MikeW saidI think RJ is very cool for a lot or reasons.
Moi aussi. It's the gay social site to which I've belonged the longest.
And it always amuses me that this is a jock site. And yet the members are the smartest and most erudite of any site I've ever known, gay or straight. So much for jock stereotypes, at least gay ones.
Maybe it has to do with the fitness focus, popular with gays, or sports, but whatever the reason the guys here are so clever & accomplished! They run rings around me.
And my late mother, and my husband's grandmother, always preached that you should only associate with people smarter than yourself, because that's how you improve. Dumber people may make you feel superior, but they contribute little to you. You learn from those smarter.
RJ is a surprisingly smart site. And I've been to lots. It's why I remain.