Oct 25, 2013 10:08 PM GMT
Hey all,
you all know how it is very hard to be gay in an Arab Muslim country, and I am very unfortunate to be in these countries,and of course as a result I am hiding my sexuality.
I have a friend who I meet him many times,he always keeps talking about girls,and I participate in his conversation sometimes.
In the last 2 times we have been together he told me: I don,t feel that u r into girls a lot>>and really he freaks me a lot when he said this sentence.
the first time I was fortunate to meet a foreign girl(from outside) who I was taking language lessons with her, so when my friend saw me talking and laughing with her ,he just thought that he was wrong about what he thinks about me,and he said:u never told me that u know girls etc>>blah blah blah....
the 2nd time he also surprised me when he said to me that I am not into girls and why I don,t talk about them:I stayed very calm and I managed it well,I told him:I just prefer to keep my relations and my interest in girls just for me and u r talking about girls so much ,u r very hyper-sexual and I am not like you
he told me: you don,t want to marry? I told him
f course but it is just not the right time, I am not prepared and I want to enjoy my life.(he always kept telling me before he will get married he want to enjoy his life a little and go here and there so this is why I told him I want to enjoy my life) and I kind of convinced him >but I feel frightened that I will be discovered sooner or later from my friends that I am gay especially because I am not going to get married.
please help me guys,what is your advices? what to do with my friend and with my other friends and family also ? is getting away to another country is a good idea?
thank u all in forward.
you all know how it is very hard to be gay in an Arab Muslim country, and I am very unfortunate to be in these countries,and of course as a result I am hiding my sexuality.
I have a friend who I meet him many times,he always keeps talking about girls,and I participate in his conversation sometimes.
In the last 2 times we have been together he told me: I don,t feel that u r into girls a lot>>and really he freaks me a lot when he said this sentence.
the first time I was fortunate to meet a foreign girl(from outside) who I was taking language lessons with her, so when my friend saw me talking and laughing with her ,he just thought that he was wrong about what he thinks about me,and he said:u never told me that u know girls etc>>blah blah blah....
the 2nd time he also surprised me when he said to me that I am not into girls and why I don,t talk about them:I stayed very calm and I managed it well,I told him:I just prefer to keep my relations and my interest in girls just for me and u r talking about girls so much ,u r very hyper-sexual and I am not like you
he told me: you don,t want to marry? I told him
f course but it is just not the right time, I am not prepared and I want to enjoy my life.(he always kept telling me before he will get married he want to enjoy his life a little and go here and there so this is why I told him I want to enjoy my life) and I kind of convinced him >but I feel frightened that I will be discovered sooner or later from my friends that I am gay especially because I am not going to get married.please help me guys,what is your advices? what to do with my friend and with my other friends and family also ? is getting away to another country is a good idea?
thank u all in forward.
