Friends asking for your approval for something they know is wrong.

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    Nov 26, 2008 10:48 AM GMT
    My friend: Is it okay to go out with a freshman? He friended me on facebook.

    Me: Yes of course, why wouldn't it be?

    Him: Yeah...I guess

    Me:Wait a minute were talking college freshman right?

    Him: Not...exactly. He's from my old highschool.

    Me:NO! What is wrong with you...a 15 year old, that's a felony.

    Him:But he's really mature and i've known him for years, plus he flirted with me!

    Me: NO!

    Him: But what if...

    Me: NO! Just NO!



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    Nov 26, 2008 11:48 AM GMT
    lol... my friends know better than to ask me things like that
    Because they know that they'll either get an earful or just a "have you lost your freaking mind" face
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    Nov 26, 2008 6:13 PM GMT
    OMG! Seriously?

    I do often have to remind a friend when he seems to cruise Highschoolers, but he would no better than to ask my permission. He'd probably assume I'd be the one calling the cops. I hear a LOT of guys reasoning that it's OK to see anyone under 18 in a romantic fashion. "Well I haven't convinced him, he's a man, he's just as horny as I." Guess what, he's NOT a man yet. No matter how one can reason it, it's just not OK. Not to mention, the chances of it ending drama-free are about as good as Bush leaving office today.
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    Nov 26, 2008 6:35 PM GMT

    He would be considered a predator! It's a felony in 50 states I'm assuming that this friend is over 18 years old. If things go south he could be arrested.
    He would be branded a sex-offender for the rest of his life.

    Is your friend NUTS!
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    Nov 26, 2008 6:37 PM GMT
    at least he knows the boy's age, I ended up dating a 15 cause he told me he was 19
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    Nov 26, 2008 6:38 PM GMT

    You're a good friend. With friends you sometime have to be the hero, is a hard job, but we love them, they just sometime need to be rescued from themselves, LOL.

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    Nov 26, 2008 7:18 PM GMT
    charlitos saidat least he knows the boy's age, I ended up dating a 15 cause he told me he was 19


    That happened to me too. He told me he was a fresher and since he had a decent 5 oclock shadow and quite a hairy chest, I put 2 and 2 together to get 'not jailbait'
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    Nov 26, 2008 7:28 PM GMT
    Charlitos,

    The diffrence here is that his friend knows this kids age or better yet a 15 year old is still a baby!

    Can we say pedophile because in the eyes of the law that's what he is.

    OMG! If anyone of my friends told me something like that I would report them to authorities no questions asked.icon_mad.gif
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    Nov 26, 2008 7:33 PM GMT
    Just make sure your friend doesn't end up on national TV....in that show with Chris Hansen on Dateline NBC......where they surprise the poor slob who came to have sex with a minor ( who isn't really a minor, but a cop)................and they have all the internet chat conversation as proof.
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    Nov 26, 2008 7:34 PM GMT
    He could have been asking you for a hundred things. Obviously he knows it is wrong because he had to ask you. So, that wasn't really his question. He was possibly asking how to deal with this, ways to get over the guy, just looking to get this off his chest to a friend.

    My advice is to hook him up with someone toot sweet. A little date a little sex and Mr. Freshman will get a few more years in the wine cellar to mature.
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    Nov 26, 2008 9:10 PM GMT
    He's almost 20.

    I told him the best he could is too the put the kid on lay away for 4 yearsicon_lol.gif

    I agree completely but Isn't calling him a baby a bit extreme though....
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    Nov 26, 2008 9:42 PM GMT
    Ducky44 saidCharlitos,

    The diffrence here is that his friend knows this kids age or better yet a 15 year old is still a baby!

    Can we say pedophile because in the eyes of the law that's what he is.

    OMG! If anyone of my friends told me something like that I would report them to authorities no questions asked.icon_mad.gif


    Chill, Ducky....have you seen how they are making 15 year olds these days? You're right, totally agree with you, but we aren't talking pimples and bird chest here, these boys have pecs and nine inches now. icon_redface.gif