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    Oct 09, 2013 1:04 AM GMT
    So I'll just be upfront. There's a guy that I like in school here, but we're "friends" I guess and I don't know how to proceed.

    The first time I met him, it was early in the semester and I was eating and I saw him and checked him out, then he turned from where he was going and asked to sit with me. We ended up talking for a long while before he had to go.

    After that every time I see him, we talk or he hails me out - depending on what we're doing it'll be long or short conversations.

    I gave him my number weeks back, but he never texted me or called... but that seemed OK because I saw him the next few days and we talked for longer.

    Anyway today was odd because I was reading a book and listening to music in a spot I like (away from other people and has a nice view of the sunset), and I was in the book deep then I see something thrown onto the bench next to me and when I look up it's him throwing a bag of chips next to me then walking off smiling. Then he's like "don't you want them?" Then we end up talking for quite a long time, probably like an hour.

    So he had to go do something so we're walking back to his dorm and we end up reaching the topic of sex/relationships. Now I know I was stupid for not asking back these things, but he asked me if I had a girlfriend/boyfriend, then we ended up talking about me being a virgin and stuff. It wasn't as bad as it sounds here, because he actually understood it and liked that I saw sex as something special.

    I don't know whether I should like let him know I'm gay and try to pursue him like relationship wise, or if I should just keep being his friend, he's one of the few people around here that I like.

    Thoughts or suggestions?
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    Oct 09, 2013 1:05 AM GMT
    This was meant for Dating/Relationships, no idea how it reached here. Can someone please move this to the right area?
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    Oct 09, 2013 1:36 AM GMT
    OK, so this dude asked you upfront if you had a girlfriend OR boyfriend? And you also talked about being a virgin with him. It's safe to assume this guy is 110% gay and obviously interested in you.
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    Oct 09, 2013 1:45 AM GMT
    David3000 saidOK, so this dude asked you upfront if you had a girlfriend OR boyfriend? And you also talked about being a virgin. It's safe to assume this guy is 110% gay and obviously interested in you.


    Well how should I proceed? Should I ask him to do something? I just don't know if I get the gay vibe from him. And the fact that he never texted me or called makes me feel like he might not be interested.
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    Oct 09, 2013 1:59 AM GMT
    OneSongGlory said
    David3000 saidOK, so this dude asked you upfront if you had a girlfriend OR boyfriend? And you also talked about being a virgin. It's safe to assume this guy is 110% gay and obviously interested in you.


    Well how should I proceed? Should I ask him to do something? I just don't know if I get the gay vibe from him. And the fact that he never texted me or called makes me feel like he might not be interested.


    Just let things flow, youre knowing each other, next time you talk to him tell him to go for a beer.
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    Oct 09, 2013 2:05 AM GMT
    Thank you guys for your help! I'll see how things go next time I see him!