Cross play for my boyfriend

  • mykale

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    Oct 08, 2013 6:52 PM GMT
    Well when I had one. How many of you are into this, I know im not the only one. Does it make me less desirable to most guys?
  • mykale

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    Oct 08, 2013 7:05 PM GMT
    Well because barring porn stars there's no way a girl will do what I do. I'm starting to wonder if its a bi guy thing?
  • mykale

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    Oct 08, 2013 7:09 PM GMT
    My boy was bi and liked to pretend I was his girlfriend which made me happy cuz im gurly in the bedroom anyways.
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    Oct 08, 2013 7:13 PM GMT
    Never interested in doing it and if I would my partner would abandon me. Hell, I would abandon myself although I did play the role of a whore in a cafe theatre.
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    Oct 08, 2013 7:16 PM GMT
    Stick with guys who want a man.
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    Oct 08, 2013 7:16 PM GMT
    Not appealing at all. I'm guessing that is something that bisexual guys do like, to make being with a guy seem more acceptable somehow.
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    Oct 08, 2013 7:19 PM GMT
    blkapollo saidNot appealing at all. I'm guessing that is something that bisexual guys do like, to make being with a guy seem more acceptable somehow.



    I've met a few so called bi guys and all of them said that they like guys that act masculine and they want nothing to do with girly boys
  • AMoonHawk

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    Oct 08, 2013 7:20 PM GMT
    as long as you are not trying to make yourself up like a girl, I'm cool with it ... like if you want to throw on a school girl pleated skirt and crotchless black net panty hose and spike heals, but still totally look like a guy, I think it could be hot

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    Oct 08, 2013 7:25 PM GMT
    Addendum to my answer: if you like crossdressing then it's entirely up to you. Then you should seek out guys who prefer crossdressers. Although I suspect they may be in the minority.

    I would guess that it makes you less desirable to guys who want a man.
  • Hothouse

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    Oct 08, 2013 7:27 PM GMT
    It's really not my thing on a surface level - but - if my man was into it I'd play along.
    I'd go along with the "not being a total woman" aspect - more like a gender fuck type of thing.
    If it turns him on, then his response would most likely turn me on as well.
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    Oct 08, 2013 7:30 PM GMT
    I was 10 years with a practicing bi guy. Me in a dress? Yikes. I would make for one ugly girl. He did enjoy trans people and cross dressers but that was not my role. I like being a man. Sometimes we'd simply bring home the nightclub entertainment for him to play with. Not my thing but not a problem.
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    Oct 08, 2013 7:31 PM GMT
    I like sex with men, not women. Why would I want a man dressed up as a woman?

    Now I HAVE accommodated guys who wanted a different look for me. I've grown and lost beards & mustaches, kept my hair longer or shorter, shaved my ass & back, whatever pleased another guy. My philosophy is that my appearance is more to please HIM than ME, about which I'm otherwise somewhat ambivalent.

    One of my BFs had a thing for men in business suits. So I'd wear one just for him at home, so he could unzip and blow me while I remained fully dressed, something he loved. Of course we'd get into bed naked next. A suit & tie is no sacrifice for a BJ.

    My late partner liked Speedo tan lines. I had no tan line at all, being a gay naturist (nudist). So for him I bought 2 identical Speedos and went to a tanning salon, wearing both at once to totally block the UV light. Produced a very distinctive Speedo line that he loved. But hey, if it made him turned on more it was worth it.

    But I don't think I'd want to crossdress for a lover. I'm not his GF or wife, I'm his BF or husband, as I am now with my partner. I'll change my facial hair or my tan line, which are superficial, but not my gender. Nor do I want him to be a faux woman, either.
  • mykale

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    Oct 08, 2013 7:31 PM GMT
    AMoonHawk saidas long as you are not trying to make yourself up like a girl, I'm cool with it ... like if you want to throw on a school girl pleated skirt and crotchless black net panty hose and spike heals, but still totally look like a guy, I think it could be hot

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    I think you know what im talking about
  • Hothouse

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    Oct 08, 2013 7:45 PM GMT
    To me, crossdressing implys that a guy is trying to look like a woman - to be able to "pass" as a woman.

    Crossdressing seems more like a kinky straight guy kind of thing.

    OP - are you talking more about some fetish wear that is feminine? There is a difference between that and crossdressing.
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    Oct 08, 2013 7:55 PM GMT
    well there are some smooth ladyboys out there that barely look like guys I wouldnt mind giving them some love

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  • mykale

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    Oct 08, 2013 8:03 PM GMT
    Well david, I'm not passable but how picky are you, really?lol
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    Oct 08, 2013 8:11 PM GMT
    Not for me.
    FWIW, Years ago, I had an account on another site that seemed to cater more to DL or "curious" guys. There was a preponderance of guys who claimed that they were only interested in boys if they were dressed up as girls. I interpreted that as just an odd form of denial. icon_rolleyes.gif Haven't seen so many anywhere since. Possibly a "stage" those guys were going through.
  • mykale

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    Oct 08, 2013 8:46 PM GMT
    For me im one of Thoughs "tuff guys" so when im in bed with someone it feels really good to let my guard down and be submissive and girly
  • mykale

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    Oct 08, 2013 9:02 PM GMT
    Hothouse saidTo me, crossdressing implys that a guy is trying to look like a woman - to be able to "pass" as a woman.

    Crossdressing seems more like a kinky straight guy kind of thing.

    OP - are you talking more about some fetish wear that is feminine? There is a difference between that and crossdressing.
    ya I think your right I think I got my wording wrong. Cross play? Maybe then
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    Oct 09, 2013 3:12 AM GMT
    David3000 saidwell there are some smooth ladyboys out there that barely look like guys I wouldnt mind giving them some love

    What is it with Latins and transvestites? It seems to be a cultural thing that Latin gays are much more likely to like them.
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    Oct 09, 2013 3:45 AM GMT
    Lumpyoatmeal said
    David3000 saidwell there are some smooth ladyboys out there that barely look like guys I wouldnt mind giving them some love

    What is it with Latins and transvestites? It seems to be a cultural thing that Latin gays are much more likely to like them.


    haha I don't know about that, but I can say the best ladyboys are asian or thai
  • mykale

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    Oct 09, 2013 7:26 AM GMT
    Ya back before I realized I only like boys, I thought maybe I could just be with a lady boy then I could pretend to be straight still lol. But then I realized I actually like boys, or. should I say men. kind of funny I don't even like girls touching me, or I should say the way they touch me something to think about huh.