National Coming Out Day.

  • brickboy1966

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    Oct 11, 2013 2:58 PM GMT
    I don't think I've officially done it. Hey everybody I'm gay. It doesn't define who I am it's just an inate part of me. Today is the day to come out of the stiffling closet.
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    Oct 11, 2013 3:04 PM GMT
    Duplicate topic. You might want to post this over on this forum:

    http://www.realjock.com/gayforums/3483250
  • brickboy1966

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    Oct 11, 2013 4:47 PM GMT
    No one should be bullied in to coming out. You have to do it at your own pace.
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    Oct 13, 2013 2:16 AM GMT
    brickboy1966 saidNo one should be bullied in to coming out. You have to do it at your own pace.


    Nope. Nor, should there be enablers allowing them to live a life where they deceive folks and lack any level of integrity to themselves, or others. I would never out anyone just to out them.

    As a matter of course, I don't associate with folks who aren't out. E.g., on this site, I pre block picture-less. I do not want to be part of all that guilt / dysfunctional / head fucked place they live in. They have to help themselves. I don't engage with folks on the "down low", cheating on their wives, girl friends, etc. I have nothing nothing to do with those dishonest, self-loathing, dysfunctional people. They are bad to be around. I don't want to have to be animated just to accommodate their irrational beliefs. It's mental illness at the heart of it, and, I just don't want any part of it, as do many guys who are out. I prefer quality folks with integrity.
  • AMoonHawk

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    Oct 13, 2013 2:24 AM GMT
    Can you really actually come out if everyone has already figured out you are gay, and then they are like ... ya we already figured that one out
  • tuffguyndc

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    Oct 13, 2013 7:53 AM GMT
    AMoonHawk saidCan you really actually come out if everyone has already figured out you are gay, and then they are like ... ya we already figured that one out
    lol that is very true. i often say that most people usually have a clue and/or not very surprised when most decide to come out. its funny that the person usually coming out seems to be the one who are surprised that everyone knew. ha ha ha how funny is that