Why do I let physical attraction have power over me?

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    Oct 29, 2013 2:54 AM GMT
    I'm desperate and foolish. A drop dead gorgeous messages me on Jack'd asking to hang out. I kindly accept. We spend dinner and movie together; he's a nice independent guy. Now I can't stop thinking about him. I want him and I'll do anything for him. I would change the way I live and move for him. I am desperate and wreached mess. He tells me he can't accept my compliments; says he's not worthy when I called him a great guy. Why do looks have such power over me? Maybe if he was a regular looking guy, I wouldn't be quick to say what I did. I can't say anymore to him. Im too ashamed.
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    Oct 29, 2013 2:58 AM GMT
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    Oct 29, 2013 3:22 AM GMT
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    Are you trying to hypnotize me?
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    Oct 29, 2013 3:26 AM GMT
    hashtagterence said
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    Are you trying to hypnotize me?

    It's just an illusion
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    Oct 29, 2013 6:16 AM GMT
    Looks like you have some serious psych/emotional problems. I suggest seeking professional help.
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    Oct 29, 2013 6:21 AM GMT
    one bad comment and u ready to give up. Turn the damn table make that man want u or atleast try.
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    Oct 29, 2013 7:00 AM GMT
    Have some balls Mr and stand up for what you believe in! If you think a guys hot then tell him, if he can't take a compliment then he has issues.
    You should allow yourself to be lead by your cock while you're young, it will lead you to all sorts of mischief
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    Oct 29, 2013 7:06 AM GMT
    Erik101 saidLooks like you have some serious psych/emotional problems. I suggest seeking professional help.


    Why do you say?


    boorangOz saidHave some balls Mr and stand up for what you believe in! If you think a guys hot then tell him, if he can't take a compliment then he has issues.
    You should allow yourself to be lead by your cock while you're young, it will lead you to all sorts of mischief



    LOL! Funny guy! But it does seem a little shady that he can't take a compliment.. Even now his disapproval still hurts tho
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    Oct 29, 2013 7:09 AM GMT
    hashtagterence said
    Erik101 saidLooks like you have some serious psych/emotional problems. I suggest seeking professional help.


    Why do you say?


    boorangOz saidHave some balls Mr and stand up for what you believe in! If you think a guys hot then tell him, if he can't take a compliment then he has issues.
    You should allow yourself to be lead by your cock while you're young, it will lead you to all sorts of mischief



    LOL! Funny guy! But it does seem a little shady that he can't take a compliment.. Even now his disapproval still hurts tho


    Then abandon it all together, look at it like this put in as much time or effort as you require. If its just a fuck then don't spend hours or days on getting into his pants. If its LTR material then be prepared to put in some leg work and compromise.

    See Fuck = no compromise or excuses
    LTR = Compromise and excuses ;)
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    Oct 29, 2013 7:33 AM GMT
    SKM2 saidone bad comment and u ready to give up. Turn the damn table make that man want u or atleast try.


    I need friends with this attitude loL
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    Oct 29, 2013 3:23 PM GMT
    As Billy Joel once said, "you're only humaan, whoo hoo hoo"!
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    Oct 29, 2013 5:09 PM GMT
    Seriously, why should you be any different than the rest of us? I'm often mad at myself for overextending myself to a handsome guy I'm not clicking with.
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    Oct 29, 2013 5:41 PM GMT
    JohnSpotter saidSeriously, why should you be any different than the rest of us? I'm often mad at myself for overextending myself to a handsome guy I'm not clicking with.


    Hell, I fell for a straight guy who thinks I'm a freak without ever even meeting me, and has said so publicly!! It happens!!
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    Oct 29, 2013 11:12 PM GMT
    hashtagterence said
    Erik101 saidLooks like you have some serious psych/emotional problems. I suggest seeking professional help.

    Why do you say?

    He must have missed the thread where we banned this tired response.
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    Oct 30, 2013 2:23 AM GMT
    You went on one date and now you're ready to change your whole life around this guy? He is going to smell the cling from a mile away and bolt. If you like him, tone it down. Chill out and take your time.
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    Oct 30, 2013 3:50 AM GMT
    Phoenyx saidYou went on one date and now you're ready to change your whole life around this guy? He is going to smell the cling from a mile away and bolt. If you like him, tone it down. Chill out and take your time.


    Believe me, if I knew how, I would. I'm almost sure he can smell it already. He hasn't responded back in a while. I'm trying to keep my distance away now. Told him I didn't mean to make him uncomfortable or upset. Then made some casual comments. But idk anymore. Thinking I should just forget about him. If he does respond back. I'll try and tone it down.