Someone special

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    Oct 28, 2013 2:41 AM GMT
    I'm looking for a guy who's sweet, down to earth, loves video games, books. A guy who is athletic, muscled, or some other word I can't think of. A guy around 20-29. Honest, polite, loves to travel. Anyway, the point is, I really like to chat with some guy who has the qualities I look for and actually likes me. I'm really want to meet someone. I'm really spreading the word out. Also, if don't have anything nice to say, don't put anything down. Have a nice night! icon_smile.gif
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    Oct 28, 2013 3:03 AM GMT
    how hypocritical!
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    Oct 28, 2013 3:06 AM GMT
    Davidolce saidhow hypocritical!
    Apparently, you don't know how to read!
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    Oct 28, 2013 3:09 AM GMT
    Love2Read said
    Davidolce saidhow hypocritical!
    Apparently, you don't know how to read!



    honey i do, but i just think it's a kinda selfish to ask for such things
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    Oct 28, 2013 3:14 AM GMT
    Hungry? Make yourself something to eat.

    Meaning, if you want those things in your life, than make yourself someone who has those qualities, so you can attract like minded people. Don't exempt yourself from your own rules or judgement; cause well, it'll bit you in the ass. Its nice to dream, but living is the way to go.
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    Oct 28, 2013 3:15 AM GMT
    Listen, I'm not trying to be selfish, I'm just saying on what type of guy I look for. I'm sure you have a type. I really don't want to argue, and get into a depression. So, I'm sorry okay?
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    Oct 28, 2013 3:21 AM GMT
    _JRQ saidHungry? Make yourself something to eat.

    Meaning, if you want those things in your life, than make yourself someone who has those qualities, so you can attract like minded people. Don't exempt yourself from your own rules or judgement; cause well, it'll bit you in the ass. Its nice to dream, but living is the way to go.
    I am those things, I'm honest, polite, smart and all that. But for some reason, most guy I like care about another guy who has the same type of body build. Meaning, I feel like most of them won't care about me. I just want to find a guy who's different, that's all.
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    Oct 28, 2013 3:22 AM GMT
    _JRQ saidHungry? Make yourself something to eat.

    Meaning, if you want those things in your life, than make yourself someone who has those qualities, so you can attract like minded people. Don't exempt yourself from your own rules or judgement; cause well, it'll bit you in the ass. Its nice to dream, but living is the way to go.
    Except the body build, I'm not that.
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    Oct 28, 2013 3:23 AM GMT
    thebearerofbadnews saidyour special somebody might not be who you dreamed of or who you were originally looking for so its best to be open minded. icon_lol.gif but it's okay to dream though.
    Thanks I appreciate it! icon_biggrin.gif
  • LoveAndPeace

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    Oct 28, 2013 3:24 AM GMT
    Lol at thinking a man can be all of these things..
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    Oct 28, 2013 3:25 AM GMT
    alienhomo saiddream on.
    Ok I will. Lol
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    Oct 28, 2013 3:29 AM GMT
    Love2Read said
    _JRQ saidHungry? Make yourself something to eat.

    Meaning, if you want those things in your life, than make yourself someone who has those qualities, so you can attract like minded people. Don't exempt yourself from your own rules or judgement; cause well, it'll bit you in the ass. Its nice to dream, but living is the way to go.
    Except the body build, I'm not that.

    Go to a gay bar during the day hours and talk to the people you're most likely to date. They'll help you out. After, they are more like the person you're looking to date.
  • HottJoe

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    Oct 28, 2013 4:40 AM GMT
    Love2Read said
    _JRQ saidHungry? Make yourself something to eat.

    Meaning, if you want those things in your life, than make yourself someone who has those qualities, so you can attract like minded people. Don't exempt yourself from your own rules or judgement; cause well, it'll bit you in the ass. Its nice to dream, but living is the way to go.
    Except the body build, I'm not that.

    That's the easiest thing to be on that whole list. Just 20 minutes a day, every day, until you break a hip.icon_biggrin.gif
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    Oct 28, 2013 4:42 AM GMT
    HottJoe said
    Love2Read said
    _JRQ saidHungry? Make yourself something to eat.

    Meaning, if you want those things in your life, than make yourself someone who has those qualities, so you can attract like minded people. Don't exempt yourself from your own rules or judgement; cause well, it'll bit you in the ass. Its nice to dream, but living is the way to go.
    Except the body build, I'm not that.

