Is this guy interested in me??

  • sexyman221993

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    Oct 13, 2013 9:44 PM GMT
    Okay so I met this guy through Grindr, we talked, and had pretty nice conversations. We were both looking for just friends, and were open to stuff. We met, had an good time together, we both are obsessed with Americas next top model, and have a decent amount in common, def a great friend. We have met each other over 5 times now, and each time has been great. But I somehow get the feeling, that he may be interested, but I cant fully tell, especially after last night. I mean we always talk about gay guys, and how we both want boyfriends, and how all gay guys suck, we always go on grindr in front of each other, but something tells me, he is interested. He invited me for a sleepover, and we watch pitch perfect. This was our seventh time meeting, and we have never ever done anything sexual, but we were drinking wine, and watching movies, but we were becomming cuddly, and we ended up having sex, making out, oral, and all that, and it felt good, and everything is cool between us, were normal when we woke up. I am just confused as to what this means, like I like this guy, but I dont know if he just wants to be friends or not, i dont wanna ruin the friendship. We both are pretty attractive, 6 feet guys, and have similar goals.
  • RainBow_Drago...

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    Oct 13, 2013 10:25 PM GMT
    Nope he's not interested. He had sex with you cuz he was horny and drunk and you were the only gay guy within his gaydar surveillance at the time.
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    Oct 13, 2013 10:29 PM GMT
    sexyman221993 saidOkay so I met this guy through Grindr, we talked, and had pretty nice conversations. We were both looking for just friends, and were open to stuff. We met, had an good time together, we both are obsessed with Americas next top model, and have a decent amount in common, def a great friend. We have met each other over 5 times now, and each time has been great. But I somehow get the feeling, that he may be interested, but I cant fully tell, especially after last night. I mean we always talk about gay guys, and how we both want boyfriends, and how all gay guys suck, we always go on grindr in front of each other, but something tells me, he is interested. He invited me for a sleepover, and we watch pitch perfect. This was our seventh time meeting, and we have never ever done anything sexual, but we were drinking wine, and watching movies, but we were becomming cuddly, and we ended up having sex, making out, oral, and all that, and it felt good, and everything is cool between us, were normal when we woke up. I am just confused as to what this means, like I like this guy, but I dont know if he just wants to be friends or not, i dont wanna ruin the friendship. We both are pretty attractive, 6 feet guys, and have similar goals.



    Mistake #1 You surfed Grindr together? Great thing to do on a date...NOT. What were you thinking? Now he just sees you as another sex addict on Grindr. Plus you slept with him too soon. The most you can expect from this is a fuckbuddy. And never ever ever ever call yourself attractive. Ever.
  • jasian

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    Oct 13, 2013 10:55 PM GMT
    Jaggal saidDo you know what you want, to begin with? Pretty sure friends don't suck each other's cocks.


    I agree with this one.

    And checking grindr on a date? Sounds like he's looking for a better deal. You are fuckable, but probably not good enough to be a boyfriend.

    We could be wrong. I would ask him directly if I were you. You can also just enjoy the sex and not to think about other things, if that's what you want.
  • sexyman221993

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    Oct 13, 2013 11:42 PM GMT
    I have known him for more than a month now, and we never even kissed or anything, we hung out a lot and talked and everything. We were having a sleepover, watching movies on thursday and we both were drunk, and one thing lead to another, we havent talked about it at all, but were still talking and plan on hanging more. Its not like i had sex with him the first time i met him..
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    Oct 13, 2013 11:48 PM GMT
    It could be anything from this point or it might have been nothing from the beginning. You won't know until you get there and then in 20 years when you divorce him, you'll be wondering if it was ever what you thought it was.

    There, I hope I clarified that for you.
  • RainBow_Drago...

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    Oct 14, 2013 10:56 AM GMT
    sexyman221993: BTW u looked way better when you had your real pic up.
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    Oct 14, 2013 12:17 PM GMT
    sexyman221993 saidI have known him for more than a month now, and we never even kissed or anything, we hung out a lot and talked and everything. We were having a sleepover, watching movies on thursday and we both were drunk, and one thing lead to another, we havent talked about it at all, but were still talking and plan on hanging more. Its not like i had sex with him the first time i met him..


    It doesn't matter! He's not interested and if you really think he is, ask him!
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    Oct 15, 2013 12:59 PM GMT
    SKM2 saidAint u the same guy, that was complaining that feeling ugly becoz ur boyfriend dumped you?????? Lord knows im confused with u. Anyway hope this one doesnt leave u feeling shorter then 6 feet tall and not as attractive as u think u are. Goodluck