Why do I feel like way

  • Onemoresummer

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    Oct 25, 2013 3:49 AM GMT
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    Oct 25, 2013 3:59 AM GMT
    You SaidI was hoping he was at least wanting to get together again before he left.


    There is a chance he might have been thinking the same thing?..

    Did you try texting/calling?

    Personally I can understanding the reason you feel down..
    Turning hookups into dates is nerve wrecking..

    How about aiming for a few dates before a hookup?
  • Onemoresummer

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    Oct 25, 2013 4:03 AM GMT
    He was the one that dragged me from the club to mine.
    Just the way he said "might see you in melbourne another time" was just like saying "maybe next time I'm back we can fuck again"

    Why do I get so attached so quickly.
  • AMoonHawk

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    Oct 25, 2013 4:09 AM GMT
    Awww, try to cheer up. After all, you got something out of it too. Sadly there are just a lot of guys that just like to hook up. You might want to limit your hook ups to guys that live close. If you hook up on the first night ... that's almost always what it is going to be. If you don't want to miss out on a hot guy then you should go for it. Another thing is don't be too overly interested as it can be a turn off in meeting a new guy. It sends out the message that you might be clingy. Try to think friends, not lovers.
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    Oct 25, 2013 4:14 AM GMT
    Absolutely nothing wrong with getting attached quickly..

    Just be careful who you get attached to.
  • Robin_Mark

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    Oct 25, 2013 4:15 AM GMT
    Its alright, happened to me.

    Not everyone wants a relation most of them want to bang.

    don't feel bad, what matters that u enjoyed the fuck and who cares if he likes it or not icon_cool.gif
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    Oct 25, 2013 4:17 AM GMT
    thats one of the consequences of rooting around. Not judging Ive done it all my adult life lol, just realise this and move on. How can you get attached to someone you just fucked and have no idea what he is like? hmmm love thyself more mr
  • MikeW

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    Oct 25, 2013 4:49 AM GMT
    Onemoresummer saidMy self esteem is at an all time low.

    Don't go there if you can. This says WAY more about him than you. You didn't do anything wrong so far as I can tell. I tend to get emotionally attached very easily as well (some of us are wired that way it seems) and *thus* I never do hookups. (At my age they'd be rare anyway but even when I was much younger I was never into them.)
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    Oct 25, 2013 4:58 AM GMT
    i get that way also.. Some guys only like to hook up sadly.
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    Nov 03, 2013 5:00 AM GMT
    AMoonHawk saidAwww, try to cheer up. After all, you got something out of it too. Sadly there are just a lot of guys that just like to hook up. You might want to limit your hook ups to guys that live close. If you hook up on the first night ... that's almost always what it is going to be. If you don't want to miss out on a hot guy then you should go for it. Another thing is don't be too overly interested as it can be a turn off in meeting a new guy. It sends out the message that you might be clingy. Try to think friends, not lovers.



    Exactly. This is one of the beauties of getting a bit older. We're seasoned and we develop and awareness and an understanding of how the world works.
  • jo2hotbod

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    Nov 03, 2013 5:37 PM GMT
    If you can't quit it, don't get with it
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    Nov 03, 2013 5:52 PM GMT
    Just go with the flow..don't try to force the situation..and it could have been much worse. I remember having to ask a guy if he would leave after my business was done.. cause he wanted to sleep over...anyways find a guy u like before hooking up.. sex is too easy to get these days and it drives me crazy when a guy makes me wait before giving it up opposed to the guys that just want cock 24/7 makes me think how many other guys must be gettin it from them too