Taste in men

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    Oct 09, 2013 12:40 AM GMT
    Describe your ideal man physical and personality traits
    Then describe things that would be a deal breaker for you
  • Papadopoulos

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    Oct 09, 2013 12:54 AM GMT
    -Between 5'8 and 6 foot
    -Atheltic build, in shape
    -Darker hair/eyes, probably of southern European or Jewish heritage.
    -Funny, intelligent, caring, compassionate, takes good care of himself.

    That's about it really, can't be too picky can I? icon_lol.gif

    I wouldn't want smokers/heavy drug abusers or emotional baggage, or just someone who isn't chill in general.
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    Oct 09, 2013 1:49 AM GMT
    Visual preference:

    5'9"-6' tall

    Curly ringlets or wavy mid length hair, maybe a chin strap beard.
    In shape but dosent have to have a six pack or be cut. Bigger than me and nice traps and sexy back with V frame is more what catches me eye.

    Personalty type :
    Pisces or Scorpio type of personality

    Asks me alot of questions

    Someone who's dedicated and faithful, likes talking on the phone more than texting, can be seen starring at me like he's looking at my soul when he thinks i'm not looking, serious, affectionate, respectful.

    The type of guy who'll ask me to dance at a party and stand guard over me if someone else approaches even if i dont need it. Is not afraid of other peoples and will fight for a relationship.


    Someone who wants to talk everyday.
    Emotional and full of passion.

    Deal breakers are:

    tries to be funny, jokes too much ( irritating ).

    Fat

    Only texts.

    does drugs

    flighty or careless

    aquarius

    has no deep emotion

    thinks Lucy Westenra deserved what she got

    cannot apologize

    has no interest in what I'm doing ( like if I flirt with someone else and he dosent care )


  • Oct 09, 2013 1:53 AM GMT
    Physically I always go for the face, if it's cute the body doesn't have to be perfect.
    Lately I've been into those +-5'8 +-200 pounder muscle lightly hairy guys.
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    Oct 09, 2013 2:19 AM GMT
    My true love will come naturally.icon_rolleyes.gif
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    Oct 09, 2013 2:19 AM GMT
    I have broad tastes. But I insist on having my man with some fava beans and a nice Chianti.
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    Oct 09, 2013 2:21 AM GMT
    Aristoshark said


    Welcome to forever alone.

    Not at all. Nothing wrong with my list. I have built this based on experience, everything on it isnt mandatory ( except for a few ) but this is my general ideal, I actually came very close last year. I believe i have a reasonable list. Exactly what parts do you have a problem with I'm curious..
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    Oct 09, 2013 2:24 AM GMT
    the heart wants, what the heart wants, lists are ultimately not useful in a search for an ideal man. All my ex's were nothing like I ever expected or would have expected to fall in love with. ;)

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    Oct 09, 2013 2:41 AM GMT
    As for me I usually like guys shorter than me or even my height at 6'0
    Doesn't have to be built like a gladiator normal build is fine . Not really into really skinny or really fat guys
    Ethnicity isn't a huge deal my eye us caught more by latin guys but i think its one of my turn ons call me papi and Boing its a wrap
    Personality I just like them to be sane.. a little jealousy is ok but if u gonna get crazy over everything you should date an ugly guy or learn to trust your bf (me)
    Deal breakers would be someone too controlling, drug users , smokers well maybe I could look past it of they don't do it around me idk , and of course they gotta be trust worthy and independent
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    Oct 09, 2013 2:46 AM GMT
    CopperDevil said
    Aristoshark said


    Welcome to forever alone.

    Not at all. Nothing wrong with my list. I have built this based on experience, everything on it isnt mandatory ( except for a few ) but this is my general ideal, I actually came very close last year. I believe i have a reasonable list. Exactly what parts do you have a problem with I'm curious..



    There is nothing unreasonable about your list (except maybe basing personalities off of horoscope signs.) Never justify your standards to such a bitter queen. Some people are alone because they fail to set boundaries. Others are alone simply because they're mean.
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    Oct 09, 2013 3:18 AM GMT
    Scruffypup said
    CopperDevil said
    Aristoshark said


    Welcome to forever alone.

