Ex coming back to you

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    Oct 15, 2013 11:48 PM GMT
    Not that I would go back to him for sex, but since he texts me wanting it, and he has a current boyfreind, should i tell his boyfreind, because if i was in this position i would like to know if my boyfreind is cheating on me. Not that i want drama, more like i want answers, I dont plan to go through with it and im not trying to start anything but if you were in my position what would you do?
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    Oct 16, 2013 1:07 AM GMT
    Ahh! Coming back to you like a homesick afterbirth?

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    He's your ex. And, he wants to cheat on his current bf and with you. Lovely!

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    Yes. You should be his "booty call". Let him use you like a prostitute. And, make sure you take hidden video and then blackmail him afterwards. After he pays you, proceed to show the video to his current bf just for the lol's. This should set the scene for a murderous then suicidal drama that you appear not to have the good sense to avoid.

    (Set sarcasm = off)
    Keep us posted. Let us know how this all works out.
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    Oct 16, 2013 1:26 AM GMT
    I had my ltr ex approach me recently, drunk, engagement ring in hand..sayin all that happened was a mistake..and I'm like yea.. well no turning back Mr
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    Oct 16, 2013 1:29 AM GMT
    He is racist against blacks. Honestly I shouldn't have even posted this, the answer is evident, that i shouldnt do it. but after being single for awhile some affection would be nice but not this way.
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    Oct 16, 2013 2:06 AM GMT
    SouthernGymRat saidHe is racist against blacks. Honestly I shouldn't have even posted this, the answer is evident, that i shouldnt do it. but after being single for awhile some affection would be nice but not this way.


    I agree that you need to keep out of their relationship. His bf will eventually find out that your ex is a dog.
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    Oct 16, 2013 2:10 AM GMT
    SouthernGymRat saidHe is racist against blacks. Honestly I shouldn't have even posted this, the answer is evident, that i shouldnt do it. but after being single for awhile some affection would be nice but not this way.


    You're 18 and will have no problem finding men worth your time and attention. Keep your standards high despite what your hormones may urge you to do.

    P.S. Always practice safe sex so that scum like your ex don't bring disease home to you.

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    Oct 16, 2013 6:03 AM GMT
    Behemothboi saidI had my ltr ex approach me recently, drunk, engagement ring in hand..sayin all that happened was a mistake..and I'm like yea.. well no turning back Mr


    I hope u told him to go fukc himself, i sho would have.
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    Oct 16, 2013 10:28 AM GMT
    I was living with my first partner, and my ex was coming into town on a midnight flight. His elderly parents were gonna drive 65 miles into town to bring him back to their place for a visit. But at the last minute his mother said it would be very difficult for her at night, especially with her husband having early symptoms of Alzheimer's (which eventually killed him), and asked could he stay at a local hotel until morning.

    When he told me this over the phone earlier in the day I asked my partner if he could stay in our spare bedroom instead, spare him the hotel hassle & expense. They had met before. I'd pick him up at the airport that night, and even drive him out to his parents the next day and save them the trip altogether. Plus I knew and liked them, a chance for me to see them again.

    When I returned from the airport after 1 AM my partner was already asleep in our bedroom. I helped my ex settle in, and as I asked him a last time if he needed anything else, before retiring to my own bed, he called me in.

    He closed the door behind me, and started hugging and kissing me, and pulling me down onto his guest bed. I wouldn't return his kiss, and said I was married now (not legally) and monogamous. He didn't want to take no for an answer, countering that my partner was asleep and wouldn't be the wiser.

    You know, I wasn't the least bit tempted. As if I'd ever betray my partner under any circumstance, but it was especially reprehensible to me that my ex would try to seduce me with my partner sleeping just 20 feet from us.

    I broke free of his embrace and got into bed with my partner where I belonged. Next morning I still drove him out to his parents like I had promised. But he really lost my respect after that, and I tried to never be alone with him again.

    Didn't tell my partner about that incident, though. My ex visited his parents a couple of times of year, and the 2 of them would cross paths at the local gay nightclub. My partner was very possessive, with a quick temper, and I wanted to avoid an ugly and possibly violent public scene. I hadn't cheated on him, nor did I ever in thought or deed, so there was nothing for me to "confess", better to just keep it to myself.