Where to Find Men to Hug and Cuddle With Without Sex?

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    Oct 30, 2013 6:23 AM GMT
    I read another post yesterday on here about what people are craving for at the moment, and I saw that many others, just like me, are craving for a good hug and cuddle and not necessarily sex.

    Where can you go or what can you do about that? I've never tried grindr or visited a gay bathhouse, but I'm afraid people I meet will expect more than just hug and cuddle.

    Can anyone here relate?
  • AMoonHawk

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    Oct 30, 2013 6:27 AM GMT
    That's just creepy .... Just go pay for a massage from a male
  • HottJoe

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    Oct 30, 2013 7:04 AM GMT
    A.A.
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    Oct 30, 2013 11:16 AM GMT
    polfsky saidI read another post yesterday on here about what people are craving for at the moment, and I saw that many others, just like me, are craving for a good hug and cuddle and not necessarily sex.

    Where can you go or what can you do about that? I've never tried grindr or visited a gay bathhouse, but I'm afraid people I meet will expect more than just hug and cuddle.

    Can anyone here relate?

    I can relate completely.
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    Oct 30, 2013 1:43 PM GMT
    this is easy,straight man can help you with that,or straight woman too,maybe lesbian....
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    Oct 30, 2013 1:48 PM GMT
    HottJoe saidA.A.
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    Oct 30, 2013 1:49 PM GMT
    Just be very explicit in what ever online profile you put up that you are looking for a cuddle buddy. Craig's list has a strictly platonic section.
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    Oct 30, 2013 2:04 PM GMT
    That's kinda on the creepy side
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    Oct 30, 2013 2:16 PM GMT
    I've run into quite a few people, women especially, who prefer cuddling to sex. I can't imagine why even a very judgemental person would find it creepy.
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    Oct 30, 2013 2:19 PM GMT
    Google "cuddle club" to find clubs where strangers hook up for sleeping and cuddling. There's also this:

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    Oct 30, 2013 2:51 PM GMT
    Jaggal saidIt's no creepier than hookup sex, which is actually disgusting, rather than creepy.


    I think he meant clingy. Clingy can be creepy at times.
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    Oct 30, 2013 2:59 PM GMT
    It's not more creepy than getting online and looking for full on sex, in fact it's more tame.
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    Oct 30, 2013 10:51 PM GMT
    taichiguy said
    Jaggal saidIt's no creepier than hookup sex, which is actually disgusting, rather than creepy.

    I think he meant clingy. Clingy can be creepy at times.

    It's clingy to want to be hugged and not go all the way every time?
    This group confounds me.
  • Paperless_Pen

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    Oct 31, 2013 12:03 AM GMT
    Hugging someone is more meaningful than having just random sex from a stranger.
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    Oct 31, 2013 12:21 AM GMT
    woodsmen saidIt is the safest of sex but are you really going through life without penetrative sex?


    I weep for the man who gets herpes from cuddling.
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    Oct 31, 2013 12:24 AM GMT
    Paperless_Pen saidHugging someone is more meaningful than having just random sex from a stranger.


    I prefer my random strangers to hug my neck as they pound me deeply.
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    Oct 31, 2013 12:25 AM GMT
    I was watching this program the other day and relationships in this decade they start hooking up and then they get serious. Sex is pleasurable I am sure but if you can cuddle you are definitely on my list.
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    Oct 31, 2013 12:26 AM GMT
    sometimes its just affection and the need to be held are all thats required. Personally, I'm starved for affection, the touch of another man, his warmth, to be held and made to feel safe.... its not weird…
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    Oct 31, 2013 12:26 AM GMT
    thebearerofbadnews said
    JohnSpotter said
    taichiguy said
    Jaggal saidIt's no creepier than hookup sex, which is actually disgusting, rather than creepy.

    I think he meant clingy. Clingy can be creepy at times.

    It's clingy to want to be hugged and not go all the way every time?
    This group confounds me.


    some of these guys are so self centered that they become antisocial because they make the biggest deals out of the smallest social interactions. someone smiles and says good morning to them just being friendly. they think they're being hit on. icon_lol.gif they probably think that everybody wants their dick BUT not everybody in the world is gay and not every gay man and straight female is interested in them. some people just want to talk. some people need someone to hug them because they have no one else to hug. it's only creepy when someone pours their heart out to you when you didn't even ask.


    I would like to clear my name and let you no that i am actually a touchy feely person. I was simply trying to understand someone else view instead of judging.
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    Oct 31, 2013 12:29 AM GMT
    hairyandym saidsometimes its just affection and the need to be held are all thats required. Personally, I'm starved for affection, the touch of another man, his warmth, to be held and made to feel safe.... its not weird…


    OMG do not tease me. I would cuddle every hair on your body. On a serious note, why not try a massage. Its a great way to receive that needed touch in a very loving way.
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    Oct 31, 2013 12:30 AM GMT
    Paperless_Pen saidI was watching this program the other day and relationships in this decade they start hooking up and then they get serious. Sex is pleasurable I am sure but if you can cuddle you are definitely on my list.


    Doesn't you profile say you are already takenicon_rolleyes.gif Go cuddle with your man before he heads out to Target to buy a body pillow.
  • DBomb129

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    Oct 31, 2013 12:31 AM GMT
    I need to know you and like you as more than something physical that gives me pleasure to even consider that cuddling. I've had guys in bed and they wanna cuddle. No. Get out/we're done and I'm leaving. Sometimes, once is enough when you have a great vibe about someone and its perfect, but usually not.
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    Oct 31, 2013 12:36 AM GMT
    Get yourself to a nunnery or a temple! icon_redface.gificon_redface.gificon_lol.gif
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    Oct 31, 2013 12:37 AM GMT
    DBomb129 saidI need to know you and like you as more than something physical that gives me pleasure to even consider that cuddling. I've had guys in bed and they wanna cuddle. No. Get out/we're done and I'm leaving. Sometimes, once is enough you have a great vibe about someone and its perfect, but usually not.


    I just wanted a little TLC.
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    Oct 31, 2013 12:53 AM GMT
    woodsmen saidIt is the safest of sex but are you really going through life without penetrative sex?


    Yes, I think I'm doing OK without penetrative sex. I think physically intimacy doesn't always mean penetrative sex.