    Not at all. Nothing wrong with my list. I have built this based on experience, everything on it isnt mandatory ( except for a few ) but this is my general ideal, I actually came very close last year. I believe i have a reasonable list. Exactly what parts do you have a problem with I'm curious..



    There is nothing unreasonable about your list (except maybe basing personalities off of horoscope signs.) Never justify your standards to such a bitter queen. Some people are alone because they fail to set boundaries. Others are alone simply because they're mean.


    Whoa wait a minute, now you know that of all the people on this site I'm certainly NOT one of the bitter queens. Actually i didnt base it entirely of of the signs... Actually besides that one line, everything else i came up with in my head not out of a book or horoscope, 100% my words.
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    Oct 09, 2013 3:20 AM GMT
    Mine is really simple..

    - Physically fit/active
    - Not crazy

    Taking applications. Inquire within. icon_lol.gif
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    Oct 09, 2013 3:21 AM GMT
    CopperDevil said
    Scruffypup said
    CopperDevil said
    Aristoshark said


    Welcome to forever alone.

    Not at all. Nothing wrong with my list. I have built this based on experience, everything on it isnt mandatory ( except for a few ) but this is my general ideal, I actually came very close last year. I believe i have a reasonable list. Exactly what parts do you have a problem with I'm curious..



    There is nothing unreasonable about your list (except maybe basing personalities off of horoscope signs.) Never justify your standards to such a bitter queen. Some people are alone because they fail to set boundaries. Others are alone simply because they're mean.


    Whoa wait a minute, now you know that of all the people on this site I'm certainly NOT one of the bitter queens. Actually i didnt base it entirely of of the signs... Actually besides that one line, everything else i came up with in my head not out of a book or horoscope, 100% my words. I have dated people who fit these descriptions before. and they didnt workout for reasons outside of the deal breakers
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    Oct 09, 2013 3:22 AM GMT
    woodsmen saidUse the list after a number of dates later. Get to know the person first. Likely you make the list to give you strength but when the right one comes along, you will throw the list away.

    +1
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    Oct 09, 2013 3:26 AM GMT
    CopperDevil said
    CopperDevil said
    Scruffypup said
    CopperDevil said
    Aristoshark said


    Welcome to forever alone.

    Not at all. Nothing wrong with my list. I have built this based on experience, everything on it isnt mandatory ( except for a few ) but this is my general ideal, I actually came very close last year. I believe i have a reasonable list. Exactly what parts do you have a problem with I'm curious..



    There is nothing unreasonable about your list (except maybe basing personalities off of horoscope signs.) Never justify your standards to such a bitter queen. Some people are alone because they fail to set boundaries. Others are alone simply because they're mean.


    Whoa wait a minute, now you know that of all the people on this site I'm certainly NOT one of the bitter queens. Actually i didnt base it entirely of of the signs... Actually besides that one line, everything else i came up with in my head not out of a book or horoscope, 100% my words. I have dated people who fit these descriptions before. and they didnt workout for reasons outside of the deal breakers



    No no no.....I wasn't calling you a bitter queen. Please reread.
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    Oct 09, 2013 3:28 AM GMT
    Scruffypup said
    CopperDevil said
    CopperDevil said
    Scruffypup said
    CopperDevil said
    Aristoshark said


    Welcome to forever alone.

    Not at all. Nothing wrong with my list. I have built this based on experience, everything on it isnt mandatory ( except for a few ) but this is my general ideal, I actually came very close last year. I believe i have a reasonable list. Exactly what parts do you have a problem with I'm curious..



    There is nothing unreasonable about your list (except maybe basing personalities off of horoscope signs.) Never justify your standards to such a bitter queen. Some people are alone because they fail to set boundaries. Others are alone simply because they're mean.


    Whoa wait a minute, now you know that of all the people on this site I'm certainly NOT one of the bitter queens. Actually i didnt base it entirely of of the signs... Actually besides that one line, everything else i came up with in my head not out of a book or horoscope, 100% my words. I have dated people who fit these descriptions before. and they didnt workout for reasons outside of the deal breakers



    No no no.....I wasn't calling you a bitter queen. Please reread.


