Cheating Bottoms vs Cheating Tops

  • jorries

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    Oct 13, 2013 1:52 PM GMT
    Hey guys,

    So i've been wondering, in a world where cheating seems to be second nature - How many of you have been cheated on and heartbroken over it or did you think your relationship were heading towards the end anyway? Were you the Top/Bottom?

    Would be great to see whats the ratio between heartbreaking cheating tops VS heartbreaking cheating bottoms icon_smile.gif

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    Oct 13, 2013 2:23 PM GMT
    I have been cheated on.. (Ex was a bottom)
    I have Never ever cheated.

    Now that I look back..there are always signs along the way when you're dating a cheater..

    Cheating isn't a top or bottom issue.. It is more about deceit, dishonesty and lack of empathy.
  • jorries

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    Oct 13, 2013 4:13 PM GMT
    Anocxu saidI have been cheated on.. (Ex was a bottom)
    I have Never ever cheated.

    Now that I look back..there are always signs along the way when you're dating a cheater..

    Cheating isn't a top or bottom issue.. It is more about deceit, dishonesty and lack of empathy.


    Sorry to hear that man - in a sense i do agree with you, but also like to hear what other peoples thoughts are on this icon_smile.gif
  • AMoonHawk

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    Oct 13, 2013 4:52 PM GMT
    I don't think I have ever been cheated on icon_biggrin.gif .... but maybe I just felt like I was cheated on
    It sort of depends what you consider being cheated is. I think you have to have a commitment between two people before you can consider someone as cheating on you. For instance if you are just dating some guy, all options are still open ... that's how we figure out who it is the one we want to spend our lives with. I think I made a huge mistake when I was younger, when after one night with a guy I let him move in with. Sort of a long story, but he gave me this hard luck story that he wrecked his car and needed a place to stay closer to work. He moved in and didn't leave. I don't think you should move in together and make any commitments for quite a while until you get to know the person, like say 3 to 6 months, then you might be ready for a commitment. But everyone is different, some guys meet the love of their dreams the first time around ... just don't let your heart be blinded by reality.
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    Oct 13, 2013 4:55 PM GMT
    Anocxu saidCheating isn't a top or bottom issue.. It is more about deceit, dishonesty and lack of empathy.
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    Oct 13, 2013 5:01 PM GMT
    Here I thought gays were impervious to cheating. I am shocked. Here is what I told LingLang on our first "date" - never expect me to be monogamous and I will never expect you to be dressed. It's worked out fine for us.