on these boards who get so easily offended at the slightest things. You can't impose your inner moral standards on the whole populaton of these boards. You're gonna drive yourself crazy with drama. I see so many dudes on these boards that do that. I call it: 'Spgem Syndrome'
  • MikeW

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    Oct 06, 2013 3:55 PM GMT
    somersault saidyou should leave

    This is exactly why this 'trial' won't work. Sarcasmsault is only half serious and the other half isn't sure if its serious or not.
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    Oct 06, 2013 3:57 PM GMT
    I didn't read your posts much...
    generally speaking
    You don't have to leave...if you enjoy here, stay. Don't let others decide what you have to do.
    If others don't feel comfortable with your posts they always can ignore you. It's their choice.
    Speak what you want to speak. If you think what you speak is the truth, speak out loud...just pay attention to the comments(the logical content only & with that feedback, reason them with your opinions and choose the right without any bias), ignore both the praises you receive and the insults that are thrown at you.
  • TannerMasseur

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    Oct 06, 2013 3:59 PM GMT
    Definitely stay buddy icon_smile.gif The catty clique are all powerless asswipes that have no affect one iota & u should treat em as such icon_smile.gif They're all below u icon_smile.gif .....
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    Oct 06, 2013 4:06 PM GMT
    contribute you! some may get it others may not... Oh well. difference should be welcomed and embraced here as long as it's w/out malice.
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    Oct 06, 2013 4:09 PM GMT
    Don't care.....don't know you. But sure as hell wouldn't leave it up for a popularity contest.






























  • jo2hotbod

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    Oct 06, 2013 4:33 PM GMT


    Really don't know if you should be banned or not but if you your self have to ask that generally means probably
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    Oct 06, 2013 5:20 PM GMT
    jo2hotbod said

    Really don't know if you should be banned or not but if you your self have to ask that generally means probably


    No, I am asking people from RJ if they want me around. If there are enough people who want me to leave, then I will leave. This is due to jmusmc85. I have said that he was arrogant and rude and now I have been accused of being annoying.

    I am self reflecting and I am wondering how others perceive me. Yes, I care about the opinions of others. I have consistently said this. I take into people's opinions into account because that's me.

    When I see bullying here or people being rude I act on it and tell them like it is. But now that I have been accused of something similar I wonder if my behaviour is unacceptable.
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    Oct 06, 2013 5:26 PM GMT
    I think you are a sock account for a recently banned longtime member. You've been a member since 08, but started posting only 2 weeks ago. You have no
    pics, are not verified. To many red flags to take you and what you write seriously, except to expose your small-mindedness and regressive views.
  • PR_GMR

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    Oct 06, 2013 5:28 PM GMT
    bhp91126 saidI think you are a sock account for a recently banned longtime member. You've been a member since 08, but started posting only 2 weeks ago. You have no
    pics, are not verified. To many red flags to take you and what you write seriously, except to expose your small-mindedness and regressive views.


    bhp, have I told you how sexy you are? That was a sexy opinion you posted right there. icon_smile.gif
  • Chainers

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    Oct 06, 2013 5:29 PM GMT
    bhp91126 saidI think you are a sock account for a recently banned longtime member. You've been a member since 08, but started posting only 2 weeks ago. You have no
    pics, are not verified. To many red flags to take you and what you write seriously, except to expose your small-mindedness and regressive views.


    Just curious what member?
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    Oct 06, 2013 5:38 PM GMT
    bhp91126 saidI think you are a sock account for a recently banned longtime member. You've been a member since 08, but started posting only 2 weeks ago. You have no
    pics, are not verified. To many red flags to take you and what you write seriously, except to expose your small-mindedness and regressive views.


    My pics are irrelevant in these discussions. It is neither here nor there in terms of posts and arguing on the finer points of discourse.
    I simply don't want my face to be shown. I have never attacked anyone in particular. If I have, please point that out.
    Verification is still no guarantee of being authentic. And no, I have never been banned since joining. If you think I have been banned before, don't you think this thread is evidence of that? If I have been a member since 08, doesn't that suggest I have never been banned? It just probably means I lurk here or that I rarely use it.

    Small minded and regressive views?

    I advocate safer sex. That is regressive? I try to point out bullies, like jmusmc85. That is small minded?

    If I am against bare-backing, why am I being attacked for trying to limit the number of HIV affected people?
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    Oct 06, 2013 5:41 PM GMT
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    bhp91126 saidI think you are a sock account for a recently banned longtime member. You've been a member since 08, but started posting only 2 weeks ago. You have no
    pics, are not verified. To many red flags to take you and what you write seriously, except to expose your small-mindedness and regressive views.


