"Are you straight?" question

  • Daniepwils

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    Oct 11, 2013 6:26 PM GMT
    I have been asked this quite a few times and I don't understand this question. However today takes the cake...

    I had a nooner with a really hot older guy (looks like Mike Ruiz the photographer) and after we are done and cleaned up. He asks me "Are you straight?".
    I was a bit taken aback by his question. My answer was
    "Well seeing as your dick was in my ass for about an hour, I'd say no". He then clarified and asked if I was out of the closet. I went on to clarify that yes I am out to family and friends, and a few friends at the office, but not the office as a whole.

    It is a question that kind of irks me.
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    Oct 11, 2013 7:13 PM GMT
    Maybe it's a Houston thing.

    Or maybe gay means a flamboyant fem to them.
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    Oct 11, 2013 9:19 PM GMT
    Some straight men like it up the bum as well.
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    Oct 12, 2013 12:38 AM GMT
    Oh you thought they were having sex with you? No, sorry. They were having sex with the guy in their head. You were just a sex toy.

    Very often I've been asked similar: Are you str8? Are you married? Are you a cop? haha Don't recall asking any of them why they asked but best I could figure is that was their fantasy.

    So never answer the question until you're done or you'll just ruin it for everyone.