    Woops i read that wrong, sorry icon_smile.gif
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    Oct 09, 2013 3:40 AM GMT
    Reasonably fit, handsome, sensitive, adventurous, sensible, understanding. Able to twerk, but not a must.

    As for the deal-breakers, mean-spirited and selfish pretty much are the big ones for me. No drunks or drug addicts, either, I can't deal with that.
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    Oct 09, 2013 3:43 AM GMT
    The_Tango saidMy true love will come naturally.icon_rolleyes.gif


    He'll come to me when I'm feel really cold.icon_sad.gif
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    Oct 09, 2013 3:45 AM GMT
    Aristoshark said
    CopperDevil said
    Aristoshark said


    Welcome to forever alone.

    Not at all. Nothing wrong with my list. I have built this based on experience, everything on it isnt mandatory ( except for a few ) but this is my general ideal, I actually came very close last year. I believe i have a reasonable list. Exactly what parts do you have a problem with I'm curious..

    Aquarius? Seriously?
    And that thing about Lucy Westenra?
    Pisces or Scorpio? Really?


    thing about Lucy relates to my ideals on sexual moral and freedom, ( its an inside thing too much to explain ) However i will not date an Aquarius and i dont care who thinks thats messed up ... its just not going to happen NO !!!!!!
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    The_Tango said
    The_Tango saidMy true love will come naturally.icon_rolleyes.gif


    He'll come to me when I'm feel really cold.icon_sad.gif


    On a planet of ice where everything feels cold all the time. He'll make me feel warm. He brings fire to me heart.icon_biggrin.gif
  • MikeW

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    Oct 09, 2013 3:49 AM GMT
    Must be over 18 but younger than 24. Smart, irreverent, athletic, well hung, cut, risk taker and totally turned on by bald heads, wrinkles, age spots, wacky eyebrows and hair growing in all the wrong places.

    Total deal breaker: Isn't independently wealthy.
  • PolitiMAC

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    Oct 09, 2013 3:54 AM GMT
    I really can't answer. I've often thought about what would be good, but then I have thoughts of things that are the opposite of that and I like both sometimes!

    For instance, I LOVE sensitivity and emotional openness, but on the other hand, if a guy was a bit of an enigma and comparatively private, then it would make me feel even more special when he opens up to me like no one else. I think I like the second one more...

    But as long as they are smart, and to qualify, smart to me is not getting great ATARs and qualifications, but being able to run their emotional, mental and operational sides of their life properly; without needing to collapse into helplessness everytime.

    They need to be mature, ain't nobody got time fo' children. They need to be pleasant, but not overly happy and nice all the time. That tells me they are forcing themself to be too happy, and that spells out dishonesty.

    They don't even need to be politically aligned with me. Just as long there is an ability for us to converse about it calmly and openly. If he's a Socialist, then I'll debate him all day long icon_razz.gif

    But these are all debatable when the circumstance comes up. Right now, they are a good guideline but the smartness and maturity parts are musts. Other than that, I dunno icon_razz.gif
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    Oct 09, 2013 4:44 AM GMT
    This may sound like a fake-out answer, but I mean every word of it.

    Physically, I don't know what my ideal man is. I am attracted to guys around my height and taller. I am attracted to guys with hair lighter than mine with light eyes, a strong chin, and a slightly athletic build.

    As far as personality goes, someone who is kind, but honest. Not afraid to wear his heart on his sleeve, knows how to act like an adult, but is in touch with his inner child.

    But in all honestly, I'd fall in love with anyone with the right personality, all it takes is the right combination of traits.
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    Oct 09, 2013 4:55 AM GMT
    Sweet guy that likes to be taken care of, he gotta like to cuddle and be open to do dirty things in bed.
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    Oct 09, 2013 6:06 AM GMT
    Ideal guy: Similar to me, same age, background, height, weight....etc. Sweet, romantic, cute, handsome, educated, goal-oriented, kind, funny, adventurous, not a club queen or a slut.

    Deal breakers: Bum, Druggies, Smokers, Alcoholics, Too much of a slut, Mean, Racist ....etc.