Have you ever been caught checking someone out? If so, what was their reaction?

  • Skulldisco

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    Oct 13, 2013 5:23 PM GMT
    Have you ever been caught checking someone out? If so, what was their reaction?
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    Oct 13, 2013 7:59 PM GMT
    a girl i worked with caught me staring at here chest once (her giant boobs were practically hanging out of lowcut shirt) and she just smiled. She clearly wanted the attention, but that could have been awkward

    I think it's harder to get caught checking out a guy
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    Oct 13, 2013 9:03 PM GMT
    I objectify men all the time. Sometimes they stare at me like I was invading their personal space or something. I just smile and say something like "what?" and finish my General Tso's and leave a decent tip.
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    Oct 14, 2013 2:03 AM GMT
    No, I'm pretty careful. I've checked out my trainer a couple of times, he's fine and has got a lot of swag, so it's hard not to stare, but he's never seen me.
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    Oct 14, 2013 4:58 AM GMT
    Yeah, a couple times, lol they smiled and asked how's it going! I got literally shy/red when I got caught! this one time I accidentally saw this cute guy's penis in the bathroom!!! He caught me, smiled OMG I wanted to run!!! icon_eek.gificon_redface.gificon_redface.gif
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    Oct 14, 2013 5:49 AM GMT
    Yeah, my camp leader David, I saw his bulge shamelessly when dressing up, and he liked it, as well as when I "accidently" open his curtain when showeringg and saw his tushie. I wa 13 and he 22 back then...
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    Oct 14, 2013 5:54 AM GMT
    All the time..I think I just don't care anymore.. I had a muscle stud come in to my job a couple weeks ago..he has like 3 big margaritas..then he asked y my coworker was staring at him.. so I reply .. Uhm..she wanted to see what you look like..cause I told her you were beautiful... O.O ... So ..is your steak ok? He said yea and just smiled .. good tip atleast
  • JohnWoodHill

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    Oct 14, 2013 6:51 AM GMT
    I don't get caught, well not unless I want it to happen. Normally when someone sees im looking in their direction I have a look of such disinterest that they all shrug me off as staring into space or just a passing gaze. But i let myself be noticed when I see that aura, you know that sense that for some reason, without knowing the guy you can sense the gay on him.
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    Oct 14, 2013 9:14 AM GMT
    I was a Auto Service Advisor. I learned that straight guys love personal attention! I wasn't staring at their crotch or anything but gave the guys a good once over. I found a subtle flirting was even good for business, as long as it was unsaid and professional.

    Gay guys were too uptight about it. God if I smiled and said Hello they'd act like I was trying to pick em up.
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    Oct 14, 2013 10:26 AM GMT
    JohnWoodHill saidI don't get caught, well not unless I want it to happen. Normally when someone sees im looking in their direction I have a look of such disinterest that they all shrug me off as staring into space or just a passing gaze. But i let myself be noticed when I see that aura, you know that sense that for some reason, without knowing the guy you can sense the gay on him.


    what sense? Can you teach me!
  • Skulldisco

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    Oct 14, 2013 10:42 AM GMT
    I checked out a guy's ass when I was in the gym. For a second i was totally paralysed by his butt. When i realised that i was looking to long, he turn around and got very nervous. Looked away very fast. It was almost like he was caught checking me out instead of him.

    Later that week he aks me if i wanted something to drink hihi.
    So I guess you can not tell by someones reaction if there gay or bi or straight in that situation.
  • ChicagoSteve

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    Oct 15, 2013 1:09 AM GMT
    Skulldisco saidHave you ever been caught checking someone out? If so, what was their reaction?


    I did something really ballsy once that I never tried again. I was younger then and actually more willing to take risks. I was on one of the local Chicago commuter trains going out to the suburbs and i noticed a really cute guy sitting in the backwards facing seats up front. There was a little bit of eye contact but I wasn't sure of his persuasion. I went up to him and asked him if he had a pen. He gave me one and I went back to my seat, wrote my name and number with a "have a drink sometime"? note and walked back and gave him the pen back and the note. When I sat back down I looked at him and he just gave me the biggest smile, he was clearly flustered but I think flattered. i thought that was pretty gutsy on my part but the guy never called.
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    Oct 15, 2013 9:13 PM GMT
    ChicagoSteve said
    Skulldisco saidHave you ever been caught checking someone out? If so, what was their reaction?


