Do you have a hard time accepting no?

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    Oct 17, 2013 11:36 PM GMT
    I noticed a pretty bad personality flaw that I have.

    When I absolutely cannot have something I want, it kind of shorts out my brain.

    I'm not talking about childish things like ice cream or a new toy.

    I only get upset about things that I can't change. Like wanting to be taller or wanting a certain guy to like me.

    It's difficult because no matter how hard I work, I will never get the thing. That makes me rabidly angry. I think if it's a job or acceptance into a university or something like that, I don't feel as bad if I don't get it because I can envision a potential scenario in which i worked harder or did things differently and got it.

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    Oct 17, 2013 11:58 PM GMT
    "I only get upset about things that I can't change."

    I can change the colour of my hair. I want it to be white.
    Yet I am not angry because I can change it.

    The things that you can't change, you just have to accept it. Because you can't do anything about it.
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    Oct 17, 2013 11:59 PM GMT
    Nothing can stop me .... I'll comment more later
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    Oct 18, 2013 12:03 AM GMT
    hahas I told you plenty of times, I knew plenty of good looking asian dudes who'd be interested in black guys but you NEVER responded to me icon_wink.gif
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    Oct 18, 2013 12:12 AM GMT
    tmac saidhahas I told you plenty of times, I knew plenty of good looking asian dudes who'd be interested in black guys but you NEVER responded to me icon_wink.gif


    I am one Asian dude who likes black guys. icon_cool.gif
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    Oct 18, 2013 12:14 AM GMT
    1285pytk said
    tmac saidhahas I told you plenty of times, I knew plenty of good looking asian dudes who'd be interested in black guys but you NEVER responded to me icon_wink.gif


    I am one Asian dude who likes black guys. icon_cool.gif


    and you're hot. Why don't you take my homeboy on a date icon_biggrin.gif
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    Oct 18, 2013 12:15 AM GMT
    tmac saidhahas I told you plenty of times, I knew plenty of good looking asian dudes who'd be interested in black guys but you NEVER responded to me icon_wink.gif


    Hasn't the OP's tastes changed?
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    Oct 18, 2013 5:02 PM GMT
    I often find it hard to say no, sometimes.
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    Oct 18, 2013 9:27 PM GMT
    tmac said
    1285pytk said
    tmac saidhahas I told you plenty of times, I knew plenty of good looking asian dudes who'd be interested in black guys but you NEVER responded to me icon_wink.gif


    I am one Asian dude who likes black guys. icon_cool.gif


    and you're hot. Why don't you take my homeboy on a date icon_biggrin.gif


    I think I might just do that.icon_cool.gif