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  • Vaughn

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    Oct 11, 2013 2:17 AM GMT
    The Senderi would like to address the issue that you only have white men in you're hotlist. Please add some Black and asian men to you're hotlist so you'll look less racist thanks.


    My ResponseI am actually attracted to black and Asian men... So long as they reach my incredibly unrealistic standards for the human body and face. I however come across very few of their profiles on Real Jock. In large part this is because I find most of the people on my hot list through the hot lists of people I have hot listed. I seldom encounter a diverse phenotype of people on this site. You are of course welcome to send me a list of profiles you think I should be attracted to and I will consider adding them to my hot list.

    Before you continue to work out your issues of racism with strangers online please be aware that sexual selection is very different from what most people identify as racism. Sexual preference for one's own phenotype (in this case from adaptive radiation) is as much racism or discrimination as not having sex with a woman is sexism or not having sex with a 90 year old is agism. There are many theories into the causes of varies components of a person's sexuality, but causes which lead to these variations is not clearly identified. Regardless people typically prefer people of a culture or 'race' in which they identify. I am certainly unaware of any indication that sexual selection and social stratification based on phenotype are related in a 'non post hoc ergo' way.


    I was once accused of being a racist for turning down a drink from an obese black man. I actually turned down the drink because i was entirely too intoxicated. When he accused me of racism I asked him, "I'm sorry?". He told me I wouldn't sleep with him because he was black. I walked away, after all it is better to not stir the kettle.

    What are your thoughts on sexual selection?

    Is rejecting the sexual advances of an obese individual a form of harassment?

    Do you consider preferring sexual intimacy with your own group identity to be a legitimate form of social stratification?

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    Oct 11, 2013 2:49 AM GMT
    There is nothing wrong if you are attracted to white men only (or asians, or black or whatever). I'm sick of these race threads. There is something called preference, and it doesn't make you a racist, everyone should get over it.
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    Oct 11, 2013 2:57 AM GMT
    Vaughn said
    The Senderi would like to address the issue that you only have white men in you're hotlist. Please add some Black and asian men to you're hotlist so you'll look less racist thanks.


    My ResponseI am actually attracted to black and Asian men... So long as they reach my incredibly unrealistic standards for the human body and face. I however come across very few of their profiles on Real Jock. In large part this is because I find most of the people on my hot list through the hot lists of people I have hot listed. I seldom encounter a diverse phenotype of people on this site. You are of course welcome to send me a list of profiles you think I should be attracted to and I will consider adding them to my hot list.

    Before you continue to work out your issues of racism with strangers online please be aware that sexual selection is very different from what most people identify as racism. Sexual preference for one's own phenotype (in this case from adaptive radiation) is as much racism or discrimination as not having sex with a woman is sexism or not having sex with a 90 year old is agism. There are many theories into the causes of varies components of a person's sexuality, but causes which lead to these variations is not clearly identified. Regardless people typically prefer people of a culture or 'race' in which they identify. I am certainly unaware of any indication that sexual selection and social stratification based on phenotype are related in a 'non post hoc ergo' way.


    I was once accused of being a racist for turning down a drink from an obese black man. I actually turned down the drink because i was entirely too intoxicated. When he accused me of racism I asked him, "I'm sorry?". He told me I wouldn't sleep with him because he was black. I walked away, after all it is better to not stir the kettle.

    What are your thoughts on sexual selection?

    Is rejecting the sexual advances of an obese individual a form of harassment?

    Do you consider preferring sexual intimacy with your own group identity to be a legitimate form of social stratification?

    We need to know who The Sender is! icon_lol.gif
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    Oct 11, 2013 3:00 AM GMT
    I google-imaged free love

    hippies.jpg

    Hmmmm. On second thought. I'll make a deal with ya. You don't have to sex up an obese black guy if I don't have to have sex with anyone who'd wear those pants.
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    Oct 11, 2013 3:03 AM GMT
    Preference is preference, it really isn't something that can be controlled. A lot of people get butt hurt over it, but most of the time they are types that don't attract anyone at all.
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    Oct 11, 2013 3:05 AM GMT
    I have a response from the SAME DUDE that is asking me if I am racist because I'm from Alabama. I'm serious lol!