    My pics are irrelevant in these discussions. It is neither here nor there in terms of posts and arguing on the finer points of discourse.
    I simply don't want my face to be shown. I have never attacked anyone in particular. If I have, please point that out.
    Verification is still no guarantee of being authentic. And no, I have never been banned since joining. If you think I have been banned before, don't you think this thread is evidence of that? If I have been a member since 08, doesn't that suggest I have never been banned? It just probably means I lurk here or that I rarely use it.

    Small minded and regressive views?

    I advocate safer sex. That is regressive? I try to point out bullies, like jmusmc85. That is small minded?

    If I am against bare-backing, why am I being attacked for trying to limit the number of HIV affected people?

    Your evasions are making my case.
  • PR_GMR

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    Oct 06, 2013 5:44 PM GMT
    Post a damn picture. I'm sorry, but people that don't post one face picture annoy the hell out of me. Not posting a picture tells me that you're a coward and so far into the closet that you're afraid anyone might recognize you in a gay message board. I just think it's ultimate cowardice not to post a picture.
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    Oct 06, 2013 5:45 PM GMT
    bhp91126 said
    JasFriedman said
    bhp91126 saidI think you are a sock account for a recently banned longtime member. You've been a member since 08, but started posting only 2 weeks ago. You have no
    pics, are not verified. To many red flags to take you and what you write seriously, except to expose your small-mindedness and regressive views.


    My pics are irrelevant in these discussions. It is neither here nor there in terms of posts and arguing on the finer points of discourse.
    I simply don't want my face to be shown. I have never attacked anyone in particular. If I have, please point that out.
    Verification is still no guarantee of being authentic. And no, I have never been banned since joining. If you think I have been banned before, don't you think this thread is evidence of that? If I have been a member since 08, doesn't that suggest I have never been banned? It just probably means I lurk here or that I rarely use it.

    Small minded and regressive views?

    I advocate safer sex. That is regressive? I try to point out bullies, like jmusmc85. That is small minded?

    If I am against bare-backing, why am I being attacked for trying to limit the number of HIV affected people?

    Your evasions are making my case.


    On the contrary, you are evading me. I am advocating safer sex and you here admit that you are a slut. Yes, I believe those are your words.

    http://www.queerty.com/bareback-brotherhood-20130625/

    Where have I evaded you? I have answered your questions.
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    Oct 06, 2013 5:53 PM GMT
    Aristoshark saidYour tone is awfully combative, too. I think people have noticed that. Maybe think about that?


    Yes, my last post was combative because I was wrongly accused. But I have facts to back me up.
  • PR_GMR

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    Oct 06, 2013 5:54 PM GMT
    JasFriedman said
    bhp91126 said
    JasFriedman said
    bhp91126 saidI think you are a sock account for a recently banned longtime member. You've been a member since 08, but started posting only 2 weeks ago. You have no
    pics, are not verified. To many red flags to take you and what you write seriously, except to expose your small-mindedness and regressive views.


    My pics are irrelevant in these discussions. It is neither here nor there in terms of posts and arguing on the finer points of discourse.
    I simply don't want my face to be shown. I have never attacked anyone in particular. If I have, please point that out.
    Verification is still no guarantee of being authentic. And no, I have never been banned since joining. If you think I have been banned before, don't you think this thread is evidence of that? If I have been a member since 08, doesn't that suggest I have never been banned? It just probably means I lurk here or that I rarely use it.

    Small minded and regressive views?

    I advocate safer sex. That is regressive? I try to point out bullies, like jmusmc85. That is small minded?

    If I am against bare-backing, why am I being attacked for trying to limit the number of HIV affected people?

    Your evasions are making my case.


    On the contrary, you are evading me. I am advocating safer sex and you here admit that you are a slut. Yes, I believe those are your words.

    http://www.queerty.com/bareback-brotherhood-20130625/

    Where have I evaded you? I have answered your questions.


    Skimmed the article.. and it's a good one.. but I'm still gonna have bareback sex with select partners if I want to. Period. I'm not going to let a disease dictate my love life. I'm being selective--I don't do party drugs nor hookup with party guys. I avoid Craigslist gangbangs. I don't hookup on gay sex club bathrooms. But if I want to take a sexy guy's ass raw when I'm dating or in a relationship with him, I'm gonna. It's my body. My choice. And that's that. I'll deal with the consequences. Stop working on some Christ-savior syndrome and telling others how to live their sex lives.
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    Oct 06, 2013 5:56 PM GMT
    I am leaving.

    No one will miss me anyway, lol.