Is there no hope for me???

  • sexyman221993

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    Oct 14, 2013 4:30 AM GMT
    I was in a relationship with my boyfriend for 2 years, I am 20, he is 25 and I found out he was cheating on me with a lot of other guys, and I am completely depressed, I feel like I am ugly and no other guy would ever want me. I dont even know where to look anymore, Its been 4 months, and i feel really ugly.. Do any guys find me attracttive?
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    Oct 14, 2013 6:05 AM GMT
    Some men are just whores.. nothing about beauty..just can't be satisfied or something changed in the relationship
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    Oct 14, 2013 2:16 PM GMT
    Behemothboi saidSome men are just whores.. nothing about beauty..just can't be satisfied or something changed in the relationship


    yes this, my first boyfriend did that to me many moons ago, huh, now he's fat bald and still hating on me.

    asking strangers if you are attractive or not is like a red rag to a bull on here.
    Go out into the real world and have a few cool experiences beauty fades
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    Oct 14, 2013 2:17 PM GMT
    Behemothboi saidSome men are just whores.. nothing about beauty..just can't be satisfied or something changed in the relationship


    This x100. Stop being insecure. You look fine. Your ex was a dishonest whore. It had nothing to do with your self-worth.
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    Oct 14, 2013 2:25 PM GMT
    PR_GMR said
    Behemothboi saidSome men are just whores.. nothing about beauty..just can't be satisfied or something changed in the relationship


    This x100. Stop being insecure. You look fine. Your ex was a dishonest whore. It had nothing to do with your self-worth.


    I love you a little more each day PR ;)
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    Oct 14, 2013 2:27 PM GMT
    whether or not u attractive or not is not the point here. Your boyfriend was dishonest and disloyal based on his own insecurities. Stop this self hate nonsense, get up and pull yourself together.
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    Oct 14, 2013 10:08 PM GMT
    I'm confused.
    You took a goofy picture of yourself and then asked if you were attractive.
    (Well, you are.)
    No matter.
    You live one town over so let's go to the gym.
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    Oct 14, 2013 10:18 PM GMT
    We have so many of these types of posts, the OP declaring himself ugly.
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    Oct 14, 2013 10:19 PM GMT
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    Oct 14, 2013 10:30 PM GMT
    sexyman221993 saidI was in a relationship with my boyfriend for 2 years, I am 20, he is 25 and I found out he was cheating on me with a lot of other guys, and I am completely depressed, I feel like I am ugly and no other guy would ever want me. I dont even know where to look anymore, Its been 4 months, and i feel really ugly.. Do any guys find me attracttive?


    I mean it sounds like your ex-boyfriend was unable to commit. It's really not about you or anything really about you. It was a matter of whether your ex-boyfriend was committed to your relationship, seems like he wasn't. Seems like it was your ex-boyfriend's loss than any thing you lost.

    Though, hey, I just went through a not so amicable break-up in September, I can tell you, you can put that pain into a box, put it aside and focus on what you need to be doing today, at this moment, and in this week or in this month -- that is likely school, work, or figuring out what you want to do with your adult life. That you can put that setback into perspective and make sure that the other amazing aspects of your life are spinning, will be a skill you will continuously need far into the future of your life.

    I don't know you, but you likely have some amazing qualities that only you yourself possess. It would be sad if you gave up on your own growth because of someone breaking your heart. Grow to become a handsome, gentleman, and you'll be attractive through your 20s, 30s, 40s, 50s, and even until your old age.
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    Oct 22, 2013 11:23 AM GMT
    I just commented in your other thread about your weight and happened to notice this thread. I think you're a good looking guy. This thread emphasizes what I suggested in the other thread. Having a goal in the gym can help take your mind off the current situation and change your focus. All the best.
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    Oct 22, 2013 3:52 PM GMT
    You feel ugly because you only have one word in your vocabulary….ME! Life isn't all about you! Quit being so narcissistic and start looking at something besides the mirror. It's amazing how much there is out there that does NOT revolve around YOU!

    If this was all you talked about in your relationship, it doesn't surprise me that your bf was looking elsewhere. Maybe instead of ME you might have considered using the word YOU a little more, now you're stuck with WAS.
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    Oct 22, 2013 4:04 PM GMT
    sexyman221993 saidI was in a relationship with my boyfriend for 2 years, I am 20, he is 25 and I found out he was cheating on me with a lot of other guys, and I am completely depressed, I feel like I am ugly and no other guy would ever want me. I dont even know where to look anymore, Its been 4 months, and i feel really ugly.. Do any guys find me attracttive?

    1. You have nice blue eyes.
    2. Still photos can't portray the living person in motion, with all the facial expressions, nor reveal a gorgeous voice. Beautiful studio portraits can disguise awkward looks IRL, and awkward pics may not reveal charms only experienced IRL.
    3. Some men are unfaithful sluts by nature, they would cheat on a ripped GQ model who had personality, money & brains, the perfect catch. They can't help themselves, or at least not at age 25. It may be no fault or shortcoming of yours.
    4. Keep looking and don't get discouraged. At 20 you're just getting started.
    5. I hope this isn't a one-time hit-and-run thread, and we'll never hear any feedback on this.
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    Oct 22, 2013 4:14 PM GMT
    sexyman221993 saidI was in a relationship with my boyfriend for 2 years, I am 20, he is 25 and I found out he was cheating on me with a lot of other guys, and I am completely depressed, I feel like I am ugly and no other guy would ever want me. I dont even know where to look anymore, Its been 4 months, and i feel really ugly.. Do any guys find me attracttive?


    I'm sorry for what he did to you. That's his loss, and that's how you need to look at it. It's very difficult, but in time things will get better.

    Nothing at all wrong with how you look either. You look very handsome in your photos. I know what it's like to feel ugly. I feel that way now, so I understand where you're coming from. Trust me though, you have nothing to worry about.
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    Oct 22, 2013 4:21 PM GMT
    eb925guy saidYou feel ugly because you only have one word in your vocabulary….ME! Life isn't all about you! Quit being so narcissistic and start looking at something besides the mirror. It's amazing how much there is out there that does NOT revolve around YOU!

    If this was all you talked about in your relationship, it doesn't surprise me that your bf was looking elsewhere. Maybe instead of ME you might have considered using the word YOU a little more, now you're stuck with WAS.

    OP: In my opinion pay no attention to this response. Using the pronoun "I" in a short three line message does not suggest anything this response stated. Hang in there.
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    Oct 22, 2013 4:21 PM GMT
    sexyman221993 saidI feel like I am ugly and no other guy would ever want me. I dont even know where to look anymore, Its been 4 months, and i feel really ugly..


    This is ironic considering you've chosen "sexyman" as your profile name.
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    Oct 22, 2013 4:56 PM GMT
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    sexyman221993 saidI feel like I am ugly and no other guy would ever want me. I dont even know where to look anymore, Its been 4 months, and i feel really ugly..


    This is ironic considering you've chosen "sexyman" as your profile name.


    I noticed that too...totally fishing for compliments here.
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    Oct 22, 2013 5:03 PM GMT
    Even sexymen can doubt themselves. Hell, even I used to think I was unattractive. icon_eek.gif