    That's the easiest thing to be on that whole list. Just 20 minutes a day, every day, until you break a hip.icon_biggrin.gif
    That went over my head. icon_neutral.gif
  • 1blind_dog

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    Oct 28, 2013 4:52 AM GMT
    _JRQ said
    HottJoe said
    Love2Read said
    _JRQ saidHungry? Make yourself something to eat.

    Meaning, if you want those things in your life, than make yourself someone who has those qualities, so you can attract like minded people. Don't exempt yourself from your own rules or judgement; cause well, it'll bit you in the ass. Its nice to dream, but living is the way to go.
    Except the body build, I'm not that.

    That's the easiest thing to be on that whole list. Just 20 minutes a day, every day, until you break a hip.icon_biggrin.gif
    That went over my head. icon_neutral.gif


    He means get up and get workin

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  • bischero

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    Oct 28, 2013 4:58 AM GMT
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    Oct 28, 2013 4:59 AM GMT
    bischero saidWB-4.gif


    She obviously stole that move from Richard
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    Oct 28, 2013 4:59 AM GMT
    1blind_dog said
    _JRQ said
    HottJoe said
    Love2Read said
    _JRQ saidHungry? Make yourself something to eat.

    Meaning, if you want those things in your life, than make yourself someone who has those qualities, so you can attract like minded people. Don't exempt yourself from your own rules or judgement; cause well, it'll bit you in the ass. Its nice to dream, but living is the way to go.
    Except the body build, I'm not that.

    That's the easiest thing to be on that whole list. Just 20 minutes a day, every day, until you break a hip.icon_biggrin.gif
    That went over my head. icon_neutral.gif


    He means get up and get workin

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    Oct 28, 2013 5:11 AM GMT
    Good luck. I hope you find the right guy and i hope you treat each other well.
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    Oct 28, 2013 5:24 AM GMT
    Love2Read saidListen, I'm not trying to be selfish, I'm just saying on what type of guy I look for. I'm sure you have a type. I really don't want to argue, and get into a depression. So, I'm sorry okay?


    Argue and get into depression??! Awhhh!! Honey, try Okcupid or other dating sites. This is mostly for athletes and/or fitness related, not so much on dating! Good luck! icon_cool.gif
  • toughpup94

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    Oct 28, 2013 6:35 AM GMT
    no offense. but you will never find a guy like that because they look for guys like themselves usually. but who knows you might get lucky.
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    Oct 28, 2013 2:49 PM GMT
    Sounds like what you really need to do is just meet other guys. Go up on meetup.com and see if there are any groups in the area that have people (men and women) with the same video game and book interests that you have. You meet people, you make friends, they introduce you to more people who become more friends and so on and so on and through all that, you meet guys with interests like yours to date.

    Rome was not built in a day and finding a guy online doesn't happen over night. It takes work to find them, takes work to love them and takes even more work to keep them.
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    Oct 28, 2013 2:57 PM GMT
    I think it's okay for him to look for those qualities in a man. The thing is to able to compromise. Yes, it may be unreasonable to expect to find a guy who checks ALL of those boxes, but as long as you're able to be realistic and compromise on some things, I don't see why you can't set those traits as wants for your mate.

    When people ask me what kind of guy is my type, I either put out all of the qualities of my dream guy then get called unrealistic or I say a few basic traits (handsome, wants kids, spiritual, etc.) and then they say "No, I mean, physically, what's your type?" There's really no win you start a list like that which is why I think you got the response you did.

    Is there anything on your list that you're willing to compromise to find the right guy for you?
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    Oct 28, 2013 4:06 PM GMT
    A lot of people (although not all people) can be quite demanding and ask for all of these qualities in a person because...let's be honest, a lot of people would like to see themselves as this type of person.

    I've been told I have these qualities ;)))

    ...The problem is however...

    I've found that they don't end up having the same things in common when it comes to getting up off the couch.

    I spend a lot of my time looking after myself, gym gym gym and sport sport sport... and I LOVE IT!!
    ...But being a nice and cute guy with morals with a fun-loving nature and a hot bod is all well and good BUT it takes 2 to tango baby.

  • Destinharbor

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    Oct 28, 2013 4:18 PM GMT
    The problem you have is that you want a good guy who has spent a lot of time in the gym going for a personal look for himself but doesn't ask for it in others. You need to hear that that is not only unrealistic, but also sounds a bit lazy. Start working out.