    From the user
    Is you're family racist since they're from Alabama?? you know what they say about white people from Alabama and mississippi..
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    Oct 11, 2013 3:11 AM GMT
    I don't think you should've even bothered to write back. He's a douche. Tell him to go talk to a cunt.
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    Oct 11, 2013 3:13 AM GMT
    OK so who's that? we want names
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    Oct 11, 2013 3:28 AM GMT
    Hmmm I kinda feel like giving the sender up, but he only has 200 posts and I'm pretty sure his pictures are fake or taken from somewhere else.

    It's funny because he mentioned he's from Germany yet his people talk so much about Alabama and Mississippi. Odd!
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    Oct 11, 2013 6:56 AM GMT
    Do it! icon_lol.gif
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    Oct 11, 2013 7:00 AM GMT
    Vaughn said
    The Senderi would like to address the issue that you only have white men in you're hotlist. Please add some Black and asian men to you're hotlist so you'll look less racist thanks.


    My ResponseI am actually attracted to black and Asian men... So long as they reach my incredibly unrealistic standards for the human body and face. I however come across very few of their profiles on Real Jock. In large part this is because I find most of the people on my hot list through the hot lists of people I have hot listed. I seldom encounter a diverse phenotype of people on this site. You are of course welcome to send me a list of profiles you think I should be attracted to and I will consider adding them to my hot list.

    Before you continue to work out your issues of racism with strangers online please be aware that sexual selection is very different from what most people identify as racism. Sexual preference for one's own phenotype (in this case from adaptive radiation) is as much racism or discrimination as not having sex with a woman is sexism or not having sex with a 90 year old is agism. There are many theories into the causes of varies components of a person's sexuality, but causes which lead to these variations is not clearly identified. Regardless people typically prefer people of a culture or 'race' in which they identify. I am certainly unaware of any indication that sexual selection and social stratification based on phenotype are related in a 'non post hoc ergo' way.


    I was once accused of being a racist for turning down a drink from an obese black man. I actually turned down the drink because i was entirely too intoxicated. When he accused me of racism I asked him, "I'm sorry?". He told me I wouldn't sleep with him because he was black. I walked away, after all it is better to not stir the kettle.

    What are your thoughts on sexual selection?

    Is rejecting the sexual advances of an obese individual a form of harassment?

    Do you consider preferring sexual intimacy with your own group identity to be a legitimate form of social stratification?



    The writing comes off as regurgitation but you might be clever nonetheless.
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    Oct 11, 2013 7:00 AM GMT
    And sorry for not actually responding to your posting.
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    Oct 11, 2013 7:07 AM GMT
    Unnamed5 said
    Vaughn said
    The Senderi would like to address the issue that you only have white men in you're hotlist. Please add some Black and asian men to you're hotlist so you'll look less racist thanks.


    My ResponseI am actually attracted to black and Asian men... So long as they reach my incredibly unrealistic standards for the human body and face. I however come across very few of their profiles on Real Jock. In large part this is because I find most of the people on my hot list through the hot lists of people I have hot listed. I seldom encounter a diverse phenotype of people on this site. You are of course welcome to send me a list of profiles you think I should be attracted to and I will consider adding them to my hot list.

    Before you continue to work out your issues of racism with strangers online please be aware that sexual selection is very different from what most people identify as racism. Sexual preference for one's own phenotype (in this case from adaptive radiation) is as much racism or discrimination as not having sex with a woman is sexism or not having sex with a 90 year old is agism. There are many theories into the causes of varies components of a person's sexuality, but causes which lead to these variations is not clearly identified. Regardless people typically prefer people of a culture or 'race' in which they identify. I am certainly unaware of any indication that sexual selection and social stratification based on phenotype are related in a 'non post hoc ergo' way.


    I was once accused of being a racist for turning down a drink from an obese black man. I actually turned down the drink because i was entirely too intoxicated. When he accused me of racism I asked him, "I'm sorry?". He told me I wouldn't sleep with him because he was black. I walked away, after all it is better to not stir the kettle.

    What are your thoughts on sexual selection?

    Is rejecting the sexual advances of an obese individual a form of harassment?

    Do you consider preferring sexual intimacy with your own group identity to be a legitimate form of social stratification?



    The writing comes off as regurgitation but you might be clever nonetheless.