    I did something really ballsy once that I never tried again. I was younger then and actually more willing to take risks. I was on one of the local Chicago commuter trains going out to the suburbs and i noticed a really cute guy sitting in the backwards facing seats up front. There was a little bit of eye contact but I wasn't sure of his persuasion. I went up to him and asked him if he had a pen. He gave me one and I went back to my seat, wrote my name and number with a "have a drink sometime"? note and walked back and gave him the pen back and the note. When I sat back down I looked at him and he just gave me the biggest smile, he was clearly flustered but I think flattered. i thought that was pretty gutsy on my part but the guy never called.


    I mean more like getting caught checking out someones ass or crotch.
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    Oct 16, 2013 2:34 AM GMT
    No one themselves have caught me checking them out. but my cousin was having a party and one of her freinds walked in, automatically my cousin hit me and said did you just check him out of course i said no, she said yes you did, you did what all guys to to people when they check someone out, you double checked up and down then probably thought to yourself "yeah id tap that" lol its good that she knows im gay and finds it funny, i guess. lol
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    Oct 16, 2013 2:36 AM GMT
    SouthernGymRat saidNo one themselves have caught me checking them out. but my cousin was having a party and one of her freinds walked in, automatically my cousin hit me and said did you just check him out of course i said no, she said yes you did, you did what all guys to to people when they check someone out, you double checked up and down then probably thought to yourself "yeah id tap that" lol its good that she knows im gay and finds it funny, i guess. lol
    and she knew i was checking out both ass and bludge, at the time she didnt know about me now, its funny to her that i did that, because he was the senior quarter back, can i say he had a nice nice ass. ha
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    Oct 16, 2013 2:43 AM GMT
    ChicagoSteve said
    Skulldisco saidHave you ever been caught checking someone out? If so, what was their reaction?


    I did something really ballsy once that I never tried again. I was younger then and actually more willing to take risks. I was on one of the local Chicago commuter trains going out to the suburbs and i noticed a really cute guy sitting in the backwards facing seats up front. There was a little bit of eye contact but I wasn't sure of his persuasion. I went up to him and asked him if he had a pen. He gave me one and I went back to my seat, wrote my name and number with a "have a drink sometime"? note and walked back and gave him the pen back and the note. When I sat back down I looked at him and he just gave me the biggest smile, he was clearly flustered but I think flattered. i thought that was pretty gutsy on my part but the guy never called.


    I love this! I have to try this sometime.
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    Oct 16, 2013 4:35 AM GMT
    yes. and he checked me out back.
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    Oct 16, 2013 6:28 AM GMT
    I remember getting caught once. Even worse... in the locker room. I'd seen this guy before, but that was the first time I saw him with his shirt off. I dunno... maybe my jaw dropped.

    He just flashed me a huge grin. I blushed and slunk away. It was devastating.

    Damn. I need to practice that grin. Just in case.
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    Oct 16, 2013 11:45 AM GMT
    When I've been busted and the reaction hasn't been good, the exchange goes like this: "WHAT'RE YOU LOOKIN' AT?" "Huh?"

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  • Oct 18, 2013 3:41 AM GMT
    I'm usually occupied with something else that I can turn to if I feel they are even about to notice. I use that other thing to turn my attention away but it's probably a little obvious at times.

    One thing I know likely makes it obvious is when you're on a sidewalk and a good looking guy is walking in your direction and you want to just focus on going by but your eyes can't help but shift back to him, no matter what you're doing.

    If I do feel like I've been caught, it seems like they have a 'was he looking at me?' face rather than outright looking like they knew what I was up to.
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    Nov 22, 2014 4:22 PM GMT
    I got caught in the gym once...yes, I'm partnered, but I can still look. I'm always certain that my surreptitious glances can't be observed, but I was mistaken. A really cute guy came from the shower to a locker a few down from mine. He was wrapped in a beach towel. He kind of did the towel dance to put on his shorts...commando. I got a quick peek at one of the largest dicks I've ever seen. I then took a few more glances as he finished dressing. When he was completely dressed, he turned to me, opened his fly and smiled. I guess I'm not as sly as I thought.