Where did u find your boyfriend or mate

  • jwand09

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    Oct 29, 2013 6:15 PM GMT
    Just wondering I live in the country so its kinda hard for me to date unless I go to the city
  • Bunjamon

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    Oct 29, 2013 6:58 PM GMT
    Realjock! icon_biggrin.gif
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    Oct 29, 2013 7:53 PM GMT
    It's really hard to find the type of guy Im attracted to! I maybe to picky I guess!
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    Oct 29, 2013 8:10 PM GMT
    Met him at a club. Around a year later after I broke up with my Ex we worked out one night and he wanted to come back to my place.
  • Destinharbor

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    Oct 29, 2013 8:20 PM GMT
    Online. We got to know each other (and check out each other's stories) over a couple of weeks, met for a sex week-end, been together six years. Point is, you can meet anywhere. Just like and respect the guy you meet, then don't rule out that it may be more than you expect.
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    Oct 29, 2013 8:34 PM GMT
    At Uni, we both study finance so we had all our classes together. We became friends without knowing that we were both gay and that we both had, what seemed to be in our heads, a crush on a straight friend haha (later we admited it, we were both too coward to hit on each other since the people in our major are a bit homophobic, though we were open in Uni aside from our major).
    One day I took the courage to invite him to a party, he didn't a place to stay after the party ended and well we got to my place, started talking, suddenly we kissed and after that night I haven't been happier.
  • tuffguyndc

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    Oct 29, 2013 8:37 PM GMT
    jwand09 saidJust wondering I live in the country so its kinda hard for me to date unless I go to the city
    well go into the city more often or just move a bit closer to the city. i met anyone i was ever interested in online. i met my current guy on here
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    Oct 29, 2013 8:38 PM GMT
    Sometimes our bands would play together and we would share backstage. Then I started to give him guitar lessons (later I found out he was a better player than me and it was kinda like an excuse to hang out with me lol). We both had girlfriends back then.

    Anyways, you should definitely go out and meet people, chances are they're gonna be straight but who knows you might get lucky.
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    Oct 29, 2013 8:56 PM GMT
    Which one?... hee, hee. ;)
    Online, the gym, the bus, through friends, parties and even a few at work.
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    Oct 29, 2013 10:02 PM GMT
    Never ever had one boohoo to me :')
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    Oct 29, 2013 11:29 PM GMT
    The current one came from RealJock. Previous b.f.'s have come from a number of places:

    * My alumni association gatherings & meetings
    * Through other friends
    * In various areas of business
    * Through my local Rotary Club
    * Through my membership at a golf & country club
    * Playing water polo
    * Through my fraternity brothers
    * At my gym
    * Out running during lunch hour
    * At my Episcopal church
    * At Peet's or Starbucks's outdoor patio areas.

    Just be open, upbeat, approachable, friendly, have a great attitude and a variety of interests, and last but not least - stay in shape and look good whenever you go out.
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    Oct 30, 2013 1:02 AM GMT
    My ex-boyfriend and I met on an online dating site. I met some of my recent dates at bars, internet, through mutual friends.
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    Oct 30, 2013 1:45 AM GMT
    We both were classmates and also we both live in the same floor of the dormitory, later, At the beginning of the next year I shifted to his room.
  • AMoonHawk

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    Oct 30, 2013 2:00 AM GMT
    1. school
    2. work
    3. bar
    4. work
    5. bar
    6. work
    7. work

    I don't go to bars any more so I guess that's why I'm still single icon_wink.gif
  • code_joe

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    Oct 30, 2013 2:17 AM GMT
    Met at beer bust through one of his previous tricks who was my friend. Chatted on scruff. Then met for a walk in the park.

    Previous relationships ... One at a bar and the other at a birthday party.
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    Oct 30, 2013 11:42 AM GMT
    we met on Manhunt icon_biggrin.gif been together for over 4 years now.
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    Oct 30, 2013 12:13 PM GMT
    jwand09 saidJust wondering I live in the country so its kinda hard for me to date unless I go to the city

    I met both my late and my current partners online, each time when I was living in an area with few gay contacts and little social life. In fact, when I began a relationship with my first partner my rural farming town had less than 2000 people (and I had just moved from one of only 500). And we lived a great distance apart, was a year before we finally met in person, and then we had an LTR for 6 months, taking turns traveling.

    Prior to that I joined a state-wide gay social group, hosted by egroups, I think it was called, formed by users themselves like Yahoo & Google have today. We named ourselves Rainbow Ranch, which other groups have used, as well, and it included both lesbians & gays.

    In a State about as big as all of New England, and a population of only 650,000, there were vast spaces of total emptiness. We arranged monthly socials, sometimes with weekend campouts in the summer, where some members would travel nearly 300 miles (480k) to participate.

    It was admittedly a lot of work, but the alternatives were either sit at home in solitude, or move to an urban area. I didn't make any BFs that way, but certainly friends, and I did manage to get some sex out of it. It helped that I brought my own trailer camper (caravan) to the campouts, with sleeping room for 6. icon_wink.gif
  • LuckyGuyKC

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    Oct 30, 2013 12:32 PM GMT
    A friend told me in late in 2010 about a guy he was dating .... everything was perfect .... except that the guy was "geographically undesirable (owned a place in the country where you can get away), married to his work (great job, great work ethic), he doesn't hang out in "the scene" (neither do I), and doesn't have children (he understands and accepts his sexuality so he never felt the need to marry a woman like my friend and I both did).

    Several months later I decided I liked all those traits my friend didn't like and he had moved on to another great guy. I asked for his number in February 2011, we met March 2, 2011, and we've been together since. This worked because I wanted
  • Hothouse

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    Oct 30, 2013 1:04 PM GMT
    I turned over a rock, and there he was.
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    Oct 30, 2013 1:15 PM GMT
    Hothouse said
    I turned over a rock, and there he was.

    Dialogue from the second Addams Family movie:

    Nanny: "Where do you find these Addams men?"

    Morticia: "It has to be damp."
  • omnislash

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    Oct 30, 2013 1:34 PM GMT
    I met an ex-BF, who I was with for 15 years, through... don't laugh... AOL personal ads. Guess that's not an option anymore. O.o
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    Oct 30, 2013 4:09 PM GMT
    Single at the moment , honestly i only have one BF since my divorce , and i had met him thru our off-road caravaning club .
  • iHavok

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    Oct 30, 2013 4:12 PM GMT
    My last BF sold me a pair of jeans after I bent over to look at some on a low shelf in his store, and mine split from pocket to knee.
    Guess he liked the goods... But made me wait almost a year to ask me out. Silly kid.
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    Oct 30, 2013 4:23 PM GMT
    Marsu saidAt Uni, we both study finance so we had all our classes together. We became friends without knowing that we were both gay and that we both had, what seemed to be in our heads, a crush on a straight friend haha (later we admited it, we were both too coward to hit on each other since the people in our major are a bit homophobic, though we were open in Uni aside from our major).
    One day I took the courage to invite him to a party, he didn't a place to stay after the party ended and well we got to my place, started talking, suddenly we kissed and after that night I haven't been happier.


    that is the cutest story ever
  • Pontifex

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    Oct 30, 2013 7:12 PM GMT
    I actually met my bf on manhunt. We talked for a couple weeks before spending a weekend together. He lived over an hour away but we made it work for A few months until we decided we had to be together all the time and he moved in with me and got a job in the city. You never know where you will find someone.

    You have to get out and meet as many people as you can. If you don't meet anyone the odds will never be in your favor.