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  • Onemoresummer

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    Oct 19, 2013 5:22 AM GMT
    Never mund
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    Oct 19, 2013 5:26 AM GMT
    2 days without contact is not relationship material
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    Oct 19, 2013 5:29 AM GMT
    Sounds like a hook-up to me. Move on to the next guy.
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    Oct 19, 2013 5:42 AM GMT
    Aristoshark said
    xrichx saidSounds like a hook-up to me. Move on to the next guy.

    Sorry, but xrichx is right. Two days, no return text?
    Men pursue what they want, and you ain't being pursued.

    I've had to explain this one to quite a few people.
  • AMoonHawk

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    Oct 19, 2013 5:43 AM GMT
    Welllll ... you didn't respond back ... too late now

    Try another
  • Onemoresummer

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    Oct 19, 2013 5:49 AM GMT
    Damn,
    I actually thought he seemed sincere.
    He even took me for a tour of his garden. Haha

    It was probably the first time since my breakup 12 months ago I thought this could be something.

    Could he have been genuine about the "rain check" but has been thrown off due to my no reply?

    Could there be any harm in sending a text like "hey, sorry if we got confused the other night, I didn't think it was just a hook up..I wouldn't have been more forward on the couch".

  • MikeW

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    Oct 19, 2013 5:58 AM GMT
    Onemoresummer saidCould there be any harm in sending a text like "hey, sorry if we got confused the other night, I didn't think it was just a hook up..I wouldn't have been more forward on the couch".

    How could there be any harm in it at this point? The worst that could happen is no reply, which would tell you all you want to know, right?
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    Oct 19, 2013 7:13 AM GMT
    Your date was over when you said "Grindr is the first new date in the gay world."
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    Oct 19, 2013 7:30 AM GMT
    Erik101 saidYour date was over when you said "Grindr is the first new date in the gay world."
    Yes. If some guy said that to me, I'd be a little concerned. icon_neutral.gif
  • AMoonHawk

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    Oct 19, 2013 7:35 AM GMT
    Onemoresummer saidDamn,
    I actually thought he seemed sincere.
    He even took me for a tour of his garden. Haha

    It was probably the first time since my breakup 12 months ago I thought this could be something.

    Could he have been genuine about the "rain check" but has been thrown off due to my no reply?

    Could there be any harm in sending a text like "hey, sorry if we got confused the other night, I didn't think it was just a hook up..I wouldn't have been more forward on the couch".


    If you want to try again don't say that ... say.... Would you like to get together for dinner?
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    Oct 19, 2013 12:55 PM GMT
    no sorry matey you were just a hook up, move on you're young and cute and many more great guys will come your way
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    Oct 19, 2013 1:18 PM GMT
    Grindr is all about hook-ups, mostly. Gay men these days don't want Long Term Relationships. The only thing they want is sex, no connection whatsoever.
  • Onemoresummer

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    Oct 21, 2013 1:05 AM GMT
    Update:

    I sent a text saying if he wanted to catch up and grab a drink which he replied with "yeah man for sure icon_smile.gif"

    Sent one back telling him to let me know what days are good for him and we'll set it up.

    So perhaps it wasn't a disaster after all..