    It's something I noticed about your postings, and what I'm trying to say is perhaps reading less would do you a lot of good. The mind should not be constrained by the theories or thoughts of others to inform you on the nature of things as it's something you can also think on your own (without resorting to learning by experience...), which is what you are trying to do with these questions, right?
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    Oct 11, 2013 7:08 AM GMT
    And again sorry for not having to respond to your posting, and perhaps I won't at all...
  • TannerMasseur

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    Oct 11, 2013 7:14 AM GMT
    Just looked at ur hotlist of 122 guys icon_smile.gif Counted 3 Asians on there, 1 black, 1 mulatto or octoroon & 1 Latino. So the guy can't say u only have white guys on ur hotlist.
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    Oct 11, 2013 3:23 PM GMT
    Sounds like the guy has some serious issues about himself. If he doesn't like your hot list, then why is he bothering to email you. He should have just blocked you.

    As for the obese black man, next time say you're really not needing another drink but you'll take the equivalent in cash so as to show you're not being bias or racist in any way.

    I think the term racist is way over used. I do believe there are many racist people unfortunately, but I don't think that every time someone fails to acknowledge a person of a different race, they're being a racist.

    As for Unnamed5 troll, a waste of time to read and a waste of space in the forum, experiment failed! Blocked.
  • MikeW

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    Oct 11, 2013 3:31 PM GMT
    Nah, if you don't want to have sex with me, you *are* an agest little fuck! icon_evil.gif
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    Oct 11, 2013 3:49 PM GMT
    We all have a different attraction toward men !
    Some like blokes with a swimmer body , others like blokes with a muscular body , some like blokes that have lots of meat on their bones ..Now that said , some will never have sex with someone who has a small cock or one who has a huge one , what about preferring smooth over hairy bodies ....
    Some like their men young and others old
    Are all these above choices should be considered as a form of racism ?
    Everyone has preferences , and it doesn't merit a label icon_smile.gif
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    Oct 11, 2013 4:22 PM GMT
    itsmesnitches saidis it against the rules to post pm's in here though?



    It's tacky to do so. No "rule" though.
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    Oct 11, 2013 5:41 PM GMT
    It's beyond my imagination why there is such a high proportion of socially inept people here who don't know where their business ends.
    That said, I once had a heated discussion with two people who were offended by how racist RJ was because there were so few black MODs. When I pointed out to them that they only had white guys on their hot lists, themselves, they didn't seem to get the hypocrisy.
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    Oct 11, 2013 7:50 PM GMT
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    JohnSpotter saidIt's beyond my imagination why there is such a high proportion of socially inept people here who don't know where their business ends.
    That said, I once had a heated discussion with two people who were offended by how racist RJ was because there were so few black MODs. When I pointed out to them that they only had white guys on their hot lists, themselves, they didn't seem to get the hypocrisy.


    I think its more hypocritical that there are still few black MOD that ARE on hotlists.
    So I don't agree with your point that somehow black men are less attractive; and while we all have our own tastes, you don't speak for EVERYONE.

    What the hell is wrong with you?
    I never said any of that.
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    Oct 11, 2013 7:53 PM GMT
    JohnSpotter said
    failscarf said
    JohnSpotter saidIt's beyond my imagination why there is such a high proportion of socially inept people here who don't know where their business ends.
    That said, I once had a heated discussion with two people who were offended by how racist RJ was because there were so few black MODs. When I pointed out to them that they only had white guys on their hot lists, themselves, they didn't seem to get the hypocrisy.


    I think its more hypocritical that there are still few black MOD that ARE on hotlists.
    So I don't agree with your point that somehow black men are less attractive; and while we all have our own tastes, you don't speak for EVERYONE.

    What the hell is wrong with you?
    I never said any of that.

    He can't read through the scarf and he's too closeted to remove it.
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    Oct 11, 2013 9:55 PM GMT
    It's not racist that you turned down the Obese guy, we all like what we like. As far as race/ethnicity goes, this one is a little tricky! Just Hotlist or date whoever turn you on! Another poster (shall remain nameless) attacked me a while back in email and on a forum, he called me a *potato chaser, traitor..icon_eek.gif! I was like, what the hell does that even mean? What !!! Lol icon_lol.gif I don't take RJ seriously though and I don't reply or read emails from people I don't know! Oh well, *Shrugs you can't please everybody, there's always people that love drama, just be yourself!
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    Oct 11, 2013 10:37 PM GMT
    Vaughn saidSexual preference for one's own phenotype (in this case from adaptive radiation) is as much racism or discrimination as not having sex with a woman is sexism or not having sex with a 90 year old is agism.

    I think a stock response to any accusation of racism given people's preferences should be: "Is preferring not to sleep with a woman sexist? Is preferring not to sleep with a 90 year old ageist?"
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    Oct 11, 2013 11:27 PM GMT
    in b4 TroyFathlete ass-bleeding everywhere